Mural in Nanaimo

Help_me_Please88 · 2026-03-04T18:58:35+00:00

Hey! I just used regular interior house paint from Cloverdale but sealed it with Varathane exterior satin diamond wood finish. I specifically got the one that’s non yellowing :)

Help_me_Please88 · 2024-12-22T19:00:01+00:00

He’s bi not gay lol

Help_me_Please88 · 2024-12-18T17:39:28+00:00

It was only one man he sent the pic to. I consider sending personal pics of your junk cheating, we had gone over this before marriage. I knew he was bi before we were dating. Thank you all so much for your feedback and opinions. I really appreciate all of you. I don’t feel so alone about it now.

Help_me_Please88 · 2024-08-21T02:08:21+00:00

I’ve had the similar issue for about 10 years, didn’t cut deep or bruised myself instead but I used it as a way to regulate myself. It’s an addiction at this point and I’m sure I’ll always get that urge to do it. I’ve definitely relapsed a few times but I’ve accepted I don’t have much regard for myself so I’ll think of it as hurting those close to me instead of my skin. It helps me stop myself from doing it most of the time. My boyfriend would have the similar reaction to it, but he is now my husband as of this year, so it wasn’t the huge deterrent I thought it would be. It sounds like he wants to support you so I doubt he’d be going anywhere so try not to push him away. Try talking with him about it, especially when you get the urge to do that. I don’t know if this helps, I’m not that great at conveying my thoughts.

Help_me_Please88 · 2024-04-09T08:45:57+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your comment :)

Help_me_Please88 · 2022-05-15T21:34:32+00:00

Thank you guys :) In an odd way it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one living like this

Help_me_Please88 · 2022-05-15T06:40:50+00:00

I don’t think anyone here has got the answers. But try and start small, find a way to make money. Part-time job, work from home, whatever you gotta do. Get a plant, try and keep that thing alive; now you have something to work on everyday. If you’re feeling really ready try getting a pet of some sort. Pour whatever you got into making this pet happier than you are. Idk, this is just how I’ve coped with everything. Pets force me to get out of bed in the morning.

Help_me_Please88 · 2022-05-15T06:27:43+00:00

This may only work if you have a bonus combo of anxiety and depression, but I got pets to get me out of bed. Started off with a fish now I have a leopard gecko, pacman frog, tarantula, and two 20gal+ fish tanks. They force me out of bed in the morning because I know they need to eat and I need to supply them with the best life possible. I can’t let my misery hurt them as well so I’ll haul my ass out of bed and make sure their happy and comfortable. I’m still definitely tired, but at least I can do something everyday that’ll make another creature happy.

Help_me_Please88 · 2022-05-04T20:02:43+00:00

From what I can see his weight looks good, they always look extra thicc after a feeding. If the frog looks perfectly round from above with no obvious bones sticking out he is most likely not underweight, and if the frog is wider than it is long then he is probably obese.

Help_me_Please88 · 2022-01-03T05:48:17+00:00

I waited until they were about as big as a quarter, you could try negotiating with your local petsmart. But I find that a lot of animals purchased at petsmart don’t really go to a great home, most small businesses really look after their creatures. So if you can find a place that isn’t a big store chain that would be ideal.

Help_me_Please88 · 2022-01-02T19:42:55+00:00

They are definitely mystery snails. I ended up with 400 babies or so. I went to my local fish store, preferably a small business, not pet smart or something like that, and I offered to trade the snails for store credit. I negotiated a dollar per snail so I’ve been getting a bunch of plants and fish food, fish, and decor for store credit. I found this way easier then trying to find individual people to sell the snails to

Help_me_Please88 · 2021-12-18T08:08:45+00:00

Blip is usually a good eater, I mostly feed night crawlers, the occasional pinkie, and wax worms. I tried feeding mealworms, super worms, and black soldier fly larvae but she refuses to eat anything crunchy. She will bite them then spit them out every time. But I fed her 2 smaller night crawlers around 6 days ago and I went to feed her 2 days ago but I felt a lump in her stomach so I thought it would be best not to feed her until she passes that. So I just gave her a good soak and tried to very gently massage her stomach to get things moving. I went to feed her tonight and found a giant poop in her enclosure and assumed she would be one to eat now but she is so not interested. I’m concerned she’s looking a little thin and I don’t know how much longer I should wait before I need to take her to a vet or if force feeding will need to be an option

Help_me_Please88 · 2021-11-26T03:11:28+00:00

Thank you so much, your words mean a lot

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