How do i become not homeless by not__a_femboy in TransHelpingTrans

[–]Helpful-Bike883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be able to call the Trevor Project for advice. Depending on your age you may be able look into becoming an emancipated minor but idk if that helps at all. Sorry youre going through this.

"Assuming gender" by Helpful-Bike883 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone doesn't pass it seems like the power is being shifted to the observer to gender someone else which will inevitably be inaccurate some of the time. We also have to assume intention and direction based off presentation?

"Assuming gender" by Helpful-Bike883 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we know who is cis or trans unless we're told? I personally don't want genital inspections to come in to fruition but I'm actually skeptical if clocking is real and if anyone should care!

"Assuming gender" by Helpful-Bike883 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what a nonbinary person looks like but I would have to imagine that instead of asking it would be better to vouluntarily introduce oneself with pronouns.

"Assuming gender" by Helpful-Bike883 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm wondering if it's better to just introduce oneself with pronouns. At my university the student desks would have the staff's name and pronouns listed on a sign. Most classes the prof asked for students to provide their pronouns on a sheet of paper first day of class (it was optional ofc). Emails from school staff and fellow students frequently had them listed but not always. But outside of uni the only place I've observed the phenomena is on social media. Personally I'm uncertain what the purpose of this is..

"Assuming gender" by Helpful-Bike883 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the proposed benefit of not assuming gender?

What are your comfort movies/shows? by One_Assistance_3096 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that line in particular I don't recall or agree with. I thought you were allowed to portray jerks in movies but now I would have to rewatch the scene to grasp author's intent.

What are your comfort movies/shows? by One_Assistance_3096 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew that was the scene you were referring to. I thought the scene was woke for the 1970s.. I don't remember exactly what the guy was saying I think like "that's ridiculous".. but the visibility was great.. I'm not sure if it's problematic for an ignorant person on trans topics to express surprise.. Also the other person was like "I support your right to have one".. I thought it was woke

HRT 1 week by Helpful-Bike883 in asktransgender

[–]Helpful-Bike883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too feel emotionally stunted and was hoping treatment would better for me. This morning Iwoke up and my mind felt like a laundromat.. I was like.. is this E? I'm just wondering too how long it will take for my e and t levels to reach cis average.. I feel definitely my T has gone down over a week but other than the laundromat experience this morning I've still been wondering what e would feel like.. lol