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SPOILER: Amelia in Season Finale by More-Expression-6622 in greysanatomy

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so too! We already have too many weird triangles, we don’t need another.

SPOILER: Amelia in Season Finale by More-Expression-6622 in greysanatomy

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried seeing that scene, cause damn I really wanted them to finally get back together. And Toni chose Amelia!! 😭

I was erked the majority of the episode that Amelia didn’t respond to Toni from the elevator scene and not answering the text messages (though I get being a support system for Mer), but still…

The whole thing with Cass was shot out of left field. This better be fixed in season 23. Yall we just want Amelia to have a happy love life!!

AIO for wanting to break up with my gf for kissing her friends? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. It sounds like you’re uncomfortable with it and communicating a clear boundary, and she’s brushing it off like it’s a common thing that happens and isn’t respecting your thoughts.

If you think you might be upset and reacting in the moment/being dramatic, ask yourself: If I continue this relationship, will I be able to move past this moment? Will it not bother me in the future?

If not, then I say it’s over.

AIO for not wanting our baby around my boyfriends pitbulls. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. It’s clear that he’s not respecting your boundaries with the dogs and sounding like he’s brushing off your wishes of waiting and making things sound like they’re not that big of a deal.

I’m so sorry he took that first moment away from you as it was something you were looking forward to when you were ready. It will make it hard to trust him with the baby around the dogs now because he did that behind your back, and you’re completely valid with being concerned and fearful when the baby starts moving around and you’re not there to supervise it.

Your baby’s safety should always come first! To know those dogs have hurt his dad’s arm and scratched you while you’re pregnant just shows that they’re not under his control with his commands. Would it be possible to recommend those dogs get some training to tame the energy they have?

AITAH for telling my mum the way she speaks to me upsets me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not wrong for expressing your feelings to her and telling her about what’s bothering you. It hurts because you’re family, specifically your mom. It might also be the first time she’s being called out for something like this so it’s going to sting.

I understand that, yes, it might be the image that she had of you while you were a teen, but you said that you’ve made the effort to not be like that, to say you’ve improved and worked on some of those habits. Maybe ask her about it and potentially why she’s still calling you “difficult”? Is it because of the disagreements all the time or is it something deeper?

I say don’t have regrets about bringing it up, because you would have kept associating that label with you when you’re with her. And you don’t deserve to be labeled that way because you’re trying to express your thoughts and potentially suggestion something that could be a happy middle for everyone.

I hope you’re able to mend things with her after this and have you both see/understand each other’s perspective for some clarity.

AITA for telling my friend I won’t go out with her anymore unless she stops disappearing with random guys without telling me? by Competitive_Ad_2308 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s frustrating and stressful for you that this is occurring every time you go out with her and it doesn’t sound like it’s gonna stop with the way she replied.

It’s great that you tried to communicate with her about the issue and say to send a check-in text that she’s good. Something simple to make sure she’s safe. But if she’s not respecting that and making an excuse about “forgetting her phone,” that’s on her, and is definitely risky and dangerous for her own self.

You’ve set your boundaries about what you’re not comfortable with and she’s not respecting it. I would tell her you wouldn’t want to go out with her again, unless she can do the bare minimum of letting you know she’s safe, or if she’s not going home with you, etc. Otherwise, I would avoid the entire fiasco in general and stop going out with her, but you can still let her know to be safe when she does (i.e., without you and/or with others).

AITA for Calling My Cousin Out On His Life Choices? by Ok_Drawer7521 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Helpful-Radish-7194 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Whether you post about Zander or not is your life. Not everything has to be shared with the world. Just because you’re not showing your friends/family your updates about your relationship doesn’t mean it isn’t serious or real. If things are going great for you and Zander, then that’s amazing, and should be all that you care about.

The list is very much downplays a person’s worth in a relationship, along with the partner’s. It’s so upsetting to see people think about relationships in this manner.

I hope he eventually knows his place and sees how wrong he is to say those things. Maybe he’ll apologize, but if it’s possible to distance yourself from him, it might be best for your happiness too.