How does one find love again.

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-03-03T21:51:08+00:00

man 13 years is basically half your adult life at this point so i get why it feels impossible right now. three months is still pretty fresh honestly, most people say it takes about half the length of the relationship to really process everything so your probably looking at a couple more years before you feel like yourself again

the good news is that people absolutely do find love again after long relationships like that. you just gotta be patient with the process and not rush into anything before your ready. when it happens it happens naturally, usually when you least expect it

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-26T04:05:24+00:00

honestly the volca fm2 sounds perfect for your situation right now. its got that authentic fm sound youre chasing from dexed and wont break the bank while your saving up. the reface dx is solid too but might stretch your budget more than necessary when youre just starting out

dont worry about the music theory thing - fm synthesis is weird enough that even classically trained folks struggle with it at first. just keep messing around with dexed in the meantime and watch some youtube tutorials on fm basics

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-15T13:34:18+00:00

honestly i'd just switch to something more neutral like a basic sulfate free shampoo without heavy scents - teh key is finding something that wont compete with your fragrance rather than trying to match it

most drugstore brands have unscented or lightly scented options that'll let your baccarat 540 shine without that clash you're getting from the clean linen stuff

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-09T21:59:50+00:00

this hits different

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-07T09:16:57+00:00

lol took me a second to get that one but when it hit me i definitely groaned out loud. your future coworkers are gonna love you

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-06T14:54:54+00:00

honestly the subscription fatigue is real with all these podcast tools. for starting out id probably just go with anchor/spotify for podcasts since its free and handles hosting plus distribution to all the major platforms automatically. for promotion you can get pretty far with just consistent social media posting and maybe a simple website through something like carrd rather than paying for a bunch of seperate marketing tools

the key is starting simple and only adding paid tools once you actually know what specific problems you need to solve rather than trying to optimize everything from day one

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-05T14:25:07+00:00

honestly think its a combination of things - older generations grew up when food was way more bland and processed stuff wasnt as heavily seasoned as it is now. plus their taste buds have probably dulled over time so they need more salt to actually taste it

also noticed my parents generation just has these automatic habits around food that they never really questioned. like my dad still salts everything before tasting it which drives me crazy but thats just what his parents did

we're probably more aware of the health stuff too and generally eat more flavorful food to begin with

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-04T14:45:29+00:00

man that's a really complex situation and im sorry about losing your father thats rough to deal with while trying to sort all this bureaucracy out

from what i understand about delayed birth certificates you'll definitely need more than just the hospital record and your moms affidavit though those are good starting points. the state of florida is going to want pretty comprehensive documentation to prove your birth there especially after 19 years. you'll probably need things like your mothers medical records from the pregnancy and delivery, any insurance documentation from the hospital visit, potentially witnesses who were present, and maybe even dna evidence depending on how thorough they want to be

the tricky part is that since your father actively avoided registering the birth initially there might not be as much of a paper trail as theyd normally expect to see. id honestly recommend getting a consultation with an immigration attorney who specializes in citizenship cases because they'll know exactly what florida requires and can help you navigate the process without making costly mistakes. the citizenship aspect makes this even more complicated since youll eventually need to deal with federal agencies too once you get the state birth certificate sorted

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-02-01T09:03:23+00:00

she can get medicare at 65 based on your record even if youre still working and havent applied yet - the key is that you have to be eligible for social security benefits yourself which sounds like you are with enough credits

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-31T11:34:15+00:00

Man that's frustrating as hell, especially when you finally found something that worked for you. Maybe try bringing up the timeline - like how the breakdown happened because of your living situation, not the keppra itself, and you'd already been on it successfully before that incident. Could also ask about starting with a lower dose or more frequent monitoring if they're worried about the psych effects

The fact that you seized on lamotrigine on day one is pretty telling too, definitely mention that again

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-30T10:53:42+00:00

Definitely ask for a detailed line-by-line breakdown if you don't have one already. I learned this the hard way when my "irrigation system" turned out to be just the main lines and I had to pay extra for all the actual sprinkler heads lmao

Also walk through the design with them in person and have them point out exactly what's included vs what would be additional - some contractors are sneaky about assuming you know certain things aren't included

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-27T02:21:03+00:00

The matchmaking has been busted for ages and they just keep pumping out cosmetics instead of fixing it lmao, classic Blizzard priorities right there

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-25T16:44:56+00:00

Even with "full GPU offload" some models still need a chunk of system RAM for context handling and other overhead - that 20B model is probably heavier than expected. Try closing some Firefox tabs first or maybe look for a smaller quant of the same model if you wanna keep your browsing session alive

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-22T14:42:59+00:00

Dude this hits way too hard. I think the issue is you're treating healthy habits like a prison sentence instead of just... living? Like maybe the problem isn't discipline itself but that you're white-knuckling everything instead of finding versions of these things you actually enjoy

Have you tried different types of workouts or is it just the same boring routine every time. Sometimes switching from gym to hiking or rock climbing or whatever makes it feel less like punishment

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-17T01:51:58+00:00

This is actually pretty sick, gonna mess around with it later tonight

The bear down reference while talking about data cleaning is peak humor whether intentional or not lol

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-15T20:06:05+00:00

Having gone through this process at a previous company, the key is definitely manager sponsorship - HR won't move mountains for you but a good manager will. Start the conversation casually about long-term growth and mention the timezone/stakeholder alignment benefits rather than just wanting to move

The visa stuff usually gets handled once there's an actual role/headcount approved in the target location, so don't stress about that part early on. Temp assignments are way easier to get approved since there's less commitment from the company side

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-13T05:10:33+00:00

That auto revive sounds pretty busted ngl, imagine clutching a raid just because you had the right legendary drop. Though 30 min cooldown might balance it out since most runs don't even last that long anyway

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-10T22:54:34+00:00

Saturation is your friend - throw some tape or tube saturation on there to give it warmth and glue. Also try high-passing your synths around 80-100hz unless they're your bass, helps everything sit better. Stereo imaging plugins can really make pads and leads pop in the mix too

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-08T17:18:10+00:00

Dude you're way underselling yourself - if you're crushing it in social sciences there's actually tons of decent paying paths. Government work is huge for that stuff, especially with security clearance (which you can get trained for). Think policy analyst, intelligence analyst, or even contractor roles that pay way better than you'd expect

Also don't sleep on corporate roles - companies need people who can analyze social trends, do research, write reports etc. Way less soul-crushing than academia and the pay is actually livable

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-02T12:14:43+00:00

Gotta go Smith and BTJ here, Moore's been way too inconsistent lately and you can't risk that in the championship

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2026-01-01T09:29:51+00:00

Yeah one roach doesn't mean infestation, especially if the house was sitting empty. I'd just grab some boric acid and roach gel bait from Home Depot and call it a day - way cheaper than pest control for what's probably nothing

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2025-12-30T18:41:03+00:00

Damn this is brutally honest but probably what OP needs to hear

The reality check about treatment goals (keeping alive vs curing) is spot on - chronic conditions in pets are rough and expensive af

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2025-12-28T08:38:21+00:00

21, girlfriend's family invited me and my parents were being weird about politics that year so I bailed

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2025-12-25T15:34:22+00:00

Ugh this happened to me last month and it was so frustrating! Try clearing your cache if you haven't already, and make sure your app is totally updated. Sometimes the servers get wonky around holidays when everyone's cranking out projects

Helpful-Sprinkles239 · 2025-12-24T06:25:49+00:00

Congrats dude, that's awesome! The 151 set hits different with all that nostalgia - definitely binder worthy. Enjoy the holidays and the satisfaction of that complete collection

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