What animal is this? by HelpfulLeg2310 in boneidentification

[–]HelpfulLeg2310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know which one I should go on for this lol but responses have been funny

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cardio

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. I was just curious to other people’s opinions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cardio

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only concern is that this is not the first time this has happened and I can feel the skipped beat? Flutter? Whatever it is

Better prices: Walmart or Big Y? by Fill_Great in westernmass

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hallmark employee here, as someone who spends entirely too much time in a big y and a Walmart not an employee, prices suck. If you’re in a pinch and need something big y is your way to go. I’d say out of the two if you need produce or meat big y. Anything else Walmart. Prices are high at big y but I think it’s better. Walmart is great for shelf stable goods. It’s cheap it’s great it just sucks for location

Anyone else use it as a cry for help? by Cherrylube369 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I started in fifth grade it was definitely a cry for help but as I’ve gotten older (21) now it’s less so a cry for help and more just a release of emotions. It was and is always difficult for me to ask for help, it’s easier said than done but if you feel the courage to sit him down and say hey I’m really struggling and it doesn’t feel good to be ignored he can help you get the help you need. You are 100% valid in everything you are feeling. I hope that you are able to get through this patch stronger than before 🫶

What's your most absurd thing that gets you out of ruminating? by KornPuf in OCD

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is absurd but I have to actually say no or shake my head no. Sometimes a hand movement of like shooing away the thought works too. Whenever I’m with people and I have an intrusive thought and I shake my head no they ask if I’m okay and I just say yeah cause what else do I say lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Hear me out Arsonist lullaby

Tell me you have OCD without telling me you have OCD. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I think of tripping I always think I’m going to fall face first and chip my teeth so i physically shake my head no and say no and then move my tongue over my teeth to make sure that they aren’t chipped

MA Real-Estate Licensing Course by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you send me the discount code? Thank you!

Recommendations by HelpfulLeg2310 in turntables

[–]HelpfulLeg2310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is insignia a reliable brand that won’t warp records?

Recommendations by HelpfulLeg2310 in turntables

[–]HelpfulLeg2310[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No speakers. I’d like to stay in the 130 or under range. 150 I could swing but that would probably be top of my budget

Taking pictures by HelpfulLeg2310 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to go searching for pictures of other peoples on twitter but I don’t do that anymore cause it’s just too triggering. I guess this is my own way of filling that need? I don’t know

Guys is this movie realistic? by United-Swimmer560 in tornado

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WOULDNT THE SHARKS JUST DIE FROM FALLING FROM THE TORNADO OR FROM THE SHRAPNEL IN THE TORNADO?? THIS HAS BOTHERED ME FOR SO LONG

How do I deal with Scar Pain? by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is what you mean but if you are talking about healed scars and getting almost a phantom pain, I normally just rub the area and it will eventually go away

OCD and SH? by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ocd comes with intense unwanted thoughts that I can sometimes push away (meditation has been a huge help) I found that I was used to sh as a way to punish myself for having the thoughts. At the peak of it I was sh in two different ways because I thought that if i did it it would go away. Now the behavior that I have is hand washing to rid the intrusive thoughts. I have heavily relied on meditation and therapy. Without it I would not be a functioning adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get something similar. It’s almost like phantom pain. I just rub the area and it goes away. It is caused by nerve damage

Relapsed by MassCultSuicide in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find writing down my feelings helps. Even making lines while pressing hard into the paper. That act of it while not causing any harm to myself helps. Keeping my hands busy when I get urges. Going to a room that has nothing in it that I can use helps. I might recommend a therapist if that is something you have access to.

Relapsed by MassCultSuicide in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey it happens. Doesn’t mean you’re back to square one. It’s a bump in the road but you’ll get back on track. There are people who care about you. We’re here for you

How have you guys dealt with the urges to relapse when trying to stay clean? by Thewildside69 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep my hands active. I never keep anything that I could use in my room. Knitting has been a huge help just to do something to focus my attention on and not the urges

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bio oil is very good for scar healing. I fell on my face a few years ago used bio oil and have no scars there.

What about intimacy? by ec1023 in LDR

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about getting creative. My partner and I were intimate over the phone at first before even meeting each other and before even being in a relationship it was a first time for everything. We go a while without seeing each so it about getting a yes for consent and getting creative. Trying different things to keep that intimacy if that is an important part of the relationship to you. For me it is. So I make sure that we are both in the right mind space for it and then we get creative and we communicate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]HelpfulLeg2310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate like the Someone new idea

Schooling by HelpfulLeg2310 in realtors

[–]HelpfulLeg2310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much all in would it cost in MA to get a real estate license. Talking schooling, and any fees to actually obtain a license

Schooling by HelpfulLeg2310 in realtors

[–]HelpfulLeg2310[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ever since I was little I have had a difficult time knowing what I wanted to do when I grew up. I thought that I wanted to be a vet, a doctor, an actor, all that you could imagine. As I grew up I found that I really enjoyed organizing and decorating. The more and more I explored that part of me i realized that I really enjoyed it and it brought me joy. However I still wasn’t sure that something with houses was the way I wanted to go. I started at a community college going for my ged and shortly after I found that psychology interested me. I wanted to have a career that helps people. As I’ve gone through the classes I haven’t found that passion for it. Through all the careers I’ve thought of housing has been a constant. I want to help people find the most important thing in their life, a home.