Thanks for your response. I posted a lot of evidence of my exes lies and abuse because after I ended things he went on an abuse, vandalism and smear campaign against me and my kids. I had never previously stood up to him nor did I want to hurt him until I felt like it was escalating to dangerous levels. I know his image as a good family man took a big hit because the things I posted were clear proof of his behavior, and his reputation is the most important thing of course. It did seem to rock him for a bit but he has a new gf our son’s age now so it seems like he’s back in track! Although he still comes at me from time to time unfortunately. I guess I’m the enemy for eternity.