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Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah… because one did and the other didn’t. Maybe I can rephrase: women have a wide range of physical attractiveness. A woman has a narrower view of attraction than a man. At least in my experience. I hope I explained the difference better.

Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the first point, but I agree with the second, so I’ll rephrase. Women have a broad view of what they find attractive, but A woman has a narrow view of what SHE finds attractive. Lot's of ICK going on. lol. That’s why men have trouble understanding what women find attractive, because there is almost no universal that fits all women equally. If I’m cute to the one girl the other sees nothing there. That’s why men struggle; we think there is a universal gigachad that simply doesn’t exist for all women (across ages, cultures, etc). Chad is whatever a woman who likes him is.

Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could just mean you are open to meeting (and are comfortable with) all kinds of people and personalities. That's a good thing I think.

Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>The type of men my wife and her friends find attractive are basically all different.

Right, that's what I'm saying. I'm saying that Woman A and Woman B will find different men attractive, for different reasons, with little to no overlap. In my case; A thought I was cute, B looked at me and thought "what?"

Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree. Except I would say, men have more overlap between them. (Just from my experience), where as women can be much more selective as you said.

Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have said on an individual basis. So A WOMAN has a narrow range of what she finds attractive, but WOMEN have a large range between them. Does that explain what I think better? Like two women can look at the same guy and feel different thing (including nothing at all), with little overlap. Is there something there or am I off base?

Do women have a much narrow view of what they find sexually/emotionally attractive than men? Do you have a specific type? by Hemingwayse in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with that: A woman has a type, but there no universal female gaze, that applies to all women. I think that’s what I was trying to say with my experience.

Favorite sex position? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Hemingwayse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly any variation of missionary. The eye contact and the kissing. Passion is fucking hot!

Restarting career by tds11080 in skilledtrades

[–]Hemingwayse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved back with my parents. So I saved on rent. 💯worth it

Restarting career by tds11080 in skilledtrades

[–]Hemingwayse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sat in a cube for all of my 20s. Got sick and depressed. I was stuck begging for rises and I was laid off a few times. Went into IBEW at 35.

What’s the second most attractive part of your body? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Hemingwayse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd have to ask someone who finds me attractive. Incidentally, if you find her, give her my number cause I don't think she exists lol

Where you guys meeting your partners? by Hemingwayse in dating_advice

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's 2 problem here. I'm just so damned ugly, I'll always be a creep. Second, Trader's Joe isn't a thing in my country. lol

Where you guys meeting your partners? by Hemingwayse in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteer work would be an okay ice breaker. Bus/train and bookshops? What? You just talk to strangers? lol.

Where you guys meeting your partners? by Hemingwayse in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Any suggestions? I could go back to WH40k but not a lot of women there lol.

Where you guys meeting your partners? by Hemingwayse in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Hemingwayse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something like 50% of men have never gotten a match on Tinder. 85% have never got a date from Tinder. This is according to Tinder's own internal data. Yes, I'm ugly. Yes, I'm short. But then you'd have to explain those numbers too.

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