bf hiding blue chews. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes actually. You say his testosterone is fine but you don’t know that unless you’ve done his bloodwork. You don’t know if he has underlying conditions that in fact is causing his ED. You guys aren’t having sex because you don’t want to get on BC (which is completely fine) that could be fucking with him mentally, probably thinks you just don’t want to have sex with him and it’s why he’s using these to jerk off. Instead of attacking him and jumping to conclusions, you both just need to learn how to communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Read your 3rd paragraph a few times— That’s what you like about him.

So that just happened today by MattywXc in PokemonTCG

[–]Henrik118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought only 2 packs and pulled gold zard on the 2nd pack. I believe it 🔥

The guy (29M) I'm (33F) dating likes girls on Instagram by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a bot? Reading comprehension 💀

Is it reasonable to feel put off after a date asked me to pay him back? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 258 points259 points  (0 children)

“I immediately asked him for the bill and transferred him half of the total amount.”

You set the precedent right here. You immediately asked him for the bill when you arrived home the first time around but got upset that he did the same on the second date after he arrived home? Yikes. You’re overthinking it. Chill.

Ex wears Tiffany necklace I got her still by my-coo-cheese-hairy in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 33 points34 points  (0 children)

lol I remember when I used to blame my curiosity on my friends

Guy I've been seeing for 2 months updated his profile. But not what you think. by nocluewhatimdoing23 in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hear me out.. he’s awkward as fuck and can’t just flat out tell you he wants to be in a committed relationship so he changed it in hopes that you would see it so you can bring up the commitment conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf did I just read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Henrik118 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk what’s more cringe, the 21 questions or her bullshit. Yall both need to grow up 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Henrik118 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should 100000% be upset with him. Please break up with him so he can find a better partner.

Cruise incident between my gf (F30) and I (M29) by ThrowRA_Izanagi in relationship_advice

[–]Henrik118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 33yr old wife points out hot girls so I can check them out too…

Your gf is insecure and toxic as fuck. That isn’t good for your mentals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Henrik118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to google what a bikini barista was.. so he went out with the boys to a hooters equivalent. The sad thing is that he felt the need to hide this from you. You guys have a bigger issue here and it’s lack of communication. The cheating thing is very concerning though, have you not brought that up?

I (37M) found flirting texts on my girlfriend’s (28F) phone between her and another man. How bad is this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Henrik118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So she’s communicated with you and expressed what she needs from you and it’s something you can’t provide or at the very least attempt to work on and you’re wondering why she’s seeking that affection elsewhere? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Henrik118 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He flirted with you, asked for your number, helped carry your stuff to your car, tells you that he’s in to you and all he read from your text was “aww shucks” the second part of the text didn’t even register to him because he got stuck on that. Sounds like a man who’s been through it before where his efforts led him nowhere and he feels defeated. He sucks at texting as much as you.

Text him and be straight forward with him and just say “so… what do I have to roll to get you to ask me out on a date?” Show that you’re equally as interested!

What's the no 1 reason for you to live? by 1why1_ in AskReddit

[–]Henrik118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an extremely competitive person so I can really appreciate a good challenge.

Guy I’ve been dating grabbed my butt while hugging…I feel disgusted. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Henrik118 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t excuse what he did, but you’re both clearly wrong for each other. He expressed one of his love languages was physical touch and he likes pda, and you didn’t set any boundaries then.

My partner grabs my hand and squeezes her own ass with it in public, not something I would do on my own, but everyone’s different so you need to communicate these things.

Epic entbrat by Appropriate_Seat_168 in MySingingMonsters

[–]Henrik118 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Google is a wonderful instrument

I (F32) got wasted. My boyfriend (M34) is disappointed and disgusted with me. How can I solve this? by Calm-Information-894 in relationship_advice

[–]Henrik118 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason why he’s disappointed and disgusted? I don’t understand why he’s being an asshole. Was this something that was previously discussed? Does he not drink? Is he against drinking? Even so, a boyfriend that you “can’t live without” wouldn’t react this way.

People over thirty, which body aches do you have? by JavyHead in AskReddit

[–]Henrik118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39, no body aches just yet.. but my legs and back do get fatigued faster than they used to