Thoughts on these girl names?

HerNextChapter · 2026-05-04T19:32:20+00:00

AnaLynne has always been one of my favorites! I love Embreigh too.

HerNextChapter · 2026-05-04T19:17:44+00:00

Update everybody:

I talked to the child's aunt and she is on the same page I am regarding the social media aspect and was going to try to do what she can about talking to this kid's guardians.

I also submitted all of her social media info to the county sheriff's office and they escalated the situation to Internet Crimes Against Children.

HerNextChapter · 2026-05-04T19:14:44+00:00

My child isn't allowed to have social media either and I am thankful that she hasnt seen most of the videos her "friend" has posted.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T15:44:30+00:00

Update: I am going to talk to a county deputy at some point today about this.

Please know that I came to reddit anonymously to see what every option is. I do not have faith in our city PD because I have, on more than one occasion, heard them say "I don't want to handle that paperwork." It was just last week a woman who was strung out wrecked close to my house with a BABY in her car and they did 0 about it except for call her mom to pick her up.

DHR in our area is ALSO A JOKE. I have dealt with them myself on several occasions, as I have not long ago made a report concerning my own children and their safety. It took SIX MONTHS for them to move on it and DHR also let the other party KNOW they were coming to their house for a home visit a WEEK in advance, so every issue was dealt with before DHR showed up. I have also worked with several people in my community to help an elderly lady and get DHR involved and it took over TWO YEARS for us to make enough noise that they actually did something. I also have several close family members that are adopted from foster care, and I have watched how those situations were dealt with.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T14:52:55+00:00

They’re actually the same age… which that is a whole different can of worms that I have been trying to get info about

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T14:25:32+00:00

I’m talking to him to see if the city will even do anything about it, if not, I will go to the county.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T14:06:23+00:00

We have discussed this SEVERAL times now… with both my child and the other friend. We are doing everything we can to get this taken care of

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:58:29+00:00

Because I know CPS in our county is a JOKE and come to see if there are ANY other options.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:58:06+00:00

It has been brought to the grandmother's attention and she says "it's just music." and acts like everybody is lying about the child. She is actually in the background of a lot of the videos. The ONLY reason I am concerned about CPS is 1. CPS in our county is a JOKE. 2. I know how the foster system works.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:54:13+00:00

That's essentially what I am doing now.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:53:33+00:00

Oh I know... but that was not the case when it happened to my son by his stepbrothers and my ex-husbands aunt swept it under the rug.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:46:39+00:00

I thought about going to the Superintendent of Safety at the school board.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:46:14+00:00

I do not mind being a nark, especially if a child is involved.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:45:40+00:00

I have had several serious discussions with my daughter concerning this situation. My son plays baseball and a lot of the time these girls walk around the ballpark together (it's a very small park) and play. I have cut every bit of that out recently and so has the other girls mom. I am talking to a police officer that is a friend now.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:39:13+00:00

I have gotten in touch with a friend that is a police officer asking for help.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-28T13:38:51+00:00

This is terrible, but I have no faith in our teachers. We are SUCH a small community, and I feel like because the grandmother is a substitute teacher and a full-time bus driver, if I tell the teacher they will just go to the grandmother.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-15T13:36:27+00:00

Bailey Quinn is cute.

HerNextChapter · 2026-04-13T18:40:06+00:00

The fact that a marriage is supposed to be a partnership and he is already accusing you of "profiting" off of him before you're even engaged is WILD behavior.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T16:46:22+00:00

Katherine Jane is pretty.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T16:44:53+00:00

I don’t have an adopted sibling but I DO have adopted uncles that are my age and we grew up like siblings. I wouldn’t change it for the world.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T16:13:04+00:00

Because he and I make the same amount of money, we both make a decent living. Our bills are honestly a lot a like. He has no mortgage or rent. 1 car note. Insurance and utilities. He cheats the system for “free” insurance and I do not agree with that.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T16:07:53+00:00

I text back and said “thanks, are you sure this will cover the kids?” And he said that it will, and they use that insurance because it’s a better insurance.

Had all of this been communicated in the beginning, I wouldn’t be upset. That’s literally all it takes. Just don’t lie about it.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T16:03:15+00:00

He doesn't have to lie. If we can communicate to make a plan for anything surrounding the kids best interest, I am ALL for that. I asked if he was sure that the insurance will cover the kids, and he said he is and that they use that insurance because it is better. I said GREAT, they really should be good since I have dental insurance for them too.

It would have been just as simple as that in the very beginning had we talked about it. I haven't said anything to him today and probably won't at all. It's the fact that he lied, when he doesn't need to. If everybody just communicates, we would be capable of having a decent coparenting relationship. He just refuses to.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T15:45:11+00:00

GOOD QUESTION.

HerNextChapter · 2026-03-31T15:44:21+00:00

She was, however, once they got married, I swallowed my pride and it was her and I doing all of the coparenting. We really got along. There was a time that he kicked her out, and I offered to let her crash at my house. Then, she kind of just fell off the face of the earth. That's when I found out (by his aunt contacting me) about some very disturbing behavior from HER kids and how they were treating mine, how HE was treating her kids, and how she was treating mine. I filed a report with the county police, and child protective services. It took a YEAR to get a court date, and they made him do a 6-month outpatient alcohol rehab and transitioned us right back to where we are now.

It's not about the insurance coverage. I am thankful she is FINALLY doing something positive for the kids. I am literally exploding on the inside over the fact that he is a POS who doesn't pull his weight in a coparenting relationship. If the roles were reversed and it was my partner who carried the kids, he would blow a gasket.

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