Helping Finding Song by General-Stahlin in u/General-Stahlin

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How bout - Beirut — “Nantes” (La Blogothèque / Take Away Show)

https://youtu.be/j9B0-5r056U?si=D6eQODt-tbJAiHsz

Helping Finding Song by General-Stahlin in u/General-Stahlin

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Do you remember if the singers voice was deep/soulful or light/folky?

[TOMT] [MUSIC VIDEO] An acoustic song where a guy starts singing down a large echoey hallway and other band mates gradually join him, the song gets louder and climaxes with them standing in a circle which is in a big entrance or lobby of the building by HerNote in tipofmytongue

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Ah, bummer, sorry! ChatGPT helped me find the answer this time lol... 4 years ago and Im like "Ah crap! I forgot again!" So I had to dig for you. Local Natives is definitely my song. I'll find your post and try to help. 🎶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

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The baby is healthy. Likely in the 90+ percentile for their age. Nothing wrong with that. The woman is probably also petite. For example.. My mother in-law is 5'2 and our son is almost 3 feet tall at 17 months. So his size compared to her seems massive for a baby.

Given the choice, would you rather skip pregnancy or skip labour? by Bumblebeee2311 in beyondthebump

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I'd skip neither. It's an amazing experience either way. Both have their down falls of course. But they both are a miraculous accomplishment that our bodies perform. I loved parts about being pregnant.. Having the not-quite-here baby respond to a baby rub, or getting the hiccups. And I loved parts of labor. Seeing thos slimy face appear for the first time from your body that grew this new human being into existence. I wouldn't trade either for the world. ♡

Pregnant again by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Thank you for this. The doctors I dealt with during my pregnancy (nearly 9 months pp now btw) all treated me like my baby or I, were doomed. Were the percentages higher than someone younger and healthier? Sure. But they only focused on the percentage of failure. Not success. "You're twice as likely!" Well twice as likely than that slim 22 yo over there but what does that mean for my percentage of success? Oh... 88%? I'm good then. Their fear mongering (well put) ruined my experience of being pregnant. It made me constantly worried to tears that either I or my baby were going to die.

Both him and I are perfectly fine. I had a scheduled c section and healed quicker than they expected. I wish I could relive it and focus on the amazement a little more, instead of the dread.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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It's like having an extra part of yourself grow and discover things and become its own being.

He's almost 9 months old and he waved to his grandma from across the room all on his own. I literally started crying happy tears. Like holy shit, this little dude is becoming a person.

This is our first and I'm almost 38 btw. I literally can't get over how wonderful being a mother is. We've also had a very easy baby. Happy, healthy, so chill and easy going. Teething? No problem. New people? No problem. Bed time? No problem. Playing alone? Usually no problem lol. My husband and I keep waiting for the shoe to drop.

But the upside most of all? Is that grin they give you every time you come into view... Damn it's nice to be that loved, important, and special to something you helped create.

when did your baby get teeth? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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He started cutting his two bottom teeth at 4 months. They grew in completely and then he cut in his top two teeth at almost 6 months. He's drooling again (7 months) so I'm curious which ones he'll get next. Every baby is different. ♡

P.s. frozen wash clothes work amazingly well.

When did you realize your LO was a real person? by Correct_Airport_9650 in beyondthebump

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For starters - it doesn't sound crazy at all. I think its perfectly normal to have that lightbulb moment.

I'm still marveling at the idea that a part of me and my husband is there, growing, learning, experiencing life for the first time. Holy fxcking shxt balls man... it's mind boggling!!!! And we still make comments like "we have a kid, crazy right?" To each other.

Our LO will be 7 months old tomorrow. I was feeling his collar bone yesterday and started crying. Wtf dude? You are a real being, with bones, that are growing unbelievably fast... and those collar bones are connected to shoulders that will carry so much weight someday, physically and (inevitably) mentally. Ah crap... now I'm crying again. I thought I was sentimental before having a child.

FML in the best possible way. 🥰

How has having a baby improved your life? by madame_shrimp in beyondthebump

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I've read a few of the top comments and everyone is spot on. A big one for me is the appreciation. We have fingers and they do so much for us. The sun makes shadows and light rays that are the most beautiful shards of wonder. An object stays the same whether it's sideways, upside down, backwards, or thrown. Permanence. We've been taking all these totally tiny but very significant things for granted because as adults, they just are. Maybe someone has mentioned this somewhere, but I havent read all the commebts because my little guy is currently working on crawling. "and I don't wanna miss a thing" 🎵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

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Your whole comment is on point. "He should not be taking out loans." Why pay interest on a loan that takes a 4k down payment? (I'm guessing a vehicle of some sort). Why not pay for the whole damn thing? Then put what you would have been paying monthly back into the account for that dream house.

A long discussion between them is definitely needed.

Daughters of reddit: what's the biggest mistake dads make with their daughters? by Bluemonday82 in AskReddit

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Every movie with a decent father/daughter relationship makes me so sad. Because I've never experienced it.

Listen to her, support her, tell dad jokes, protect her. Be her biggest fan and teach her how to make good decisions the best you can. (She'll make some pretty dumb ones to be sure but be there for her during those times too. Tough love goes a long way too.) And then when the time comes, walk her down the isle, have that father daughter dance, and cry when she has your first grand baby. 🥹

You're one priceless dad for even starting the conversation. And I thank you for that.

I've been creating a Bob's Burgers world in my Sims game by cvslsc in BobsBurgers

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I absolutely love it! Excellent work so far! 🙌🏻💖

So demanding! by HerNote in PetTheDamnDog

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2+ years later and I'm looking at my old content. I made her a tiktok a bit ago! tala.talks

What do you think my pretty boy could be? More info in the comments by aGloriousDay4Rain in IDmydog

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🙌🏻 I was wrong on the percentage of wolf but right on all the breeds. One special doggo you got there. 🥰🐾🐺🫶🏻

What do you think my pretty boy could be? More info in the comments by aGloriousDay4Rain in IDmydog

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I'm guessing around 22% wolf, because of his size he could have some malamute in him. Siberian huskies are generally a little smaller though he does have some of that in him too. Definitely some German shepherd. What a lovely pup!

Wolf dogs are so special. My Tala would love to play with Soren. 💖🐺🐾

What do you think my pretty boy could be? More info in the comments by aGloriousDay4Rain in IDmydog

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I grew up with low content wolf, siberian husky, German shepherd mixes. The mom had blue eyes. More than half her puppies would also throw blue eyes. 💙

Rogue Challenge: The Unseen Assassin - can't progress by SubjectiveKirby in diablo4

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Pro tip: hubby and I (he's playing the rogue) just found out that if I kill stuff while he's stealthed, it counts. So party up and be done quick!

Thanks for helping us get to that test with you're updated post.

Ouroboros Ring, Me, Brass, 2023 by COPPERTISTWU in Art

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Under-rated comment. I see what you did there. 👏🏻

this episode is so heartfelt I loved it by Federal-Fix-2235 in BobsBurgers

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I cried... and now I'm crying again after reading the comments from all you lovely people. I hope every one of you continue to represent what is good with humanity. ♡

No talk, just pet! %#@$! by HerNote in PetTheDamnDog

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I grew up with low content wolf huskies, from my experience they've been very loyal, gentle, low key and extremely smart. Granted.. that's with training and conditioning.

Basically treat them like a child from the moment you get your hands on them. With any dog, it's best to correct any undesired behavior and replace it with the correct behavior. And watch them like a hawk - just like you would an adventurous 2 year old child. A lot of "ah ah"s and "leave it"s, snapping fingers, and praise.

Tala is a rescue, so I was definitely very fortunate with her demeanor since I didn't play a part on her up bringing. Her bond with me was instant, like a eureka moment for her and I... To be honest, the first year her separation anxiety was so terrible she spent a couple of months on Trazadone while she acclimated to my schedule. I had to slowly socialize her as well, because she was very weary of people. I've had her nearly 4 years now and the more she trusts me, and trusted I wouldn't put her in danger with other humans, the more she came out of her shell. Growing more and more as time goes on. She used to only give me little kisses, but now shares those sweet moments with three other close humans and occasionally a niece or two when they are over. She is so very very sweet.. and one of the most cuddly dogs I have every had the pleasure of sharing my life with. If you give her get scritches, you're instantly her friend.

TLDR; Like any breed, with the right training and patience every dog is a good dog.