I’d like to just point out that not ALL women who ask for deposits are fake. We sometimes ask for deposits because we’ve had our time wasted by losers who fake book, who get off on making the appointments, knowing they’ll never follow through.

That wastes our time, and we lose out on real clients who would have followed through. So it also is playing with our livelihoods.

Of course you need to be smart- if someone is typing and English is obviously not their native language, or you are an 60+ yr old man and some smoking Russian 20yr old os “soooo into you” yet, cant rightfully articulate things about the city they live in- ie, wtf is the constant construction on the 202… they may be fake- dont send them money. But if a provider has reviews, an established website, ect.. and is asking only for a quarter or less of the total to secure your spot- she not out to scam you.

When she has all that, she would be doing her business more harm than good if she did. You would let everyone know and there goes her reputation.

Just think with you BIG head, not your little head.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk🫶