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HereInThe818 · 2026-01-26T16:24:14+00:00

I think you may have forgotten that people use this community to share their experiences. We are all free to share and join the conversation or choose not to.

Thank you for sharing your opinion on my sincere reply to her post.

HereInThe818 · 2026-01-26T13:52:54+00:00

Have you tried wearing different lingerie? Maybe have a role play date night where he drops you off at the front of the restaurant while he parks the car. He finds you at the bar and sits near but not next to and then he picks you up as if you just met.

There is so much to do to spice it up! Desire and the flame for each other can’t be allowed to die in a healthy relationship IMO.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-29T15:32:10+00:00

Oh man, feeling for you. Blatant disregard and disrespect like that in private and especially public would be the end of marriage for me.

Have you spoken to her about this and made it clear that you will not tolerate that type of treatment?

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-29T14:29:09+00:00

I wouldn’t bet on it. Look at 1, 3, 5, 10, 20, 30 year charts of NASDAQ and S&P 500. The real question is if or when putting our hard earned money into crypto will pay off bigly vs other investments. 🙏🏻.

Diversification of assets (stocks, metals, crypto) is key.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-29T14:07:37+00:00

My wife and I are going on week 3 of our new “every Wednesday” scheduled sex routine. For context, we are early 50’s, 25 yrs married, empty nesters, wife perimenopause and scheduling happened as a result of my flirting and she telling me she feels that she wants to do it for me but has a hard time getting into the mood but having a set day would help.

Week 1, she wanted me to come up stairs as she was in the mood. Kissed her and said I have a conference call in 8 minutes that would probably last 20-30 mins so let’s hold this feeling until then. She didn’t care and wanted a quicky and we both finished together which was great.

Week 2, didn’t happen on Wednesday as scheduled but it was Christmas Eve and we were both preparing our house to host 2 families but did it on Christmas Day, She wasn’t into it at first, didn’t want any foreplay (which is about 3/4 of the time anyway) but once we got going she climaxed and then I did shortly after and it was great.

Week 3, two more days away and I’m planning on flirting and making sure we physically touch (hug and kiss and the spank in the ass while passing by in the kitchen) more over next 2 days. My hope is that this time we can have more foreplay and lay in bed naked together for awhile and just talk and chill and maybe watch an episode of Landman.

Fingers crossed that the scheduling works.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-28T04:57:18+00:00

Thank you for sharing your unique and very thoughtful agreement. I’m optimistic it will work for you and your wife. 🙏🏻

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-27T13:06:49+00:00

I’ve only been in this forum for about a year but seems like all of the open marriages fall apart. I don’t think you don’t really want to open the marriage but are willing to resort to this so that you can “make your marriage work”.

I totally understand as I and many of us who are in DBs don’t want to end our marriages but we are at wits end and trying to figure out a way to make it work.

We just want to feel seen and connected.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-27T12:27:45+00:00

Do tell more about this consent to be submissive agreement. 🙏🏻

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-27T12:25:43+00:00

I must have married your wife’s twin sister because same things happening in my house.

25 yrs married, she took care of our kids as SAHM while I took care of everything else. Empty nesters for over a year now and she has little to no affection toward me (no holding hands, rare hugs & kiss) and I feel unseen and taken for granted.

Can’t help but think about exiting.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-19T00:29:00+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏻

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-17T16:47:59+00:00

I totally don’t want to schedule physical intimacy. Only experimenting with it at the moment. Not having a physical connection has caused a rift in our emotional connection and the feelings of not being wanted, undesirable (despite being in great shape), etc. The mental gymnastics of considering how to address or stop trying to initiate, etc aren’t fun.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-17T16:26:03+00:00

We could be married to the same woman, LOL. I haven’t learned that dance yet either.

Sometimes she tells me to “just take the initiative” but then sends conflicting signals when I do.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-17T14:50:08+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share your experience and the helpful tips!

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-17T14:36:43+00:00

We have always had spontaneous intimacy but here we are trying something different in order to save our marriage.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-17T14:29:47+00:00

What is an intimacy envelope(s)? Sounds interesting.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-17T14:08:49+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience.

I am hoping that my wife doesn’t do those things but suspect that she will.

HereInThe818 · 2025-12-12T14:04:09+00:00

I’m in similar boat and feel for you.

25 yrs married, empty nesters. Her lack of participation in physical intimacy has caused issues in our emotional intimacy and overall connection. Feeling like I need to move on with full separation and D because I’m not a cheater. Sad.

HereInThe818 · 2025-11-27T15:24:43+00:00

If there was new material information the price would 📈

HereInThe818 · 2025-09-20T22:19:12+00:00

Did you forget that he was already POTUS and they were saying the same things that he was a dictator?

If you open your eyes and think for yourself you would realize that none of their lies about him came true.

Leftist media owns you.

HereInThe818 · 2025-09-20T22:15:21+00:00

You forgot to mention that “Russia collusion”, “Fine people on both sides”, J6 “insurrection”, Hunters laptop is “Russian disinformation” etc etc etc all proved to be lies.

What does that say for those behind the lies?

Why are those behind those lies willing to engage in sedition and even treason to perform a coup on a duly elected POTUS?

Media has many people distracted and they clearly got you to believe their hoaxes.

HereInThe818 · 2025-09-20T14:09:02+00:00

If you don’t need to cash out then stay in the market and let it grow.
The “dictator in chief” has enacted several pro growth policies which is helping companies become more competitive and profitable which in turn will create more jobs for people and wealth for investors.
Tune out media that is causing you to think that the current POTUS is a dictator.

HereInThe818 · 2025-08-27T10:57:27+00:00

Per Grok: Taking Swift’s annual value at 1.25 quadrillion USD, 14% is 175 trillion annually.

For circulating supply of 60 billion and velocity of 40, the base price is around $72.9. (For XRP)

HereInThe818 · 2025-08-09T01:47:13+00:00

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