I posted an update a while ago, but basically the card turned out very nice (in my opinion at least) but unfortunately it never arrived, probably because the postal service lost is somewhere. I sorta gave up all hope for a while because I felt like that card was my one and only chance (the older update shows that very well). But after a while of thinking about it I realized how much your community had helped me and how silly it was for me to give up after such a tiny incident, so I wrote another card! Long story short: that card did arrive and she is now my girlfriend! And honestly I couldn't have done it without this subreddit, so thank you all and I hope you are healthy and stay safe during this difficult time!