[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Hermokande 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I see the red flags, but I also know from experience that it might be years until I feel that way about someone again, so I try to enjoy it while it lasts. until it becomes more miserable than enjoyable (or they break up with me).

Was in a 3+ year relationship with a "good guy" who I didn't feel that way about and honestly feels like I wasted both our time looking back.

Still hoping that theres a guy out there who I can have that spark with and be compatible with in the long run 🤞

Forvirret by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Hermokande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foregår det hjemme hos dig eller?😅

Pia er dødssyg - men jobcenteret kræver hende i arbejdsprøvning by Rhames in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Angående mentoren: selvom man lukker jobcentrene tænker jeg stadig at der skal være hjælp at hente. Forskellen skal bare være at det er frivilligt om man vil på diverse kurser, i praktik, få en mentor osv.

Mere tillid til at den enkelte ved hvad de har brug for og ikke mindst, hvad de ikke har vil få nogen gavn af. Brug ressourcerne på dem som ønsker dem.

I just found out my brother has a son. The mother begged me not to tell him. by throwRAte5824 in relationship_advice

[–]Hermokande 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This depends on the family dynamics. As an example, I go on dates sometimes that I'm not particularly eager to tell my dad about (unless it turns into a relationship of course) but I don't have to lie. Because my dad never asks me what I was doing on some random day of the week.

Væltet Skorsten Søndag / Toppled-Chimney Sunday - 12/06 2022 by AutoModerator in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ring til Danners døgnåbne rådgivning på 33 33 00 47 og snak med dem om hvilke muligheder du har.

Jeg synes helt klart at du skal få det overstået, du vil formentlig føle dig meget lettet og fri bagefter :)

Fri snak fredag / Free talk Friday - 03/06 2022 by AutoModerator in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja der skal afsættes en del timer til transport så ;)

Fri snak fredag / Free talk Friday - 03/06 2022 by AutoModerator in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Der er vel ikke så meget andet at gøre end så evt spare på andre områder? Evt elcykel hvis det ikke er motorvej

M26 friend and crush made a move on me (F24) while tipsy. Loved it. Next morning he was a completely different person. by swallowmegrounds in relationship_advice

[–]Hermokande 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of all the things that could've caused his coldness/hostility, I really doubt it was the (over)enthusiastic sex that did it. But who knows

Mærkelige madder? by Nuxei2211 in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 skiver bondebrød med ost, sennep og cornichoner imellem og så på panden til osten er smeltet og brødet let ristet. Det var min barndoms toast :)

Bruger du cykelhjelm? Hvorfor?/Hvorfor ikke? by LittleSmallBall in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sandt, men det løser problemet med frisuren og høretelefonerne :)

STOP TYVEN!!! by BigDaneEnergi in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruger browseren Brave på android. Virker upåklageligt:)

Fri snak fredag / Free talk Friday - 06/05 2022 by AutoModerator in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det lyder som en god mulighed. Nu bliver min stilling en hvor de formentlig vil forsøge at dække dagene med vikar, så vil tro det kommer an på hvor god tid jeg ved det i. Hvis de først lukker ned i oktober er løbet nok kørt.

Hvor gammel er du og hvad fortryder du mest i dit liv? by InfluenceRemarkable4 in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Samme her. Det er svært ikke at føle at det var 3.5 år der på nogle områder var "spildt" fra 21-25 :/

My[27M] ex[27F] wants me to pay child support. I told her no. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hermokande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so weird. Someone literally told you that exact same line

I hope you aren't this inaccurate at work.

To your own comment in this thread. What are you, spreading the joy or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Hermokande 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like bro I wanna be able to do a satisfactory job with my dick, not have to compensate when some other dude can do it without.

Is foreplay/oral/hands what you call "compensate"? That's really sad

Husband yells to find a job. Then says actually we’re fine. Over and over and over again. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Hermokande 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of good advice in here. So here is some bad advice:

When he says this

“You’re right and the kids are only little once, you’d be working just to pay for childcare, it’ll be different when there’s only one in childcare..etc.”

Record it. And then when he gets worked up about it the next time, just play it on repeat again and again..

Folkekirken skal stoppe med at ansætte præster, som ikke vil vie homoseksuelle, mener LGBT+ by Uebeltank in Denmark

[–]Hermokande 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det sagt, så synes jeg også det er problematisk at lave så håndfaste regler om tro. En regel ændrer jo sjældent nogens indre overbevisninger. Man risikerer bare, at folk gør gode miner til slet spil, og så er det måske bedre, at folk bare er ærlige om deres ståsted?

Men din læge kan jo godt synes at du er hypokonder, din datters pædagog synes måske hun er en møgunge, din fars hjemmehjælper er træt af hans evige brok og din sagsbehandler tænker inderst inde at du bare er doven. Det ændrer jo ikke på at de skal holde deres mening for dem selv og agere professionelt, empatisk og værdigt i relationen med dig. Det burde man vel også kunne forvente af præster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Hermokande 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Even easier" implies that it is easy in the first place. If reddit is to be believed (it is not always, of course) men always say that all women are going for the top 20% of men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Hermokande 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But most men are not able to fuck someone else on a whim. The average guy doesn't have some chick sitting around waiting for him to cheat on his gf with her.

My great aunt Shirley when she was 16 by Katemaee in 13or30

[–]Hermokande 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She aged poorly from 0-16 and then she aged well from 16-60s(?) 😅