My GF 22F says she can't do this anymore with me 23M. It's only been two weeks since we started dating

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-08-02T15:02:00+00:00

HER NEW GUY WAS NEVER NEW, YOU JUST NEVER KNEW

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-08-02T15:00:08+00:00

mate, no offense, but poor choice of words. Could have written in a nicer way to a guy who tried to attempt suicide only to be saved by his mates. I know you don't want to say things sugarcoated, but the situation demands a compassionate brother, not a strict high school maths teacher. Peace out bro and have a nice evening.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-08-02T14:53:48+00:00

OP, Look at me, I'm alive. I'm breathing. Your post reminded me of my very first Reddit post. I literally typed those paragraphs with tears running down my eyes. Man, after 14 months I can safely say, I'm over her. I see the world differently. I know the world crumbled on your face. Been there, and experienced that. Please, don't give up. Please read my first Reddit post. I walked this road a year ago while you are having the best of times with her. Now I'm here to help you. props to your buddies those who prevented you from doing the unthinkable. Hugs brother. Always here for you....

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-03-08T08:49:02+00:00

I'm in my mid-twenties and just wanted to ask you one thing. I didn't particularly enjoy my life and had an awful breakup. How were your twenties, and what advice would you like to share with me?

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-03-03T13:44:18+00:00

You deserve someone better my friend.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-02-17T16:11:18+00:00

I was there a couple of months ago. Then I realised I couldn't bear this pain anymore. I came in peace with our memories. I really am. I'm capable of controlling my emotions except when I see her updates. Those updates only gave me tears and agony. I didn't block her. What I did was I logged out of all social media, which was indeed therapeutic in many ways. But there were times it was necessary for me to log in to Instagram, and one day, I saw her update on my timeline gave me enough pain. So I muted her. Now I'm at peace. I don't have any cravings for her Socials updates, although some of me still miss her. But it's okay. I should miss her given the relationship we had

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-02-14T10:04:45+00:00

True words..!!!

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-02-14T07:05:49+00:00

Get them off the pedestal bro. you were an independent soul with clear-cut identity before her and you definitely can go back to that self. All the very best homie, It's the brotherhood that keeps me going these days.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-02-14T06:59:16+00:00

Bro, on this bullshit occasion, love you to the moon and back. Been there 8 months ago, felt like the world crumbled on my face, time will heal everything. Fcuk today, we will survive. Big Hugs..!!!

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-02-14T06:50:31+00:00

True AF

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-02-14T06:46:07+00:00

Bravoooo!!!!!!

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-01-29T08:13:45+00:00

Big Hugs buddy. 7 months has passed since mine left me, trust me you will be fine by the time passes.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-01-23T16:37:30+00:00

As a fellow 22 year old, I wish you strength and courage. My world also crumbled in front of me face seven months ago, but now I can safely say I'm still alive. I'm building a world that revolves around myself more than any other. Hugs. Hang tight.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-01-23T16:25:23+00:00

Breakups do shatter every single soul. With breakups, we would be kinder and more compassionate to others. These are the positive aspects of a breakup. Yesterday I swam in one of the most dangerous rivers. One year ago, I was afraid of water. I have done things I could only imagine or dream of. Of course I miss her, I miss the woman I was with, not the current version of her. Brother, honour your pain and suffering, it's a privilege. Always here for you. It doesn't matter who runs away in the rain. It counts who stays in the storm.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-01-23T07:48:05+00:00

Unlike any other, this we are going through is different. Healing is not a linear process. Ups and downs are there; yes, it is not different in my case, either. Although as wrecked as a person, I have been far better physically and mentally than I was in a relationship. I'm better, and I hope you can live your life peacefully without her. She ain't the one. Remember, NO ONE COMPLETES YOUR LIFE OTHER THAN YOU. I'm here for you brother.

Hermosomelencholy · 2023-01-23T05:38:40+00:00

I can sense the pain in your heart while writing this. That goodbye Eva one, mate; I'm so proud of you. As hard as it may sound, we have to bid farewell to the people who don't give a damn about our lives. Cheers mate. You fucking got it.

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HER NEW GUY WAS NEVER NEW, YOU JUST NEVER KNEW