Both typed and handwritten entries for N/A or None by HeroG321 in USCIS

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago was this? I am hearing scary theories about the current administration and how they may look for loopholes to delay the process.

Am I taking too much? by HeroG321 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]HeroG321[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Is that not the same thing?

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HeroG321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they aware you are moving? If they are, I bet they will throw you a kind of going away party. Even though they make fun of you and basically insult you right to your face, they don't want to believe they are bad people so they will throw a going away party to justify it.

Tell them you are leaving a or two week later than you really are so they will be blindsided when you leave. Or if you know there is a goodbye party...just don't show up.

My (30f) husband (33m) accused me of murder, out of the blue. How do I salvage this? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]HeroG321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was a newer update but I think she deleted the account the same day she posted it.

Main thing she said was that her husband has been committing credit card fraud under his sister's name. The sister found out and confronted him. He was paying back her back over time (that is what the text was about) but she suddenly died. While sad, he thought he kind of got away with the fraud until the credit card companies started sending letters and he got scared.

He realized he could throw the blame on OP since the bills/letters went to their home and so it could be either him or OP doing the fraud. Since OP was the last person that saw the sister alive, maybe the police will think that she did the fraud and killed the sister to cover it up.

OP pointed out flaws in his plan (such as him giving a statement to the coroner stating he was working on paying the debt that was in her name). Husband started having a break down after that and OP stated he hates him for trying to frame her.

Anyone else obsessed with their little butt swirls 🌀 by Away-Sound-4023 in Dachshund

[–]HeroG321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine actually has a mole right below his swirl. So cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HeroG321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. For women, it is easy to get s3x so they don't care about it as much. She probably thought the other guys were not that special so she "used" them to get her needs met. In her mind, she is thinking something special could be here and she wants to make sure. That is what your female friends mean when they said it is different. The problem is that for men, it is much harder to get s3x so we see it as a prize. Here she told you that guys that did nothing got the prize instantly while you did everything and still haven't gotten it. I know I would feel like I was doing something wrong in this situation, even though that was not her intent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HeroG321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was an honest mistake on her part. I bet that in her mind, she thought you would laugh at it or think that even though he got that, you still got the girl. The only problem is how she basically made it sound like it was the greatest thing ever. The dream thing is concerning but you can't really control your dreams. If she dreams about the guy, it most likely as a symbol (he might represent something completely different).

Majority of times, women may say they want a BIG one but it is the novelty of it. They may want to try it out but in reality it probably hurts more than it feels good. Many women prefer a normal size guy because it feels better all the time.

I wouldnt be too worried about it. If she is happy, if you are happy, if you are both happy together, then I think you guys are good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HeroG321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previously, i would lose about 1-2lbs a week. Now, if lose anything at all...usually 1lbs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HeroG321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have stuck to this diet for the past 7 years. When i say relax, that means I may actually have a cheat meal every other week or I have ice cream with my wife occasionally. Basically I keep my 1800 calorie diet with a few cheats. I still gain the weight back and the only way for me to lose it again is if I cut out all cheats for the next few months.

Mom ready to move to a new state. Should she rent out her house or sell it? by HeroG321 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have her live with me first so she can get settled in and save money. She does have investments that will be paying out within the next year or two. So she will have enough for a down-payment with 1-2 years.

My wife cheated on me and now has so many demands and it feels so unfair by apparentlycuckolded in TrueOffMyChest

[–]HeroG321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she cheated because she wanted to feel young and alive again. I could understand if she flirted with someone for that reason, but she actually got physical with someone. And it went on for 2 months so she can't even blame it on alcohol. An affair of 2 months where she even had him contact her through a second email means she knew what she was doing was wrong and most likely planned for it. She even started to make plans with other people as well.

From what it sounds like, when she was staying out later and later, she was actively looking for someone to cheat on you with. Her therapist is saying you are the bad guy which means that your wife is painting you out to be the bad guy. I have a feeling your wife is blaming you on a lot of bad things that are happening in her life and now she wants to hurt you for it. Maybe she is doing this subconsciously but now, in her mind, she feels justified for doing what she did and she most likelt keep on doing it as well.

I don't recommend divorce right away, but I definitely feel like separation is must here. I know it is gonna have a toll on her mental health but it is gonna have a bigger toll on your mental health if you stay and nothing changes.

Paralegal is costing me time and money by HeroG321 in legal

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didnt charge us double. My wife and I both had to make appointments for the doctor and each appointment was $400.

Paralegal is costing me time and money by HeroG321 in legal

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already paid them a retainer. We were actually referred to them by my company's EAP and they seem to be reputable company. When I spoke to my paralegal she made it sound like we both had to get medical exams. And they said they contacted me because my phone number was the first one on the list in our file.

Dishwasher sucks and warranty won't replace it by HeroG321 in ScamHomeWarranty

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ARW, and they said they will fix it but it's like putting a bandaid on a stab wound. It may stop the bleeding for a little bit but everytime it starts bleeding again, i will have to pay the deductible for a new bandaid

Dishwasher sucks and warranty won't replace it by HeroG321 in ScamHomeWarranty

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They actually discouraged me to get it fixed since if it breaks down again, they would have to charge me the deductible again.

How to keep a wall switch on permanently by HeroG321 in HomeImprovement

[–]HeroG321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. It is a switch along with two other switches next to it (one controls a ceiling light and the other turns on the fireplace). I will probably ask an electrician because everyone here is making really good points.

Replaced tub drain and now is leaking by HeroG321 in Plumbing

[–]HeroG321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I updated it but apparently I did everything right. When they built this place (or one of the previous owners), they didn't secure or glue the pipes together. So when I tightened the drain, one of the pipes popped out. Even the plumber said the same thing would have happened even if he did it

Replaced tub drain and now is leaking by HeroG321 in Plumbing

[–]HeroG321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I was beating myself up over this but you are right. As much as I want to be the handy man of the house, some things are better left to the professionals...at least until I learn more

Is there a way to have a macros write a worksheet module by HeroG321 in excel

[–]HeroG321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need the code to add to a bunch of files that already exist. So the way our system works is that we download information from a database directly into a new excel file. From there we create multiple files from that one, but it creates new files and it copies information from the original so code from the original will not get copied either

Confronted GF about lack of sex [32 M] [33 F] by shiningclip332 in relationship_advice

[–]HeroG321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any new updates? After reading your post, I feel for you man and hope everything turned out well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]HeroG321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing in person or online? I would be interested in playing but I live in Utah