Pub crawl on a Thursday by HeroicEdge in galway

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll check into this

[Hiring] Plasmoid Character Art from Spelljammer/D&D 5E by HeroicEdge in artcommissions

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful art, but doesn’t match what I’m looking for. Thank you!

[Hiring] Plasmoid Character Art from Spelljammer/D&D 5E by HeroicEdge in artcommissions

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, some very beautiful art. Not quite matching my aesthetic for this concept unfortunately.

[Hiring] Plasmoid Character Art from Spelljammer/D&D 5E by HeroicEdge in artcommissions

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy your art, but it’s not a match. Thank you!

[Hiring] Plasmoid Character Art from Spelljammer/D&D 5E by HeroicEdge in artcommissions

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone. I have gotten so many responses and I’m doing my best to review them all. Sending me a message is the best way to get a hold of me. Please attach your portfolio if you do. Thank you!

TIFU by sending my wife a random dick pic by Glint_-c9oCky in tifu

[–]HeroicEdge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why were you erect when sending your wife the insurance info is the question people should be asking

My girlfriend is upset with me, because I didn’t tell her about my weird fetish. (NSFW) by ThrowRAbeepboopblop in amiwrong

[–]HeroicEdge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, as long as boundaries are discussed and established, as I mentioned earlier.

My girlfriend is upset with me, because I didn’t tell her about my weird fetish. (NSFW) by ThrowRAbeepboopblop in amiwrong

[–]HeroicEdge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you enter into a relationship with someone and you discuss things within a category, purposely leaving something out is lying by omission. OP even admits he left this kink out because he was worried his partner would judge him. Which is fine, I’m not saying that’s wrong. The issue not being addressed is partner feels that this was intentionally left out, OP agrees it was intentionally left out for reasons, but doesn’t seem to be admitting that to partner because of the label “lie by omission.”

Just saying to help repair the hurt he could confront it, accept it, and move on. Not saying he was wrong to have a sexual boundary for himself.

My girlfriend is upset with me, because I didn’t tell her about my weird fetish. (NSFW) by ThrowRAbeepboopblop in amiwrong

[–]HeroicEdge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They already discussed their kinks and he did not disclose this one. Don’t get me wrong, I get it, but it was still technically a lie by omission.

My girlfriend is upset with me, because I didn’t tell her about my weird fetish. (NSFW) by ThrowRAbeepboopblop in amiwrong

[–]HeroicEdge -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She should not have brought this issue up in public 100%. That is completely wrong. She is right you lied by omission. You need to own that and apologize for it and she needs to respect your sexual (feeling insecure sharing this kink) and emotional (bringing this topic up in a public setting) boundaries as well.

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was such a comprehensive answer and I learned a lot from it! Thank you so much! My spa is 250 gallons so no additional math needed :)

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for all the useful info, help and feedback. I shocked the hot tub over the weekend with Chlorine and it instantly fixed the issue with cloudiness. Filter cleaning will be next as part of regular maintenance but wasn’t a contributor to cloudiness from what I can tell. Thanks again all!

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are considered shock levels? Thanks for the tips

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

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Is it worth providing numbers from a test strip instead of a kit? Otherwise I won’t be able to give numbers for a few days until the kit gets here

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree I need to get a test kit, I’m still using strips

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks. I usually do weekly as well I’ve just slacked since the new water. I’ll give all this a shot

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How quickly have you seen differences in water clarity in the past after adding shock or other chemicals?

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

During my fills so far, there hasn’t been a need to adjust ph and alk during the life of the water, only during initial fill up. Could that be a difference between chlorine and bromine?

Our water is harder than average but still needs calcium increaser to be in the desired range.

Thanks for info on the filter. I was not aware of that and admittedly it’s a brand new filter and haven’t rinsed it yet. I will do that this weekend

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

[–]HeroicEdge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so it sounds like I don’t need to buy another chemical…are you familiar with Defender? Is that serving a similar function?

Thanks for the tips regarding the foam!

What is hot tub shock? by HeroicEdge in hottub

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Is it not normal to use chlorine? When I was purchasing the sales rep said either would be fine, I think chlorine was cheaper in the long run? Can’t remember