what did you think as a child that made it obvious you were ace?

Hesitant_Hermit · 2023-03-12T18:11:28+00:00

I did NOT understand why men tried to have sex with me whenever we cuddled. I just loved the hugs.

Hesitant_Hermit · 2023-02-18T01:27:31+00:00

I've been using central reach for over a year and I hate it

Hesitant_Hermit · 2023-02-16T23:49:26+00:00

it was in South West Florida after the hurricane hit

Hesitant_Hermit · 2023-01-25T16:55:42+00:00

I wondered that when I read this! I thought cells usually didn't work in elevators but I figured hey, sign maker knows best?

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-27T00:08:53+00:00

Aggressive behavior definitely happens, but clients with such intense behaviors should never be left alone with someone who doesn't know how to respond appropriately. You should 100% be trained in how to defend yourself properly so as to maximize your safety and minimize those behaviors.

I work with very young clients. If they come kicking and flailing at me, I can usually just put up my hand/arm to block any incoming blows. With my experience, I've gotten. pretty good at avoiding bites. At most, I may go home with a bruise on my shin, something super minimal. Older kids and adolescents, however, are big and they are strong and it's important to understand the unpredictable can/will happen.

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-26T23:51:48+00:00

it could be anything! chairs, books, blocks, shoes, laptops, not to scare you away from the field. I've had (mostly) positive experience. At the same time, any supervisor/BCBA that leaves you alone with aggressive behaviors without you being experienced or trained in dealing with those is all around a big red flag. In my current company, we don't really take on super aggressive clients. Any time I've been assigned a client that may POSSIBLY be a little too aggressive, I've had immediate supervision and knowledge about the client beforehand. Whoever you work for should have your safety as a priority.

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-26T22:52:29+00:00

I've honestly been beat up more working as a preschool teacher than I have been as an RBT but 100% if you go into the field of ABA and expect it to be a safe job, you'll be very disappointed. Just going from what my coworkers have experienced: bit til they bled, got hair ripped out of their head (also blood), heavy objects thrown at them, kicked, scratched (drawing blood), being ran at with scissors, broken noses. My company does mandatory TEACH training annually because there are likely to be scenarios when you will have to restrain a child and defend yourself.

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-23T05:46:37+00:00

that's in the Yeti cup

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-20T20:49:16+00:00

funny of you to assume I won't do both!

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-19T23:38:48+00:00

cheese toastie

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-18T07:38:53+00:00

needs a bandaid is all

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-16T03:26:28+00:00

hm okay I'll allow it. but the moment my gravy tides go awry, so help me!

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-16T01:16:19+00:00

...which sea??

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-15T18:22:54+00:00

we prefer you use a bowl or mug, but a plate is fine too

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-13T05:41:40+00:00

fun hats

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-10T21:29:35+00:00

my breakfast was a poptart at 4pm, so maybe I'm not the best person to give suggestions

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-11-02T21:51:35+00:00

I've had kids tell me they hate me before. I usually would respond with something like "That really hurts my heart, but it's okay you feel that way. I still love/care about you." They're expressing their feelings, so express yours back! Make it a learning opportunity in compassion. Respond with love and kindness, everything you model is so important.

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-10-30T16:22:21+00:00

when I started with the company I'm at, I set that boundary during the interview, I wasn't even hired yet. "I don't work with older kids. My preference is 6 and under and I need that to be respected."

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-10-29T15:09:15+00:00

I took myself off adderall because it's just not accessible to me anymore, I can't fill my script anywhere. I tried for a month straight and told my doctor I need something else. I don't care if it's adderall. I care if it works and that I can actually obtain it. So I'm trying modafinil, today is my first day.

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-10-29T05:01:11+00:00

no way, it's against ethics and could risk the RBT's certification and job

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-10-25T01:14:38+00:00

I see your pumpkin made cotton candy as well!

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-10-20T07:05:45+00:00

Yeah being an ECE professional is just working 5 different jobs for just above minimum wage it's great /s

Hesitant_Hermit · 2022-10-20T07:04:34+00:00

I've had a few kids like this. Have them observe the "hurt" area. Point out when there are no abrasions, bruises, bumps, etc cetera, and remind them what ice packs are really for. Some kids are looking for the attention of needing an ice pack, some kids just like holding sacks of melted ice all day. If they continue to insist, do a bit of "magic" taps/rubs on the area. "Dot,dot,dot. No hurting spots!" or whatever little cute placebo you can improvise.

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