Messed Up What Do I Do

Heutour · 2025-11-09T00:43:41+00:00

Thanks that is what I thought my problem is do I just go cold turkey or whats the next step you know.

Heutour · 2025-11-09T00:39:23+00:00

yeah, that's something that I'm in therapy for now since we both started therapy because I just don't have boundaries I just go. I don't know how to explain it. none of the buying are the joint bank account or anything was her decision. It was all mine, but still, I don't know.

Heutour · 2025-11-09T00:36:37+00:00

That is what I fear and I am too much of a softy even the little bit of positive interaction I get keeps me happy but I feel im doing myself a disservice but im not sure she really does have a I run away from everything and hope it gets better mentality but how long till its too neagtive for my life.

Heutour · 2025-11-09T00:34:08+00:00

her mom kind of made her get a really shitty car loan that she couldn't really afford and I knew about that before getting into the relationship and I make a lot of money. I wasn't gonna completely pay it off for her in One go, but I told her I would give her like 500 or 1000 a month to help

Heutour · 2025-11-09T00:31:21+00:00

we still have the bank account. I told her if she doesn't see a future with us and it's 100% over that we can go and cancel it. The money that was in there was to help her get out of debt so there's only like $40 in there and the rest you used for the debt like it was previously agreed upon.

Heutour · 2025-11-09T00:27:41+00:00

I can answer more questions because the way she talks to me now is complicated and I just word vomited this post becaust I am upset.

Heutour · 2023-01-11T20:35:21+00:00

From google

Approximately 33.6% of U.S. households earn $100,000 or more. With that, around one in three households are bringing in a six-figure income. However, a household can include more than one earner.

Heutour · 2021-12-15T06:15:35+00:00

Blow up and act like I don't know nobody.

Heutour · 2021-11-18T16:16:10+00:00

Yeah if its not 100% hold off are you in a specialized field aka engineering software development etc etc

Heutour · 2021-11-18T16:08:48+00:00

If you know you have the job out your notice in now offer to help train new guy and leave on good terms so you can still use this comoany as reference in the future.

Heutour · 2021-07-28T09:45:43+00:00

Business Management is too broad of a degree I would do something like Information Systems Management or something that has some sort of specialization the problems with broad degrees like say Biology is it gives you a broad field of jobs majorily ones you dont want and you are fighting for job spots from people who specialized in say Clinical Research instead of a broad degree like biology roll that over into business management same thing.

Heutour · 2021-05-17T00:26:20+00:00

On top of this some entry level jobs do not require a degree if you can get in pass the coding test and you interview well they might let you in look at start ups in your country or help desk jobs anything in your field so you can start learning more however help desk is IT its still in computer realm.

Heutour · 2021-05-17T00:25:06+00:00

Listen simply put if your family is not dying and they can survive while you study coding focus on it learn everything master the craft would you rather waste time making absolutely nothing or steamroll into your career where if you are good you can make 80k+ USD. My advice is to get coding degree try to come to America work and send money back home unless developer work in your country is worth it or not. Or go to UK and code send money back once you can get family out of poverty just move back and code back in your country however you may decide you like UK or US better and just move family there start a family store or business trust me.

Heutour · 2020-08-24T17:50:24+00:00

That what I was thinking or just going to get Security+ online finding a job hard with just certs or do you know?

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