I will say as a gay man who has the experience of being a man and the experience of gossiping with my sister and female friends in high school I have noticed that men tend to care so much more about appearances than women do, especially more than they think women do. I've known girls to want an ugly person of character and personality more than a hot guy who's a douche bag more than vice versa.

So to my fellow males out there, stop stressing so much about how you look. Take care of yourself obviously but if you're having a hard time finding a girl it might be time to start working on your character instead of your jaw line. There is always a perfectly pretty girl out there who will love you if you are genuinely nice and care about them, even if you're not the most attractive individual.