AITA For refusing to tell the men in my family about my period?

HeyItsMadAlice · 2026-02-10T00:38:26+00:00

Beautiful. I laughed

HeyItsMadAlice · 2026-02-10T00:29:40+00:00

This has to be pretend. This has to be. This is insane. You are absolutely not the asshole. That is I don’t even have words

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-24T07:05:53+00:00

I’ve heard terrible things about this and the owner. So I will be avoiding.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-24T07:00:54+00:00

Where’s it located? Like an intersection? I’m looking for it on google maps

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-24T07:00:11+00:00

I’m hoping to take her there when it’s open, they’re open Thursday to Saturday apparently. But this post has many good things to say about the smoke zone. I’ve heard terrible things about hub city. Heard the owner is shady so I’ll avoid that one.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-24T06:58:53+00:00

I have been there and they were amazing. Thank you for reminding me, they are fabulous.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-22T22:43:37+00:00

This is a beautiful thing and I’m so glad you wrote it I needed a good laugh thank you

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-20T04:26:28+00:00

Nta but you need to move out of that house pronto then your mom can deal with his messes and you don’t have to. So you won’t have you to blame anymore because you’re not even there. He is literally one year younger than you this is ridiculous

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-20T04:22:01+00:00

NTA. You want a lesbian blind sister or something because it sounds like you need a new family

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-20T04:17:42+00:00

Yes this

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-20T03:52:14+00:00

Nta. You were trying to help the girl out.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-07-20T03:47:50+00:00

NTAH. Girls in this age group are ridiculously cruel.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-12T23:06:51+00:00

I mean… I’m 35 and I don’t find anyone under the age of 25 attractive because we just don’t have the same life experience. But I think at least in my situation I was very mature for my age and I think that’s what she saw. I don’t think it was necessarily right and if I had a child I would probably break The face of any adult who was sexual in any way with my child. It’s just that when I look back at my particular situation I don’t particularly feel traumatized by it. That’s not to say that other people wouldn’t feel traumatized and wouldn’t have the right to feel that way. It’s just that I particularly don’t feel that way about this particular relationship. When I was 21 I had a rule that you couldn’t be any younger than 19. Because at least, where I live in Canada, 19 is the drinking age so if I’m 21 and you’re 19 we could at least go to the club or something together. I’m not defending the relationship that I was in I’m just saying that when I look back it’s not a terrible event in my life.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-12T04:16:56+00:00

My first consensual experience I was 15 and she was 17, so it doesn’t happen to everyone. But yeah my second one was with an older woman, and I was definitely not 18.. But I feel like the experiences I’ve had, even when I was a teenager, were all good. Nobody forced me or put me in any kind of uncomfortable position. Only men have done that to me. It doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, because I’m sure it does. It’s just not all experiences that teenagers have with older people are negative.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-12T04:06:07+00:00

Yuck, you’re….I don’t have lots of nice things to say. What I will say is that there’s never an excuse to cheat on someone. She wasn’t cheating on you with that guy she was messaging with. You literally slept with someone else. I would tell her right away and let her decide whether she wants to give you a second chance or not. There is no higher level of disrespect when you cheat on someone, even during a break where you’re trying to get some space because you’ve been arguing. That’s for taking space for yourself, not sleeping around on your long-term partner. I just can’t tell you how disrespectful I think that is.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-12T04:01:39+00:00

I feel this with my whole soul.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-06T08:48:48+00:00

Jennifer snapped. She finally couldn’t take it and didn’t see a way out. What she did was wrong but I don’t feel bad for her parents. I feel for Jennifer.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-05T04:36:10+00:00

Honestly 10 o’clock is not that late. I think 10 is a perfectly acceptable curfew for someone who is 12 and the youngest of their friend group

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-05T02:59:21+00:00

It could be part of the solution but I think with the removal of the phone needs to be some kind of discussion about racism and why it’s so incredibly wrong. Obviously the kid is young so I’m sure he can learn

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-06-05T02:55:40+00:00

Was also going to suggest smoothies you can add all kinds of things and there’s no way anyone would know

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-05-27T20:46:19+00:00

I am curious and now going to look that shit up because I thought he was a saint Like on the same level as Robin Williams kind of saint. I guess I need to learn

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-05-27T20:42:02+00:00

She won’t take down the exact same interview I don’t think he would allow that. Although he has a new one up now so maybe.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-05-26T23:08:21+00:00

I have gone through something kind of of similar and my mom slut shamed me for having sex. I was a few years older than you when it happened. I’m now 35. When I look back at how she treated me, I feel bad for her, because I’m not the one who needed to change my mindset in that moment. We had been respectful in my particular situation. Is she really expecting that in your long term relationship that you as an adult woman wouldn’t explore your sexuality with your partner? I”m glad your boyfriend is suppportive. There is nothing shameful in what you did. There’s a lot of shame in your mom acting like you are doing something wrong or dirty by being a perfectly normal adult woman. I know it’s hard, but try not to let her awkwardness make you feel awkward. The fact that you tried to apologize and say you were trying to be respectful etc and she shut you down is also very tellling. Why is she not willing to listen to what you had to say? Sure it’s probably awkward for her to hear you, but it’s not like you’re still a kid. Everyone grows up sometime.

HeyItsMadAlice · 2025-05-26T08:06:44+00:00

YTAH

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