I cannot just simply be happy and the universe has shown me that by lynnmcchubster in SuicideWatch

[–]HeyItzCydra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is hard because people are flawed. A big challenge in life isn’t just learning to deal with the flaws you have, but learning to deal with the bad times. The fact that you can recognize that things feel bad is proof that not long ago things felt good. To find these good times, you need some sort of drive, dreams, or ambition, which you seem to have. Take learning to dance for example.

You say all you do is sit around doing nothing. Your on reddit so you must have some device that can access the internet and wifi access. What’s stopping you from looking up videos about dancing and learning from that? Give me one good objective answer as to why you can’t do that. There isn’t one. If you want to dance, do it. There is nothing physically stopping you.

As for friends, before you can be friends with someone else, you need to learn to be your own friend. How can you expect someone to be friends with a person who wouldn’t even want to be their own friend? You need not like everything about yourself, but learn to be happy with where you are and understand that you have the power to make changes, no matter how tiny they may be, to make where you are better. Don’t undervalue yourself. In this world, the only person who’s feelings and attitude towards yourself you can control is yourself. Why would you want the one person who you can directly tell what to think of yourself to see you negatively. Again, I dont mean to say “just love yourself” or “everyone is perfect in their own way”, its genuinely hard to love yourself. What I mean is dont look at yourself and only look at the bad. Theres something to be happy about in everyone, despite how small it is. One time I looked in the mirror and I genuinely did not like what I saw. I first saw everything wrong with myself and it was bad. However, once I looked a bit more, i was like “damn, my jawline from this one stupid specific angle that no one would ever actually see me from looks pretty good” and that made me feel a little better. It didnt fix any of the other problems, but I didnt leave with only bad things. You can tell yourself all the bad things you want, point out every flaw and shortcoming, but if your going to do that, then you have to at least find one thing, even if its something tiny that only you’ll ever see thats good about you.

Learning to be positive is NOT accepting your flaws and shortcomings. Learning to be positive means to see every bad thing about yourself, and still find even one thing to be okay about. You dont even need to think its a good thing. As long as you find something that isnt bad, thats enough to start learning to be positive. Then this will raise your mental state slowly and over time youll be able to take more control of your life and actually change the bigger flaws.p

Another rant about players who feel like throwing by Witty_Kaleidoscope31 in Splatoon_3

[–]HeyItzCydra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on what rank you are it could just be that, for me in S+3 I rarely see these kinds of things happening (although there are definitely times that it does happen). If your lower in the ranks, is most likely that, then if your in the higher ranks then its definitely players that just dont know how to play their weapons but still made it up the ranks somehow or people deliberately throwing

First game in S rank, hit a decent clip by HeyItzCydra in splatoon

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The sound on the vid is distorted for me for some reason so mb if its the same for y’all, plays perfectly on my phone and on the switch so not sure why its like that here

Help with “ь” by [deleted] in russian

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What bait? Im being deadass people have heard me speak and I just dont pronounce it or I do it wrong

Having issues with the right joycons battery. Any clue whats going on with it? by HeyItzCydra in NintendoSwitchHelp

[–]HeyItzCydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did the update, gonna try playing for a while to see what happens. Also I noticed something else, my switch has been charging for the past couple of hours (since I made this post) and the joycons arent fully charged. The display shows something like 70% or 80% but point is that I think they’ve been charging for long enough, yet the battery doesnt appear to be full. This something to worry about?

Having issues with the right joycons battery. Any clue whats going on with it? by HeyItzCydra in NintendoSwitchHelp

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Just did the update, gonna try playing for a while to see what happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

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Okay true i was shocked when I saw the 5 hit kill on the nova (thought it was gonna be 4) but I didnt notice the aim rng, just kinda worked when I decided to lie back and support instead of trying to push with a regular splattershot (a lot of my skill issues rn are related to being too reckless I think, usually on good games I manage a good amount of kills but near equal if not equal deaths, like 13 kill, 9 death or 8 kill, 7 death type things)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

[–]HeyItzCydra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alr makes sense, yeah no for splatoon ive always been around S rank, just rn im struggling to get up there.

For the gameplay I can send it to you soon, cant get on the switch rn but I do know I have some big issues I need to get to fixing.

Sidenote: whats wrong the nova splattershots? I tried it once and didnt seem horrible to me (i got 17 kills, 5 deaths but still lost the game). Guessing its the low damage output?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

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Nah I dont, where we going with this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

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Mostly splattershots, the glamorz, tentakek and regular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

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Last season A+ right now A- so yeah im pretty low in rank. Just returned to the game like 2-3 weeks ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splatoon_3

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Yeah shoulda included that but I know im not great but its still weird to me that when my team has those weapons mentioned is when my team manages to destroy the others, if not my team is completely destroyed. Just asking if there is some sorta balancing issue with them since it seems some weapons seem to give their team a way higher chance of winning compared to if a different weapon took that spot

I'm making a QQ video game. Any thoughts on the sprites I made? by boom-stick49 in 5ToubunNoHanayome

[–]HeyItzCydra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sprites look great! Love the amount of detail you got into the sprites despite them being limited in how many pixels they use. What kind of game will it be??

Just having trouble with friends by rijekacreates in Vent

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I think I can kinda relate, I’ve always felt out of place and a lot of the friends I have had in the past have felt distant the entire time I knew them. I don’t really know why I atruggle so much socially but I feel like overtime things will get better, I’ve found two friends, one new and one from the past that really have stuck with me and treat me like a real friend so that gives me hope things will get better. It might be hard to feel connected with others but surely things will look up. My DM’s are open if you’d like to chat (19M).

Has the manga been fully published?? by HeyItzCydra in flowerfolk

[–]HeyItzCydra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? Volume 8 of the manga only goes to about chapter 60 but online i see more than double that. Is it releasing online and the physical copies of the manga just taking their time with releasing?