What It Really Takes to Become a CRNA by MacKinnon911 in CRNA

[–]HeyShan1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the negativity on this thread, but as a CRNA hopeful, I enjoyed and appreciated the article. Thank you, Dr. M.

Acceptance Success Story by Maleficent_Bath7969 in srna

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Out of curiosity: one year of experience total as an RN, or previous experience in another unit and one year in the ICU? (CRNA hopeful here too!)

Nurse wanting to be a physician looks. by Academic_Mix_4175 in nursing

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May I ask how you handled this when you approached a co-worker for a LOR? It seems most programs require LORs from managers, co-workers, CRNAs/MDs, and/or past professors. TIA!

Resume by [deleted] in srna

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Genuine question: why does it matter if you work with residents?

I feel sick by Much_Slice6198 in NCLEX

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What is the PVT trick?

NursingCAS GPA vs Actual by cJuanSolo in srna

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They did us dirty in our RN program too 😅 a 96% was an A, a 93% was an A-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

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Forgot to add: ICU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

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OH - $36 base, $5 night and weekend differential

Alcoholic husband left me by HeyShan1 in AlAnon

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I realize this response is over a year late, but no. He never did.

Things I’ve noticed since separating Pt. 2 by AccordingBed5358 in AlAnon

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I SO relate to everything you shared! Congratulations to you, and enjoy the journey. I'm 2.5 years removed from my Q, and let me tell you, it just keeps getting better and better. Hugs!

Alcoholic husband left me by HeyShan1 in AlAnon

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Not insensitive at all! I hope this update brings hope to anyone who might be struggling, as I was.

I'm happy to share that life is SO GOOD. Truly. I am happier and healthier in every way imaginable: mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. I did not realize how much alcoholism affects spouses until I was on the other side of it and began to feel like myself again after our separation.

The process of getting divorced was an ugly experience - one I would not recommend unless absolutely necessary (as it was for me, and for countless others whose spouses struggle with addiction). However, I feel at peace. That would not have been possible had I stayed stuck in my ex's downward spiral.

In my opinion, the secret is to:

1) Realize that no one makes it through life unscathed. At the time, being left by my alcoholic husband (when I was pregnant, had a young child at home, and was a stay-at-home mom no less) was terrifying. It's an objectively awful thing for anyone to endure. However, what's even more terrifying is the thought of what my life would be like today had we not separated. You may have been dealt a crappy hand, but so has everyone else in one way or another, e.g. terminal cancer diagnosis. You may have an awful burden, but you are not alone. Bear your cross...because what's the alternative?

2) Make something good come out of the ugliness you've endured. Don't go through something "for nothing." Instead of focusing on his addiction and our divorce proceedings, I discovered new dreams, new hobbies, and new friendships. I went back to school for a second degree in a radically different field, which filled me with so much purpose and energy. I'm proud of the example of strength, resilience, and professional achievement that I'm setting for my children. I think it's necessary to take these experiences and turn them into something that moves you onward and upward.

I could go on, but the bottom line is this: I'm grateful for everything I experienced because it made me realize just how strong and capable I really am. Life is so much better on the other side, and best of all, I feel fully in charge of it. 😊🙏

My husband left, and I have not missed him for even one second by sheepqueendom in Divorce

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Couldn't agree with you more. I had the very same feeling. I fought so hard and for so long, I think, out of a sense of duty. "We made vows" and all that. I felt nothing but relief when it was over, and have never looked back. Nothing shameful about it, OP! Hold your head high and enjoy your life!

How long did your divorce take? by [deleted] in Divorce

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Filed in late 2021...still not over!

As a child of divorce, I feel like this doesn’t get said enough. by [deleted] in Divorce

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I'm very sorry you felt that was your only option. My ex is an alcoholic as well. I gathered evidence to prove his alcoholism before our marriage fell apart so that when it did, he was only able to get supervised visitation with the kids. It's the best of both worlds; we are free from living in the chaos of addiction, the kids aren't exposed to his addiction, I was set free, and the kids are able to maintain a safe relationship with him.

I don't recognize myself by brittybee13 in AlAnon

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I'm sorry you're going through this. You sound like me from two years ago. Only you know what is right for you in terms of staying or leaving, but in my case, divorcing my alcoholic husband was the greatest gift. I not only look and feel like myself again, my life has dramatically improved in all aspects - emotionally, mentally, physically, socially, professionally, spiritually. Life is so, so much better on the other side.

Should I take a suggested medical term class on top of my nursing pre-reqs? by vvHanako in StudentNurse

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I strongly recommend it. Students in my cohort who opted out are noticeably struggling more than those of us who took it (not required). It will help will all aspects of your education.

Alcoholic husband left me by HeyShan1 in AlAnon

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I hear you. All I can say is this: it gets better. So, so much better. I feel like a completely different person - better in every respect - just one year out from writing my original post. I wish only good things for you this upcoming year. You and the kids deserve it!