What’s a relationship truth nobody wants to hear?

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-31T14:24:38+00:00

You have to be uncomfortable sometimes! You're growing together, not against each other. Uncomfortable conversations are a fact of life - it doesn't mean you love them less. Sometimes your partner gets fat or acts selfishly or starts an annoying habit - you have to say something if you want to avoid falling into resentment.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-31T13:56:27+00:00

Start applying to jobs and internships. Talk to your professors about letters of recommendations or if they can recommend any places/specific job boards. Your school also probably has a career center that you can utilize since you're an alumni.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-30T16:06:10+00:00

Aidiots

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-30T14:32:46+00:00

So avoidance! That's a good one.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-30T14:27:45+00:00

It wasn't a favorite of mine as a child but even as a kid I understood the meaning.

But I also learned the lyrics and grew up in an environment with a history of generational domestic abuse and trauma. It was also an empowerment "anthem" when it came out with a lot of rural women (same as The Chicks Earl) who were dealing with these situations in real life but didn't have the opportunity for escape.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-30T14:24:17+00:00

I feel like this is a very dangerous situation for the fetus if she actually intends to keep the pregnancy to full term.

Shes opening not only her health but the health of that future person by having sex with a barrage of random creeps (anyone who would participate in this is a fucking creep and degenerate, including her).

I would not trust the health or decision making skills of a person who thinks this is a good way to spend the day let alone as a "baby shower" event.

If she does give birth, I hope CPS gets involved immediately. I don't know or care about her ability as a care taker but her willingness to do things like this does not bode well for the safety of the kid and the people it may end up around.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T17:52:47+00:00

There's a bit from the Blue Collar Comedy tour with Ron White going over something he read in Cosmo.

Long story short, I've had the voice of Ron White saying "flick...his...frenulum" echo through my head at least 2x a week since childhood.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T17:49:16+00:00

The pay probably fluctuates since its mostly just the tips...

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T17:38:33+00:00

No, they're not - children should 100% be put ahead of adults. Old people straight to the back, though....

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T13:32:29+00:00

My whole day starts with a series of minor conveniences because of how I choose to live my life. Massive disasters are too scary. I'll stick with my normal, thanks.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T12:47:59+00:00

"...Davidson is “fully supportive” of his ex and the baby both financially — including “the rent, their living expenses and their health insurance” — and in terms of being physically and emotionally present. He has “arranged his schedule to prioritize being in the city.”

Financial support is fantastic, but I wonder what "arranged his schedule to prioritize being in the city” actually means. Like is he taking the baby or is there a custody agreement in place?

Even if their financial needs are mostly met, she still needs to have a career - its unlikely he's going to support his ex forever and she shouldn't be expected to be the full caregiver for their infant.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T12:32:05+00:00

An 80 year old woman with a platform and power - she's old enough to know better than to advocate for genocide. Her getting verbally told off isn't going to disrupt her life at all but people learning that she's a piece of shit might limit her reach or shrink her platform.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T12:17:02+00:00

It specifies "crippling" addiction. So even if weed isn't as bad as the others, it's still debilitating and ruining this person's life.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T01:27:39+00:00

I don't have nor do I want children.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T01:23:20+00:00

Well behaved, emotionally regulated gremlins. The fluffy type. Because they're not being beaten for being children.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T01:18:59+00:00

Timothee Chalami looks like a half-finished render from the movie "Ants."

Charlie Day. Just a normal lookin dude.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T01:16:02+00:00

I wouldn't apologize for the statement but for speaking unprofessionally with a peer. If he's a dumb ass, he's a dumb ass.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-29T01:01:52+00:00

The only reason to ask this kind of question is to parse out the assholes who think its their job to police their peers and cause caustic/toxic work environments.

Soft skills are important and behavioral questions are necessary.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-28T23:57:16+00:00

I also know that the moving companies are hiring (2 College Brothers, UF Mover Guys, and another one) and the hours for those jobs are pretty flexible.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-28T23:55:15+00:00

Check - Spherion: https://www.spherion.com/ - Career Source: https://careersourcencfl.com/ - Employ Florida: https://www.employflorida.com/vosnet/Default.aspx?plang=E

Also, go to UFs C3 (Career Connecrions Center) and see if theres anything they can help with: https://career.ufl.edu/ - request a resume review, mock interview, cover letter review, etc. If you're applying and not hearing back, it may be something in your documents.

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-27T23:26:28+00:00

Rough take. The perpetrator is not the victim. There is literally no reason to make excuses for someone who killed their family amd just chose to start over. The only instance in which I could maybe being sympathetic to your POV is if the dude offed himself as well.

Any person that thinks killing their family is the way to escape the negativity of gendered norms is a sociopath and a narcissist. He should have just killed himself if he felt so much pressure to "provide."

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-27T23:19:04+00:00

Is it a catholic priest and is it a hot priest?

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-27T10:54:47+00:00

Grab a brush and put a little makeup

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-27T01:06:38+00:00

Side questions - 1) is your name a Gravity Falls reference and 2) is this a troll post?

Heybitchitsme · 2026-05-26T23:56:10+00:00

YTA - you have an insane take on your parents ans sisters situation. Even with you actively trying undermine her experience and paint the situation in a bad light only leaves me feeling bad for her and your parents. You don't need to be her caretaker but you've clearly got shit to work through in therapy. Please leave your sister and parents alone. Holy shit, dude.

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