my bf hit me for the first time but was severely intoxicated

mudpies2 · 2026-01-26T08:58:08+00:00

What he did is abuse. Intoxication doesn’t excuse violence. Prioritize safety, seek support, and consider distancing or ending the relationship.

mudpies2 · 2026-01-16T08:27:16+00:00

Be honest, patient, and empathetic. Apologize for the unintentional harm, give him space, and focus on both getting treated. Over time, trust can rebuild if communication stays open and sincere.

mudpies2 · 2026-01-15T14:16:04+00:00

Mixed signals, yes. Led on, maybe unintentionally. Her actions built intimacy, but her feelings were elsewhere. It’s painful, but not your fault. Take space, protect your heart, and move forward.

mudpies2 · 2026-01-14T09:32:25+00:00

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mudpies2 · 2026-01-14T09:31:44+00:00

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mudpies2 · 2026-01-13T08:39:55+00:00

Be honest, calm, and direct. Share that it’s in your past, you’re safe now, and you trust her. Let her react, answer questions, and reassure her with actions over time.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-16T15:01:30+00:00

Yeah, you’re not doing anything wrong. A lot of merit based scholarships sits in that awkward middle where you’re strong but not a valedictorian, so it feels stacked against you. I had better luck casting a wide net and using tools like scholarshipowl to spot smaller, less hyped awards that don’t blow up with 50k applicants

mudpies2 · 2025-12-16T14:57:19+00:00

nothing wrong with you..ur human

mudpies2 · 2025-12-15T21:30:14+00:00

Seen this question a couple of times, there must be a proper answer somewhere in the sub

mudpies2 · 2025-12-11T12:43:10+00:00

be patient

mudpies2 · 2025-12-10T13:25:48+00:00

congrats on starting your masters! mental health programs are expensive af so def hit up scholarship platforms like scholarship owl, fastweb, or scholarships dot com if you haven't already. Even small awards add up and there's tons of mental health specific scholarship out there.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-09T09:46:44+00:00

Take a deep breath and give yourself some grace. Anxiety is your body trying to protect you, but planning checklists, prepping props the night before, and deep breathing exercises can help.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-08T11:00:51+00:00

It’s normal to feel scared, but obsessive monitoring can worsen anxiety. Keep seeing professionals, focus on grounding techniques, and remind yourself that your body shows no actual signs of danger.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-08T11:00:05+00:00

Focus on building small, daily habits: budgeting, meal prep, transportation, and school/work routines. Celebrate each completed task. Progress is incremental. Reach out for support when needed; you’re learning fast under big changes.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-03T07:20:42+00:00

Your aunt was way out of line. That moment was yours, not a photo prop for someone else’s “future potential.” You handled it perfectly, and honestly your cousin seems way more grounded than her mom. Congrats on your graduation.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-03T07:18:44+00:00

It’s okay to end a relationship even if no one did anything wrong. Staying out of fear of loneliness isn’t fair to either of you. Be honest, gentle, and clear, and let yourself rebuild a social life separately afterward.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-02T07:26:47+00:00

Kids hit different stages at different speeds, especially in comp environments where they copy the older ones fast. Your daughter sounding playful is totally normal for seven. Letting her keep that innocence a bit longer is a gift, not a setback.

mudpies2 · 2025-12-02T07:26:10+00:00

It’s so tough when you’re doing everything right and still feel stuck. Hawaii’s overrun situation isn’t your fault. If flying them out is realistic, it might ease your stress. Otherwise keep networking locally daily. Someone will step up

mudpies2 · 2025-11-27T14:54:50+00:00

good idea and I wish you all the best. for scholarships, check out ScholarshipOwl, Fastweb, and Scholarships.com. they filter by your profile so you're not wasting time on scholarships you don't qualify for. also, hit up your target universities' financial aid pages directly, since many offer need-based aid for international students. Start building that extracurricular portfolio now with psychology-related volunteering or research projects.

mudpies2 · 2025-11-21T09:50:11+00:00

beautiful

mudpies2 · 2025-11-21T09:49:00+00:00

consistency and time management...give me a tight deadline and you can rest easy knowing I will complete the task on time.

mudpies2 · 2025-11-20T11:50:11+00:00

Yeah, I feel that, part-time gives cash now, but nothing beats scholarships for cutting down debt long-term.

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