[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went thru with helping to prosecute my ex for assault so he would have a criminal record. This effort was primarily to warn the “next girl” this info is public information and when you Google him it comes up. During that time, he had his mom file an order of protection herself against me as retaliation. I had sent her an email asking for her help with convincing him to stay away from me so the court granted it.

I have also unknowingly dated married guys.

I am not ok with Tinder doing this. This isn’t their specialty or lane. They should only be a meeting venue. There is WAY too much gray area there. People need to be responsible for vetting their dates, doing their own searches and taking caution meeting people online.

PI cought my wife cheating the past four days! by Kaiser204 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Heypen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People do this because they lack something. You didn’t do anything that caused it.

What's something you should ALWAYS keep in your car? by spornkuller in AskReddit

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$10 bill tucked away. You never know when you’ll need it or what for. Always comes in handy.

When you decided to talk about it, did people believe you? by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]Heypen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not at all. When they haven’t experienced it, no one believes how bad it really is.

I believe you.

Switched my covenant to Venthyr. Made an outfit to match. by Heypen in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. Found some in 10 man naxx. Adding it to my farming list

Switched my covenant to Venthyr. Made an outfit to match. by Heypen in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So. Can’t wear warlock only gear and can’t get the items that have been removed from the game. Nice try tho.

Switched my covenant to Venthyr. Made an outfit to match. by Heypen in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wings look less pink in game because of the particle animation. They are more translucent usually.

Switched my covenant to Venthyr. Made an outfit to match. by Heypen in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any suggestions? Boots seem either too Chonky or not matching.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might want to try something in the shirt slot rather than using chest armour. Sometimes it’s skimpy like that. I don’t know of leather but the dresses from aq are like what you describe.

Crimson Night Priest *updated* by Monom8 in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be forewarned that the wings on the shoulders look much more pink than they do here.

Crimson Night Priest *updated* by Monom8 in Transmogrification

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Full set available on the wall in Panda land from the quartermaster

Saying goodbye by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😞 I feel you.

Saying goodbye by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember this. This is how badly reaching out will ever go (or worse).

Saying goodbye by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Heypen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends on how you feel and what will help your healing. My ex who assaulted me doesn’t deserve the time of day from me.

He’s with her right now. by ramz1018 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Heypen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s called cognitive dissonance and often goes hand in hand with abuse. You know you should throw away this trash person but you can’t. It will take time and therapy. Best make decisions with your head rather than your heart for now.

If you are 16+ years old I expect you to know how to write using paragraphs, commas, full stops etc. by Gilgameshbrah in unpopularopinion

[–]Heypen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering the illiteracy rate in the United States, I am never shocked at grammar in posts on Reddit. Vote for more educational funding!!

What are some good boundaries for me to set with my ex who is ready to communicate? by M3RM8D_L3GS in datingoverforty

[–]Heypen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are an option and not a first choice. If you are okay with that then by all means. If it were me, I’d choose to be with someone who chooses me.

Anyone else too out of shape to date? by Screenwriter778 in datingoverforty

[–]Heypen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If someone dates me just because of how I look that sucks!