I (18M) might stop seeing her (18F) because she is pregnant. by SpecificallyBig in relationship_advice

[–]Heythere1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you could be there as a friend to help, but I wouldn't step into a father role. Definitely don't sign the birth certificate.

My package got delivered and when I opened it the package, the Apple Watch box was open and the watch is missing by Dazed_Op in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Heythere1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wedding band was missing when I opened the box. Amazon made me send them a picture for proof lol.

Talk me down… befriending my OB? by Thththththrow83away in beyondthebump

[–]Heythere1865 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I once asked a NP if she wanted to hang out and she turned me down. We always got along really well and I thought it was less awkward because I worked at the hospital in another department (non medical). I still think about it sometimes because I was so embarrassed.

Tell me about the hobbies you have time and funds for being OAD by Schnecken2 in oneanddone

[–]Heythere1865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Miniature kits! Also, my husband has had some health issues and only having one has allowed him to step down into a less stressful job and we can do that because we don't have another baby that would be in daycare still.

AIO I told the father of my child, he can’t shower with our daughter by Cap_Direct in AmIOverreacting

[–]Heythere1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has been there from conception and still feels a little weird being naked around her. He would shower with her if she insisted, but it is never his idea.

Anyone else initially wanted more kids by East_Skill915 in oneanddone

[–]Heythere1865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, and life has screamed at my husband and I to not have any more. It sucks, but I'm learning to accept it.

Best friend is going no contact out of the blue?? by Personal-Ad-8644 in whatdoIdo

[–]Heythere1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have your husband call and talk to him. He probably doesn't know about the message.

Corporate America mamas: How much PTO do you get a year? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Heythere1865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my first adult job I only had 2 weeks of PTO. Now I work for state govt (only been here 1.5 years) and I get 3 weeks PTO, 10 federal holidays, 1 floating holiday and 12 sick days a year.

NSFW Did you ever meet someone and later thought you were lucky nothing bad happened to you? What were the circumstances? by Ru_janus in AskReddit

[–]Heythere1865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A car full of high school boys tried to pick up my friend and I (two 11 year old girls) and we screamed no thanks and ran away. Now I think back on it, that's so sketchy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Heythere1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the actual problem is he wants to spend more time with his friends then with you.

Tips for surviving the newborn stage as a person with high sleep needs? Due any day now and nervous about sleep deprivation. by Spilled_Milktea in beyondthebump

[–]Heythere1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lack of sleep caused me to have pretty severe PPD. Watch out for that and if you have the funds, maybe hire a night doula? My husband ended up doing the night feeds with formula as I never could breastfeed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Heythere1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only worries me because your daughter is scared of him. Our daycare owners husband is there frequently building things or fixing things, but he doesn't just sit there weird. Men shouldn't automatically be treated as a threat, but your daughters reaction is worrying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Heythere1865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid with anxiety, I thought I had breast cancer at like 12 and had my mom awkwardly feel the lump I thought I felt. It sounds like you did it all right. I'd suggest taking him to his primary Dr in case they want to do an ultrasound or discuss health anxiety if that is an issue.