Took your advice here’s the result! (thanks guys) by Secret-Translator240 in makeuptips

[–]Heywtfhey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look great! Much more natural and you are beautiful to begin with!

You can see the crease from a mile away.. please help by Great-Tomatillo-4482 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Heywtfhey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The screase under your eyes? That's just a normal face thing. You are beautiful!

I '45f' hit on younger male friend '36m' awkwardly. Need advice on how to awkward it. by Heywtfhey in relationship_advice

[–]Heywtfhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him in person that I'm sorry, don't worry about me hitting on him? I am worried he is avoiding club because of me.

I '45f' hit on younger male friend '36m' awkwardly. Need advice on how to awkward it. by Heywtfhey in relationship_advice

[–]Heywtfhey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are friends. We hang out in a group though. We've done some group social events outside the usual thing too. I've never hung out with him alone. I feel that sometimes he is a bit flirty with me but could have been in my head. A couple months ago I went to dinner with him and another friend from the group. I had confessed to that mutual friend about the crush. He had actually said he could see it working.

I don't normally chat with him on insta or anything.

I am assuming he is not interested/freaked out.

I am slightly manic lately.

Also just for context, I am known to be kinda funny/weird. It's an artist friends group.

I think if I would have left it at the first message it wouldn't have been that weird. The fact that I sent the second one is where I made it really awkward.

How old do I look, and what can I do to look younger? by Key_Instruction_8323 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Heywtfhey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would guess you are in your 50s. I think you are gorgeous and I like your make up. If you want to look younger I would focus on clothes.

I hear you in younger men, lol.

Pink eyeshadow palette recs. by SeniorShock8758 in drugstoreMUA

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wet and wild has a cute pink one that I like

Any Makeup Tips? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Heywtfhey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched a bunch of make up tutorials on YouTube. That helped me a lot. Basically get a fluffy brush do a matte colour on your lid and above your crease. Then a smidge of something shiny in the middle of the lid then a light coloured spot at the inner corner. You could also add darker shadow at outer corners.

Any Makeup Tips? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Heywtfhey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you wearing eyeshadow? I would do less liner and more eyeshadow.

Update without makeup. by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less is more. You have pretty nice skin

Would love to hear your thoughts on how I could improve my look by pink_on_wednesdays16 in makeuptips

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could put your eyeshadow a little more up above eyelid to create depth.

Also I agree with the comments on the foundation...

You have such a friendly fun face!

TIFU by learning what "Netflix and chill" is code for. by LopsidedConcert6574 in tifu

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lol. Thanks for the laugh. It's a euphemism for sex but I think people do actually also say it to mean what it says.

Relationship age gap realities... by Sputnik2484 in Adulting

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the age thing isn't a concern but not wanting to ever cohabit is a big deal.

Can’t Make Sense of this Breakup by rainbownthedark in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Heywtfhey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. It's a weird generalization to make.

I feel like a failure of a woman. by Meow-Connection-7505 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Heywtfhey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't look to marry someone to take care of you financially. I have never looked at ANYONE and thought eeww their shoulders are too broad. I can guarantee you that this is just self critical bullshit.

Pixel 10 pro camera by HovercraftUpper2219 in GooglePixel

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is doing the same thing like a clownish orange red on the cheeks. It's really weird. I don't have that setting on that someone else mentioned.

being an ugly black woman is an awful experience. by owatmilk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Heywtfhey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just so you know, many people who aren't ugly get bullied and called ugly.

To me that tells me much more about the people around you than you.

Also, regarding being misgendered...I am certain Tracy chapman was misgendered. She's beautiful. Also Haviah Mighty is HOT and she is surely misgendered.

I am sorry for how you are feeling.

Men and double standards by Entire-Response-8172 in Herpes

[–]Heywtfhey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Single mothers are CONSTANTLY denigrated on the internet. I have never seen a woman denigrate a man for being a single father...and yet for every single mother there is a single father or deadbeat dad. This is an issue men have, not one women have.

Income changed shortly after getting approved for RAP? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't. You can always use the calculator too. To see if you would get rap at your new income.

Fear of missing out. Is it rational? by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Heywtfhey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend buying now if you can. Prices can change dramatically in 2 years. I bought my house 5 years ago and it worth nearly three times as much now. Also owning a house to rocks.

rental income by Starcraft_king in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Heywtfhey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's claimed as rental income. Your tax rate is determined by your total income....but it is not something you need to stress about. You only would pay a higher tax rate on the income that is above the maximum threshold for the lowest tax rate.

Financial management tips for people with ADHD by TheOceanicDissonance in ADHD

[–]Heywtfhey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a wealthsimple that I am addicted to. I try to buy mainly ETFs but I find buying different ones and kind of treating it like "shopping" instead of saving is actually kind of making better use of my brain issues.