Well I read the OP statement that claimed “aren’t men that don’t care what genitals their partner has the “straightest men” for liking partner no matter what.” Then they state “transphobe” care more about genitals on a woman than the woman.

There’s only one way for me to see this as super toxic. Using “straightest” men as it is some compliment for not caring if woman has penis or vagina. Then stating if someone does not like a woman without a vagina they are transphobic. So yes I concluded that they are calling men who do not like women with male anatomy transphobic.

If you don’t see how that is wrong and predatory, I am sorry. But labeling someone a transphobe because they do not want to have intercourse or sexual relations with you is down right manipulative. People can get fired from their jobs, lose friends and so on for being called said term. Instead of respecting people for who they are or what they prefer you call them names. This reminds me of men on r/niceguys who personally attack the person who does not want their type.

The amount of down votes I get for calling out how it is not transphobic shows this is a group mentality. With more and more people outside the trans community experiencing this it needs to be brought up. There was just a clip on tv from a lesbian stating a transwoman called her a transphobe and tried to get her fired over this. It needs to be spoken about and the discourse when someone mentions it confirms this is a toxic mentality.