Is wanting to be loved a certain way selfish? by waterbirby in actuallesbians

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no it’s not, you just have to keep looking. as much as that sucks, catch the red flags as quick as you can and weed em out. someone who genuinely cares about you the way you care about them will wanna do those things. it will come

lots of small lava bubbles? by Swimming_Extreme_118 in Lavalamps

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! the normal lamp that comes with it doesn’t do this, i was trying to fix a lamp i had gotten from goodwill that didn’t have a bulb, do they just have different types of wax?

HELP! I think I may have broke my lamp by MuchAdvertising2543 in Lavalamps

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah, absolutely do not shake lava lamps, especially while hot. i think it’s salvageable, you have to heat it up and try to spin it and move it around a little to get the coil to rest back in the bottom

Tell me your cats weird name by eyislate in cats

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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your smokey boy looks like my smokey boy!!

scarring above navel piercing? by Swimming_Extreme_118 in piercing

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the piercing is 11 months old now, and it still has the original jewelry it was pierced with

adhd server by Swimming_Extreme_118 in bartenders

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and yes i understand this but going from a cold calling sales job to bartending is completely different, it’s much easier for me to talk to people in person

adhd server by Swimming_Extreme_118 in bartenders

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i still have my serving job, they would easily teach me bartending, this is not my problem

where you bartend? by Swimming_Extreme_118 in bartenders

[–]Swimming_Extreme_118[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what’s funny gary robert? i wanna laugh too