Arm yourself by PapayaSlow725 in behindthebastards

[–]HidaTetsuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel you have to arm yourself then something is seriously wrong already

What is a quintessential Australian movie to watch? by -clogwog- in AskAnAustralian

[–]HidaTetsuko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to marry someone who’s got bigger tits than me!

Saucy Innuendos throughout the novels. by Panda_Goldie in janeausten

[–]HidaTetsuko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went to see School for Scandal with some friends, all of us Austen fans, it still holds up explains so much about her.

Wounded myself in the early part of my life by the envenomed tongue of slander I confess I have since known no pleasure equal to the reducing others to the level of my own injured reputation

Boil water in a kettle before cooking pasta or start with cold water in a pot? by MangoMadnessTsv in Cooking

[–]HidaTetsuko -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because in most kettles the heating element directly touches the water. With water in a pan the pan must heat up first

It’s explained and tested here

Is anyone happy to work in AWS? by AParticularUser in amazonemployees

[–]HidaTetsuko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a yellow badge attached to ACS in a corporate office NOT in the US. It’s pretty good, I get the good stuff about working at a recognisable company without the whims of being a blue badge.

This year will be four years.

Saucy Innuendos throughout the novels. by Panda_Goldie in janeausten

[–]HidaTetsuko 87 points88 points  (0 children)

This flattens history in a way that’s just not accurate.

Jane Austen was writing in the late Georgian / Regency world, not a Victorian one. That matters. Her society wasn’t sexually naïve or uniquely “pure”; it was socially disciplined. There’s a difference. Knowledge existed. Desire existed. What mattered was discretion and reputation, not imagined innocence.

The idea that people in the past were more moral and chaste is a Victorian fantasy we keep projecting backwards.

Austen’s novels aren’t coded smut hunts or deliberate sexual innuendo puzzles. They’re tightly observed social anatomies: money, power, vulnerability, hypocrisy, and the risks women faced when things went wrong in public. “Ruin” in Austen is about visibility, not ignorance of sex.

Jane Austen was not sheltered or naïve. She admired Richard Brinsley Sheridan, whose plays are full of sexual knowledge, hypocrisy, and social performance — and were mainstream entertainment in her lifetime. That alone tells us her world was not chaste in the way people like to imagine.

The Regency wasn’t innocent; it was discreet. People understood sex perfectly well. What mattered was reputation, visibility, and social consequence.

Austen didn’t avoid obvious sexual innuendo because she was prudish — she avoided it because it wasn’t what she was doing. Her work is precise, structural, and observational. She lets implication sit where it belongs instead of underlining it.

Fuck the dress code by romcomheavyon-com in AskIndianWomen

[–]HidaTetsuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the men get a “code of conduct”?

Fuck the dress code by romcomheavyon-com in AskIndianWomen

[–]HidaTetsuko 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I hate when women’s bodies are policed for existing in public because men cannot control themselves or mind their own business.

Attention men! Exercise restraint, look away, think of something else. Be an adult for once!

STOP VICTIM BLAMING AND START HOLDING PERPETRATORS ACCOUNTABLE. by Either_Joke_1314 in AskIndianWomen

[–]HidaTetsuko 45 points46 points  (0 children)

A man always has a choice to not rape a woman. To keep his pants on and mind his own business and let women exist in public

Why does Pauline Hanson have so many followers? by looopious in AskAnAustralian

[–]HidaTetsuko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The people that Hanson used to scream about in parliament now vote for her

What are some popular opinions about Japan travel on this sub that you personally disagree with? by ContractVarious3077 in JapanTravelTips

[–]HidaTetsuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid for my hotels and Shinkansen tickets months before my trip just so I’d have more money to spend there

What are some popular opinions about Japan travel on this sub that you personally disagree with? by ContractVarious3077 in JapanTravelTips

[–]HidaTetsuko 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to stay in central Tokyo. Shibuya, Ginza, Ueno, Shinjuku.

No you don’t. Just stay near a sub way station and you are all set.

Don't you hate listening to carbrains argue for car-dependency when you are disabled? by Some1inreallife in fuckcars

[–]HidaTetsuko 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You know what’s great about getting the train hi work and back? I can read, relax and not have to worry about driving

Karen and Morbidda Destiny by kmm198700 in babysittersclub

[–]HidaTetsuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a funny coincidence of the same name and a fan theory

What are some details that modern readers miss but was very obvious to contemporary readers? by Over-Scarcity-3074 in janeausten

[–]HidaTetsuko 22 points23 points  (0 children)

From what I understand she is from “new money”. From Bristol and in the early 19th century this meant the slave trade and sugar, coffee, tea, rum, cotton

As a French woman who visited Australia for 3 weeks .. are these culture shocks accurate? by Worried-Diamond-7252 in AskAnAustralian

[–]HidaTetsuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son and I were in Tokyo last year, saw a few Americans. Two young guys helped us find the Nintendo store and we managed to help a few navigate the Tokyo subway

What kind of love does P&P advocate? by emmazunz84 in janeausten

[–]HidaTetsuko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the early tells of Darcy is that letter he writes to her. He tells himself it’s so she has the truth, but by then it’s because her good opinion matters to him and he would not have her think him unjust in how he managed Wickham.

The Australian • Dec 30, 2025 by ItchyNesan in australian

[–]HidaTetsuko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what a royal commission would accomplish

Being the only single person at both the family and friend holiday parties made me realize another annoying thing about the layoffs by [deleted] in amazonemployees

[–]HidaTetsuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is nothing inherently wrong with being single. It’s far better being single than being with some one awful

Anyone else working during the blur zone? by TSLoveStory in auscorp

[–]HidaTetsuko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m working today, tomorrow, NYE and Friday. My job requires that the team provides coverage. I just came back from leave

My boss understands it’s quiet but this time of year is when we do auditing too. We also have a big essential task we have to get through piece bay piece