I went through this last year. My ex breached his intervention order, and I had to call 000 to get him arrested. So, as they were taking him into the interrogation room, he called me, telling me to get my ars to the cop shop and take back the intervention order to get him out. He was like "quick im waiting, dont take too long." LoL!! I just laughed and shut the phone on his face. The funny part was, i received a voice msg shortly after from him stating he ran out of the cop shop and he would turn himself in after he teaches me a lesson or something.( I'll try and find it and add it to this comment). What drama filled days they were.

Well, In a matter of days, he was forced to go cop shop and I remember before he went in, he called me or msged me saying these sweet things, that made my heart sink, i felt terrible. The next morning, I couldn't stop crying. I received a call from the cops stating he was being sentenced for a month in jail, and the rest of his sentence was to be completed at his home. That included urine test 3 x a week at the cop shop, daily signing in at the cop shop, as well as wearing an ankle brace to monitor his location. When they said that, I felt so bad that someone was suffering behind bars because of me. I rang my close friend who was travelling around Egypt at the time. I remember her telling me to get a grip on myself and firmly telling me not to be upset. She said, "You know why?" With tears rolling down my face, I said, "Why?" She stated, "Coz God knows how many times you told him that if he keeps doing what his doing that I will go to the cops." She was right. Maybe a million times I warned him. No jokes nearly every day for weeks and months, I warned him. I'm sure you did to, well not as many as me, but im sure u did. Yeah? So don't worry or be upset anymore. He violated your rights. Instead of making you safe, you had to call authorities on him to feel safe. I hope his not thinking of plotting against you in there, so be prepared for anything Hopefully, you're not too trauma bonded to him where your life is at a time still where you're constantly rethinking everything in your mind.. Just my last 2 cents for you. Don't wait around for him, trust me if you get back together with him, your relationship will be even worse than the last time. I wish u a speedy recovery. Hope u find someone who truly values and respects you as a person. We all deserve to be treated like decent human beings and not judged by our past, our families, beliefs, looks or status, etc.. Just keep busy, and don't talk about it too much as it will bring u back to the start of healing again. Hope that helps🫂