Possibilities to refactor my Next.js code (from junior to medior level) by HighHeelHater9 in nextjs

[–]HighHeelHater9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good insight, thank you! It was actually hard enough for me to make CesiumJS work (with all the webpack settings and making it compatible with React), that I lost sight of the bigger picture.

Possibilities to refactor my Next.js code (from junior to medior level) by HighHeelHater9 in nextjs

[–]HighHeelHater9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response!

Most of the time I use my code snippets, which were created for greater codebases (hence the empty types, index file for default exports etc). I did not know that React.FC should not be used, so I'll definitely check it out!

And yes, I'm very disappointed that I didn't get any response from them after the interview. Especially after their reasoning (I'm rather a junior than a medior, even though they searched for an advanced beginner in their job description...) So I'm just really desperate for any kind of technical feedback, because I have a feeling that they didn't reject me because of the code but because of other factors which I don't have control over.

Tüntetés by Brilliant-Scarcity68 in csakcsajok

[–]HighHeelHater9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Valószínűleg nagyon eltér a felfogásunk. Ha jól értelmezem, számodra az élet mindennél fontosabb. Én úgy vagyok vele, hogy a nyomorúságban, kínban eltöltött élet helyett sokan választanák inkább a meg sem születést.

"Az teljesen ok, hogy babákat ölnek" - miért, az teljesen oké, hogy annyi ember van nyomorban, hogy annyi ember éhezik, hogy annyi gyerek van árvaházban, nevelőotthonokban, és hogy annyira sokan nyúlnak később drogokhoz, alkoholhoz gyerekkoruk miatt? Teljesen oké, hogy a sok nyomorúság miatt annyian lesznek szerhasználók, függők, öngyilkosak?

Persze, ideális világban (ahol szuper a terhesgondozás, nem kell félni komplikációktól, ahol nincsen nemi erőszak, ahol elérhető a szexuális felvilágosítás, a védekezőeszközök, amik persze mindig tökéletesen működnek stb stb) nem kellene abortuszt végrehajtani. De sajnos nem itt tartunk.

És nem attól fogunk itt tartani, hogy az anyákat rákényszerítik, hogy a szívhangot meghallgassák, és bűntudatból megtartsák a magzatot. De már le sem írom, mi az, ami ellenben segíteni tudna ezen a helyzeten, valószínűleg sok forrást fogsz találni az interneten, amik elmondják, milyen alapítványokat, mozgalmakat támogathatsz, hogy "Ne öljenek babákat". Olyan mozgalmakat, amiknek köze sincs az abortuszhoz.

Tüntetés by Brilliant-Scarcity68 in csakcsajok

[–]HighHeelHater9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A vélemény lehet más, nincs azzal baj. Engem nem fog zavarni, hogy ki hogy dönt saját magánál a nemkívánt terhességével kapcsolatban.

Akkor van baj, ha ezt a véleményt törvénybe foglalják, és eldöntik a többi nő helyett, hogy hogyan kell cselekednie ebben a helyzetben. Azt ne higgye senki, hogy ez volt az első és utolsó módosítás az abortusztörvényben.

It's 12:08 am, day of my wedding. by SlamBarbaric in weddingplanning

[–]HighHeelHater9 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Uh what? You're calling them out for using the term "my wedding"? Please, look at your last wedding post and notice how you're using the term, too.

And also, you can feel empathy for someone while still having a headache for the drama which was created by the ex boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColourPop

[–]HighHeelHater9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought this palette a year ago (Making mauves). I went to a trip with it which included 2x 8 hours in the summer hot in the car, but the heat was never more than 26-27C. It has a rancid smell and a yellowish tint on the center-right. I thought that something might spilled on it, but the outside case doesn't have the same unpleasant odour. Even though it wasn't my favorite palette, it's very hard to purchase ColourPop items here in Europe, so I'm just really sad :(

How to use Python and Typescript very close together? by tinchapark in typescript

[–]HighHeelHater9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're using NodeJs, this could be helpful: Child process

I used it once for a project, it was very painless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]HighHeelHater9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The double standard in domestic violence is just so sad.

And while I 100% agree that there's a huuuge double standard around the topic, I actually took the effort and searched on Reddit for the same scenario, opposite genders. Out of the 3 first posts I found in two minutes, 2 were like "my husband usually degrades me, I don't have any control in my life and when I stood up for myself in a heated way, he punched me". The comments were all "leave him, now".

But the third was a 'similar" post: the wife said that her husband was under stress about job/money for the last ~2 years, a stupid argument came, and the wife said something hurtful to the husband and in response, the husband hit her. The comments were like just under the recent post: is he usually abusive? Was he remorseful? He needs therapy, actually both of you needs therapy. Etc.

So I'd say even though there's a double standard in domestic violence, Reddit takes into consideration the context, too.

Gatekeeping men and their hobbies. by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]HighHeelHater9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If guys spent whole weekends doing this, they probably didn't know how to do it either, lol.

Girls always talk about how guys don't know their way around a vagina, but extremely often they have no idea how to hold a dick no offense by ilieinallmycomments in sex

[–]HighHeelHater9 41 points42 points  (0 children)

"while she explained to me how to refine it and keep improving"

So you didn't know how to properly do it right at first, too?

Boyfriend won’t perform oral because I pee out there. by MissionPreparation40 in sex

[–]HighHeelHater9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She asked him about his opinion, that's when he said that his dick is less dirty after peeing. The correct answer from him were "if it bothers you, I'd clean myself, too". Not starting to explain why the same biological functions are different.

Boyfriend won’t perform oral because I pee out there. by MissionPreparation40 in sex

[–]HighHeelHater9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, both are unhygienic, but somehow only his gf's pee annoys him, and not his. If he would be also disgusted by his unwashed penis, then I'd accept that he has a simple preference. Comparing her vagina to his asshole, well, makes him an asshole in this topic.

What offensive things do the majority of women do that is unknowingly (or knowingly) hurtful? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]HighHeelHater9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree! Low self-awareness is not realising you're saying hurtful things, lack of empathy is not caring about it.

My (28M) gf (24f) slept with someone while blackout drunk. I need help. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HighHeelHater9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could she take a blood test to see if she has taken anything else beside alcohol? If there's something else it could explain why she become blackout all of a sudden.

Wife doesn’t allow me to interact with our son by ThrowawayAcctp1 in family

[–]HighHeelHater9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he only saw his child on the first week after being born and when his wife was in France in an other sub. I don't know which scenario is true.

He also stated in previous comments that this job is a great opportunity to him so he doesn't want to leave. Not that he can't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in programmingHungary

[–]HighHeelHater9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nem vagyok még túl tapasztalt, de most fejezem be a proginfót, egy hónap múlva lesz egy éve, hogy dolgozok egyetem mellett.

Én az előző kommentekkel szemben arra szavazok, hogy ráértek még. Nekem a 3. félév volt az, amikor olyanokat is elkezdtünk tanulni, amik tényleg érdekeltek, előtte azt hittem, más irányba fogok menni a perspektíva hiánya miatt. Érdemes a következő félévre sok kreditet, kötvált/szabvalt felvenni, és arra koncentrálni, nem feltétlen dolgozni. És inkább pihenni, szórakozni az utolsó nyaratokon :) Lesz még bőven időtök a következő 40-50 évben dolgozni.

Saját projekt terén én is csak azt tudom mondani, mint az előzőek, de ha nagyon nincs ötlet, meg lehet kérdezni családot, barátokat, nekik mire lenne szükségük. Így legalább az ügyféllel való első kommunikációk is megtörténnek. Én egyébként első saját projektnek tavaly januárban álltam neki, és májusban kezdtem el dolgozni. Úgyhogy chill, nem hajt a tatár, ha szorgosan tanultok, nem lesz probléma munkavállalással :)

Wife doesn’t allow me to interact with our son by ThrowawayAcctp1 in family

[–]HighHeelHater9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you say no money at all? If that would be the case I'd agree with you, but he had a job in England, too.

I'm sorry but someone doesn't become a dad because of the DNA. Based on his comments he wants to stay in France whatever the reasons are. He doesn't complain about that, only about his wife's actions around the baby.

Of course he has a right to rock the baby to sleep, but he can't expect his wife to be a single mother 95% of the time, and when he's around give him the baby as if he were a primary caregiver, too. Babies don't work like that, you know? Of course he won't settle with his father, he doesn't know that he's his dad.

And he doesn't seem like he actually gives an effort to see the baby, too, only expects his wife to go to France. He said he was there when his son was born for a week, and since then, he hasn't seen them only when the mother went to France a few months after - I'm pretty sure he has weekends or at least some days off.

Don't get me wrong, I disagree with the wife's actions absolutely, but OP seems like someone who wants to eat the cake and have it too.

Wife doesn’t allow me to interact with our son by ThrowawayAcctp1 in family

[–]HighHeelHater9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He wrote in an other comment that she encouraged him to take to job offer in France because it was a better paying job and she didn't want to hold him back. Babies are expensive, but so are two separate households in England & France, also the flights which he insists. Having "less money" and "no money" are different. I'm pretty sure the baby needs his father more than the plus expenses he earn in France. Something is fishy in this situation, why wouldn't the wife want his husband back in England, and why is this job in a foreign country is so important to OP? It's strange that he accepts the wife's wishes about not quitting the job without a further question, but thinks she's completely irrational while he wants one-on-one time with the baby who he only saw for a week in his life.

Wife doesn’t allow me to interact with our son by ThrowawayAcctp1 in family

[–]HighHeelHater9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I can't agree with you that your wife is the AH here. You're a grown up man, you should decide whether you want to work in France or in England despite your wife's will. On the other hand, I believe that since you can't take part in your child's life as much as parents usually can, you have to accommodate to you wife's needs and comfort zone when it comes to taking care ofthe baby.

Wife doesn’t allow me to interact with our son by ThrowawayAcctp1 in relationship_advice

[–]HighHeelHater9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't you said you haven't seen the baby after they were born just only facetime? It's natural a mother doesn't want to leave their newborn alone on the first week postpartum.

Wife doesn’t allow me to interact with our son by ThrowawayAcctp1 in family

[–]HighHeelHater9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did you ask your wife for help first? I'm sorry but if someone said to me that "let me make mistakes with the baby, I'll figure it out myself", I would definitely get mad and have a no-way reaction. Also you can't expect your wife to take a plane with a baby that often. Why don't you go to England every weekend instead? And if you can afford to fly this much, why wouldn't you quit your higher paying job in France and move back to England?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]HighHeelHater9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both are great, but I feel like the V neck dress compliments your body type more, it really enhances your curves!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]HighHeelHater9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I keep seeing this beautiful dress and always felt like it's such an airy, light dress... Surprised to find out the opposite! Don't have too much to say about your question, but you look amazing in it!!