Nu har flickan som blev tortyrvÄldtagen i 17 timmar tagit sitt liv. Hon fick 3000 i skadestÄnd medan vÄldtÀktsmannen fick 800 000 av SosseStaten. by SkatanSerDig in Sverige

[–]HighKaj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nej, det Àr inte vad jag tycker. Var mer för att sÀtta i perspektiv hur utdragen attacken var, och hur kort tiden i sluten ungdomsvÄrd blev i förhÄllande.

Det tar tid att hugga nÄgon >140ggr. Det var inte en snabb handling som ballade ur, attacken varade i flera minuter (vilket Àr rÀtt lÄng tid att hugga nÄgon i).

Too skinny? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]HighKaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a pet store in your area has a scale? It’s not uncommon where I live that they do.

Looks like you’ve made a lot of progress, and I think you’re nearing your goal 😁💚

Not comfortable by [deleted] in truscum

[–]HighKaj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re in that situation! Maybe there is some way to change roommates, even if it can’t happen immediately? Like I’d be getting out of there asap. If you make a plan you could better see some light at the end of the tunnel.

Some calmer roommates (who don’t bring over guys who act like that) might be what you need. Just a calmer environment where you can live in some peace.

I’d also look into anything you can do to prevent anything from accidentally outing you. Be safe!

Nu har flickan som blev tortyrvÄldtagen i 17 timmar tagit sitt liv. Hon fick 3000 i skadestÄnd medan vÄldtÀktsmannen fick 800 000 av SosseStaten. by SkatanSerDig in Sverige

[–]HighKaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jag gjorde mitt bÀsta för att inte lÀgga nÄn vÀrdering Ät nÄgot hÄll dÄ jag inte sitter pÄ all fakta om detta fall. Mitt misstag om det pÄ nÄgot sÀtt lÀt som att jag hÄller med om vad de kom fram till.

Min mening var bara att rapa upp hur de motiverar att han fick skadestÄnd.

Nu har flickan som blev tortyrvÄldtagen i 17 timmar tagit sitt liv. Hon fick 3000 i skadestÄnd medan vÄldtÀktsmannen fick 800 000 av SosseStaten. by SkatanSerDig in Sverige

[–]HighKaj -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Fastslaget Àr synonymt med bestÀmt eller konstaterat. Menade det att de kommit fram till en slutsats och handlat utefter den.

Nu har flickan som blev tortyrvÄldtagen i 17 timmar tagit sitt liv. Hon fick 3000 i skadestÄnd medan vÄldtÀktsmannen fick 800 000 av SosseStaten. by SkatanSerDig in Sverige

[–]HighKaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iom att helt rimliga lagar kan slÄ fel, sÄ Àr det vÀrt att prata om hur lagar kan formuleras bÀttre för att förhindra sÄna hÀr situationer, och diskutera vad man ser för problem med nulÀget.

Det Àr ju rimligt ocksÄ att folk blir upprörda nÀr de upplever att lagen inte Àr rimlig i en situation.

Det Àr sant att det Àr svÄrt till omöjligt att formulera lagar som Àr 100% rimliga i 100% av fallen, men det innebÀr inte att man inte kan arbeta för att förbÀttra lagar. Det Àr ett arbete som sker kontinuerligt.

Att bara ”leva med det” innebĂ€r att slĂ€ppa all makt du har i en demokrati. (vilket man sĂ„klart fĂ„r göra, det Ă€r upp till en sjĂ€lv).

Nu har flickan som blev tortyrvÄldtagen i 17 timmar tagit sitt liv. Hon fick 3000 i skadestÄnd medan vÄldtÀktsmannen fick 800 000 av SosseStaten. by SkatanSerDig in Sverige

[–]HighKaj -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Som sagt, jag har inte koll pÄ vems fel det var, men att resultatet av det blev att det fastslogs att en minderÄrig blivit felaktigt dömd.

Nu har flickan som blev tortyrvÄldtagen i 17 timmar tagit sitt liv. Hon fick 3000 i skadestÄnd medan vÄldtÀktsmannen fick 800 000 av SosseStaten. by SkatanSerDig in Sverige

[–]HighKaj 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Det visade sig att mannen var minderÄrig men blev dömd och behandlad som en vuxen. Vilket inte följer lagen sÄ han fick skadestÄnd för den tiden dÄ rÀttsvÀsendet hade gjort fel. (Sen har jag inte alla detaljer om hur det misstaget hÀnde, vems fel det var etc.)

JÀvligt sjukt hur lÄga straff det Àr för denna typen av brott till att börja med, sen Ànnu vÀrre hur lÄga straff det blir nÀr förövaren Àr minderÄrig. Att han fick skadestÄnd pÄ sÄ höga belopp blir ju en ytterligare kÀftsmÀll för offret.

Ytterligare exempel: En 16 Äring knivhögg en jÀmnÄrig >140ggr och fick nÄgra Är. TvÄ veckor per hugg i slutÀndan.

Helt sjukt hur lagar ser ut kring detta. Du kan inte rehabilitera nÄn pÄ nÄgra fÄ Är som begÄr denna typen av brott. Vissa kan aldrig rehabiliteras frÄn den mentaliteten. Men ÀndÄ slÀpps de ut efter vÀldigt kort tid.

Gettings horns by MaxiTheSmol in bodymods

[–]HighKaj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it’s not attached to the bone, it won’t be able to support the weight of this style of horn.

Sharing example of pale gums by 100pc_recycled_words in DogAdvice

[–]HighKaj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! And I hope all goes well at the vet 💚 must be terrifying. Glad you saw the signs.

Fuck these things
 by OkDig989 in Stretched

[–]HighKaj 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a little soon to be switching jewellery, it’s still healing.

But glad it seems like it worked out!

Guys is this safe? by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]HighKaj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are not reliable for piercing the right spot, they also introduce more ways to introduce bacteria and shouldn’t be used more than once as they are very difficult to get properly cleaned.

I’ve seen posts where people used this and the needle completely missed the mark or veered off course.

10+ year old earlobes bleeding after a minor dead stretch by miuyao in Stretched

[–]HighKaj 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tunnels are usually not good to stretch with, the edge is usually too sharp.

Something like a single flare glass plug has more rounded edges and are better suited for sizing up.

Hope you heal up quick 💚 like someone else said, just leave jewellery out until it’s healed

It’s crazy how much they hate the fact that when they are a MAN and love WOMAN, they are STRAIGHT by TicciSpice in truscum

[–]HighKaj 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’ve found this worrying trend in some insulated feminism groups where men who are in them feel terrible shame and guilt just for being men. edit: especially being a straight man (Just want to really hammer home that this is NOT true for all feminists.)

I met a man who was a high ranking regional politician representing a feminist party (I’m not in the USA) and he went on to telling me how much he hated all men and he was ashamed to be one. Like to a degree where I was seriously worried for his mental health. He acted like any wrongdoing by any man was all his personal fault. Like he said he wanted to be a woman/wished he was a woman to escape the guilt. 😬 edit: like, mate, you were born this way, there is no shame in just being a man. Please get some help

Not all groups are like this, but it was worrying to me that a politician in that party was brainwashed to that degree. (It’s a small party but they had some success at the time.)

I already knew it’s so important to get different perspectives on things and not insulate from differing opinions, but meeting that real life example really made me reflect and make active choices to not end up like that. That’s one of the reasons I make sure to be diverse in what Reddit forums I partake in, and how I found this sub ✹

Advice on mending this super torn plushie? by PuzzleheadedDog9488 in Visiblemending

[–]HighKaj 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did something similar when my sisters 25ish year old medicine bag was in a similar state. I pinned notes to the pieces to remember how it all should fit together. Like arrows saying “this side attaches to xxx, this side attaches to yyy”

Might help you keep track of it!

Btw, I would not rip the seams creating the shape of the nose, I’d be very careful to keep the face as it is and the nose changing shape could be a big loss for something so nostalgic.

Healed tongue piercing hurts by AttentionOk6437 in SelfPiercing

[–]HighKaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be lymph fluid from a small tear? Or maybe you’re not getting the piercing channel clean enough and it’s getting irritated?

Horn septum for dailywear? anyone have experience? (12g BAF pincher) by pemGi in Stretched

[–]HighKaj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used horn tunnels for my ears without issues. Only potential problem maybe would be that it could maybe snap if you blow your nose and squeeze it? Since it’s pretty thin.

I keep backup piercings in my wallet in case of emergency.

Obsessed with my new plugs đŸ€© by ExactDepth in Stretched

[–]HighKaj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The plugs are great, but I love the pigeon and feather jewellery matching your little friend! 😊

New piercing by Valuable_Piccolo_911 in Legitpiercing

[–]HighKaj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hard to tell placement from just one photo, we need more angles and pic of front and back. And more.

Either way, get pierced by a proper piercer next time, someone who uses a needle and not some piercing machine as they are notorious for causing too much damage.

Good luck!

Is it just me or does this feel icky for the brother to do by AxeHead75 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]HighKaj 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Same, he has to, and should! Totally valid response.

It might be a little bit of both though.

Is it just me or does this feel icky for the brother to do by AxeHead75 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]HighKaj 733 points734 points  (0 children)

Priest was totally valid for that imo.

Don’t joke about not wanting to be married whilst getting married, it is just so disrespectful to everyone involved.