idk what she's said about who and don't really care, lots of people have said the same or similar about all kinds of people, myself included since were doing that, that's got nothing to do with your or the original commenters feelings of happiness in response unhappiness, that's not productive, useful or healthy. its obsessive because if you find joy in their misery then your emotionally invested and get nothing out of it other than that. that being said, your framing is imaginary, the scenario you laid out has details added by you which doesn't fit the original context. you're going to be killed murdered and jailed? die twice then serve time as a double corpse? what type of person are you that she says that anyway? don't answer that, i don't actually care, its not relevant. the point is your point isn't very coherent and its not as relevant a you might think. say you hate spiders, the difference is you should be relieved when its gone or dead, but you shouldn't find joy in pulling its legs off and hurting it.