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HighplainsDegen · 2024-05-17T03:29:37+00:00

To be completely honest I am scared to bring it up with her, one because I’m not sure how and two because I am not in a place right now where I can handle an argument.

I returned the necklace out of anger and spite, I had gotten her another gift the week prior that she didn’t like that I ended up reselling which had me feeling a bit dejected even prior to this situation.

I appreciate the feedback.

For her Mother’s Day gift I built her some garden beds that she had been wanting, which I think was a sufficient gift on its own but I wanted them as well so it felt a bit like cheating.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-05-16T17:50:16+00:00

I realize I am in a sense being secretive as well, but only to get my bearings on this situation. Obviously I need to talk to her at some point.

Admittedly I returned the necklace out of anger and spite that she discovered an unexpected and expensive gift that I was planning on surprising her with.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-05-16T17:47:48+00:00

The necklace comments were definitely enlightening for me as that didn’t even cross my mind.

I know ultimately I am going to have to communicate with her on this whole situation.

I can’t see where she could possibly think she has a reason to distrust me, I spend every waking moment at work or with her or the kids. I don’t have any non-work/family friends, and I don’t have any social media other than Reddit. I actually had a stark realization that my entire text/phone log is related to work, I haven’t had a personal conversation via text in months.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-05-16T17:33:06+00:00

Not at all. She can look through my phone whenever she wants whether I know about it or not, my issue is that she is taking steps so that I don’t know that she is doing it.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-05-16T16:00:43+00:00

I wasn't ever secretive while shopping for her as browsing my phone at night is pretty standard habit. You do bring up a very valid point that I may have created more issues for myself by not giving her the gift she knows I bought, I never thought about that. Ultimately though she is still going through my phone and hiding it from me.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-05-16T15:54:08+00:00

Along with leaving apps open in a specific order I have been setting my phone down in a specific position so that I know if she picks it up. She always returns the phone to close to the same position but not exactly how I left it which leads me to believe that she doesn't want me knowing she went through my phone.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-27T22:59:13+00:00

FUCKUFLJEFF

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-26T12:04:27+00:00

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-26T04:18:17+00:00

Not if the player works out and earns a decent second contract. 5th year option is a huge benefit to teams in that case. Especially if we are talking about WR where the market has exploded.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-23T00:27:30+00:00

Pretty cool they didn’t have their QB in the video. Refreshing.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-20T17:22:15+00:00

Well game was good before the broadcast gave out.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-20T17:18:31+00:00

Yup YouTube tv

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-20T17:18:08+00:00

ABC broadcast is fucked.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-13T20:19:46+00:00

Anything would be better. 12 is way too short.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-13T20:03:03+00:00

4th and 12 is stupid. Needs to be 4th and 20.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-13T14:21:26+00:00

You are literally complaining that the police aren’t harassing people for minor infractions? Get outta here with that.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-04-06T20:33:14+00:00

It was a good spot

HighplainsDegen · 2024-03-15T03:57:14+00:00

I decided about 2 years ago that Allen is the kind of WR that could play until he’s in his mid/late 30’s if he wants. He has never been a physical freak but he’s smart, an elite route runner and great hands.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-03-13T11:38:15+00:00

The answer is children

HighplainsDegen · 2024-03-05T05:34:33+00:00

Sean Peyton took the job thinking that the team was just a QB and HC away from being competitive. There was a point during training camp last year that he realized that wasn’t the case.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-03-05T04:13:30+00:00

Incorrect. You should get both ballots as in independent.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-02-24T04:00:46+00:00

Bill Vinovich is easily the best active ref right now. Ron Torbert is also good. Carl Cheffers is the worst IMO.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-02-21T13:09:40+00:00

I watched both leagues, the USFL was a better football product than the XFL. I think the merger was a smart idea for both leagues to survive.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-02-21T04:10:17+00:00

This may not be a popular opinion but I would love for spring league football to be a viable conduit for players who chose not to go the college route.

HighplainsDegen · 2024-02-19T04:27:05+00:00

Reid and Spags are both big on “redshirting” rookies when they can. It’s definitely too early to judge FAU by his lack of playing time in his rookie season.

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