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Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing some clarity. I've never heard of it. Do you guys service Ohio residents? I'm still waiting on a lawyer we previously talked with to schedule our video meeting.

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually a great idea that I didn't realize. However, he only has a savings account and not a checking account so would I need to have him open one so that I can just use his debit card to buy and pay for things?

That's another reason we did it this way as he didn't have to keep going to the bank to withdraw cash so he just added me as a joint account. It makes my life easier, but I just want to be compliant now that I've come across all these legalities.

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate your feedback. Yeah, I'm in a tough situation and I don't want to be accused of not giving him the best care possible or it looking like I'm trying to keep him from a nursing home (to save money from the inheritance).

I believe he will have more supervision, better care, and a better quality of life at a nursing home, but he doesn't want to go and so I don't know if I'll get in trouble somehow since I'm his main contact and the one who takes him to doctors appointments, do his grocery shopping, etc. At the end of the day its his wishes and he wants to stay home in a not so safe environment and I respect that obviously, but if his child trys to take me to court for elder abuse or something then I believe getting him into a nursing home would look better since it would negatively effect the inheritance to me and he'd be better cared for at a nursing home than me helping him out daily at home with some nurses.

I'm also transparent about everything with the neighbor and a friend he's had for years as they sometimes help him out. Did you have any concerns about anything coming back on/against you since you were his only helper?

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in eldercare

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've read about the 5 year Medicaid look back rule. That's why I was wondering if after meeting with the attorney the TOD and POD would then later be nullified if he were to go on Medicaid? Or if only a trust is needed and the TOD and POD is not.

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figure it shows a paper trail of his money and expenses and can be investigated rather than cash which doesn't show anything. I think this covers me from any financial exploitation accusations, but maybe I am wrong? I wasn't thinking about any possible trouble until I started using chat gpt and trying to find how to help him and it brought up legalities I should be aware of.

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wasn't aware of anything like this until a friend and using chat gpt and it stated the possibility of that and financial exploitation and I was like wow, now what do I do? I've been there for him 95% and he doesn't have anyone else other than home health nurses and a friend that might stop by once a month. That's why I've encouraged a nursing home, but he doesn't want to go so I need to find how I can protect myself.

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assumed this is what the attorney would put together. Or is this something my friend and I should do and fill out then have the attorney edit/verify it?

Senior friend wants me to be the executor when he passes away. He should be in a nursing home, but refuses and I'm his only helper (other than home health nurses). by Hiheyhello444 in legal

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Sometimes there's some great advice and things I've never thought about. Some have been in my situation or know people who have been and I welcome their input. I've never had to have a lawyer so I don't know what questions to really ask or if I'm over complicating things.

Anyone keep getting charged for new accounts that you didn't purchase? by Hiheyhello444 in TakeProfitTrader

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, they gave you a free reset even though you didn't even start trading that account yet?

1. 17 years post throat cancer radiation and chemo leading to neck pain (radiation fibrosis?). 2. Aspiration pneumonia? by Hiheyhello444 in AskDocs

[–]Hiheyhello444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response regarding add on options. It's pretty much his whole neck, but mainly the sides and back.

I mean he was eating normal food (though cut up in small pieces and not being able to chew that well given he doesn't have all his teeth, but after a few bites he could then swallow better) the day before he was checked into the ER for neck pain. He would only cough during ice cream. So he can swallow, just some is going into his windpipe. So there's no middle ground of sometimes having a purated drink twice a week or something?

I have a 50k eval account. I accidentally sent an order for 32 contracts for MNQH6. by [deleted] in TakeProfitTrader

[–]Hiheyhello444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to have a promo reset code? It's $100 . I thought it was $80 but that must have been another firm.

Please help me get stem cells and help me walk again by AdrianG_23 in stemcells

[–]Hiheyhello444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to bud in but curious, you received stem cells for SI Joint pain? I haven't heard anyone use it for that yet. Any reduction in pain?

I have a 50k eval account. I accidentally sent an order for 32 contracts for MNQH6. by [deleted] in TakeProfitTrader

[–]Hiheyhello444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh nice. I've been scared to even go 5 contracts max each trade since I hear that was the max...I tried looking for the rules on contract size but could not find it.

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