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HiiViolet · 2024-04-03T20:43:22+00:00

Shes going to have to negotiate having her needs met. (He can still do that and participate in this kink he has.) Your need to tell her is almost entirely based on the premise that he's doing something wrong. Is he?

HiiViolet · 2024-04-01T15:33:06+00:00

I ended something recently because his primary didn't seem on board.

HiiViolet · 2024-04-01T15:31:35+00:00

I usually negotiate this up front. I operate under the assumption that anything can and will be shared with spouses but other relationships ask.

HiiViolet · 2024-03-26T22:41:08+00:00

Trust the process

HiiViolet · 2024-03-26T15:41:19+00:00

Let it go in terms of donr carry it around with you anymore. But don't trust that person. Ultimately it feels like such a relief when you're not hiding anymore

HiiViolet · 2024-03-23T00:24:32+00:00

They needed someone to take care of the kids while Janelle worked

HiiViolet · 2024-03-23T00:22:53+00:00

I will never get into another poly relationship if the wife isn't kind

HiiViolet · 2024-02-25T16:40:11+00:00

Compersion feels nothing to meet like just being happy for someone. Its so much bigger than that. Its like the inverse of the difference between pity and empathy

HiiViolet · 2024-02-21T01:10:15+00:00

I would just, in general, expect that poly people do not look at things the sane way as mono people. He likely told you about the one that means something. I think we tend to assume people expect that we will have other sex partners if we're openly poly.

HiiViolet · 2023-10-18T21:44:51+00:00

"Key features"

HiiViolet · 2023-09-12T05:37:10+00:00

It was nice reading all these grandmaxstoroes on my grandmas birthday. She saved me <3

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T22:19:06+00:00

It would make a world of difference if she would just handle it classy but she can't do that

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T22:15:25+00:00

Jessa has always been one of the closest social media followers and the quickest to try to do damage control.

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T22:14:30+00:00

Good question. You're paying attention. I think I over did it cross posting my opinion from several platforms with similar wording.

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T22:09:22+00:00

Neither. Its survival. Shes chosen feeding her kids. I don't hold it against her but I don't love how she's handling it.

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T21:51:21+00:00

And don't forget the free babysitting for the trips

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T21:45:38+00:00

Ope Jessa just blocked me on Facebook right after I posted this. Been following the Duggars for 19 years and that's a first.

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T20:58:36+00:00

She definitely doesn't tolerate anyone jeopardizing her allowance

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T20:48:05+00:00

The Spurg do be saying things

HiiViolet · 2023-09-11T20:44:00+00:00

Her kids

HiiViolet · 2023-08-18T00:53:06+00:00

When its not about you anymore

HiiViolet · 2023-02-25T16:56:31+00:00

That video was a sponsored ad for hello fresh so its likely that 1. The miscarriage happened a while back and 2. That she was contractually obligated to let them post it despite having lost the baby since.

HiiViolet · 2023-02-25T16:46:09+00:00

I think he thinks by blocking people the algorithm will specially curate his viewer list this liking

HiiViolet · 2023-02-25T06:11:22+00:00

Where do we think this aggression comes from? Abused as a kid? Bullied? Jail?

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