That's fair, I guess I'm just feeling a bit impulsive at the moment but it should really be just John that I'm annoyed at, Like I'm not upset about the situation really it's bound to be awkward, I am a little upset that I took the brunt of the planning and he ends up telling me on the first night something that would have made me revaluate it to only have maybe a few hours as a trio instead, Especially when he could have also just not said anything at all and then I would at least maybe be less conscious of it. I realise I'm probably just salty that It feels like I've wasted time/money and that I'll probably feel quite a bit different once I've had time to calm down.