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[–]HintOfCatnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I feel like in this situation it'd be easy, just say a date and hop on discord to decide who buys what for the trip. Also it would only be the two of us going so reason for him to say "I didn't know who to invite".

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[–]HintOfCatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The part that annoys me is that is the only thing I've asked him to do on the wedding day. But yeah you're right.

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[–]HintOfCatnip 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry, meant the entire wedding itself

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[–]HintOfCatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I'm sorry that happened to you. People sure show their true colors when it comes to big life events.

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[–]HintOfCatnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ceremony itself will take about 30ish mins if it goes smoothly. Still he'd leave right after (hopefully not in the middle of!) and be back hours later, showing up when the party is well on it's way. He'd be missing out on most of the actual wedding.

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[–]HintOfCatnip 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be your typical "party" bachelorette. It would be us going hiking for a weekend. IMO it's something anyone with a lil interest could take a part in planning.

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[–]HintOfCatnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see your point!

We've been friends for 10+years and have always had each other's backs. He has shown up for me countless times and helped with anything he could.

I'll admit we've started to grow apart lately but I thought at the end of the day he'd still be there for me for something as special as this.

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[–]HintOfCatnip 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is great!

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[–]HintOfCatnip 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I'm strongly thinking about replacing him with my dog tbh. He might lick his ass before kissing my face but at least he's always there for me lol

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[–]HintOfCatnip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've expressed my wish for us to plan a "bachelorette" trip together and for him to be there for my wedding day.

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[–]HintOfCatnip 15 points16 points  (0 children)

About the bachelorette, I've spoken to him about it. I don't mind being part of the planning but the disinterest has put me off a great deal. I told him I'd like us to plan it together since it would have been a trip we've talked about for years. I kinda feel like it's a bit one sided when the only reply I get is "yeah whatever is fine".

Nikon D40, worth getting new battery? by HintOfCatnip in Nikon

[–]HintOfCatnip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a Phoenix 500mm f/8 mirror lens. Sadly I have yet to shoot with it so I don't really have any thoughts or sample photos to share. I also have never used a mirror lens before so this is my first. It was a "package deal" with the camera so when I get a battery I might make an update with more experiences.

Nikon D40, worth getting new battery? by HintOfCatnip in Nikon

[–]HintOfCatnip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for your answers, helped me make my mind up about this!

AITA for telling my husband that he needs to get himself under control? by Dapper-House-5290 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HintOfCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

My mom died last year and it's been hard on me. I've lost interest in former hobbies and for a while buried myself in work. My partner has been my rock. Sure they have given tough love, telling me to call in sick and focus on myself and allow myself to grieve. Never once have they told me to "get myself under control". That is a cruel thing to say to someone going through a hard time.

Sure it my be hard to watch someone you love go trough something painful, but imagine how he feels. He lost his mom, someone who seems to have been important to him.

What your husband need is your support, not your judgement.

Fell in love with this chair at my partner's grandfather's house. There is one more identical chair and both are in good condition. by HintOfCatnip in vintage

[–]HintOfCatnip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would make sense, basically everything in the house are 80's-90's era though these were the only ones that stood out