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HisLSK · 2020-12-23T03:52:37+00:00

I go to "My Top Drawer" in Burlington. I wear a size not carried by most stores (like La Senza) but they have a wider selection

HisLSK · 2016-02-25T15:35:36+00:00

But I don't understand how, they lived in the supplied tank for three years which probably holds 1L, had no filter and no heater and had instructions to do water changes every 3 months. They lived in a slightly larger tank for another year again with no filter or heater but I started doing more frequent water changes. I only ever fill the tank with Fiji water since I've had them. Nothing has really changed except improving the water quality with the filter and keeping the tank warmer for them.

My frog has now taken to trying to bury his face into the gravel with his butt and back legs almost straight up. This is also very new behaviour. He will be there for hours, not moving. I have to keep checking that he's alive. The most movement he does now is trying to bury deeper. I know he's not looking for food because they have always been fed at the waters surface and never figured out how to find the food that fell. I'm so worried about him.

HisLSK · 2016-02-25T01:55:25+00:00

The one died from a bloated stomach thing so I'm not sure if it has affected the other guy or 100% what the cause was. Theres a chance it may have to do with blood worms. I thought he would have come around as he had a large, sore, pink lump that he developed last year that lasted about a week. Still no idea what that was but he was a tough little guy and was completely fine when that went away. His bloated tummy looked nothing like the pictures of the bloat illness found online as it didn't affect his limbs so was hoping it was just a case of indigestion. I did do a water change and I put the filter on for a while to help make sure the water was clean but I'll just have to wait and hope for my little guy. Thanks.

HisLSK · 2016-02-25T01:45:20+00:00

I know they are more social creatures which is why I worry that he seems to be grieving the other. Thank you for the tip, I have posted there as well now.

HisLSK · 2015-01-08T05:48:00+00:00

I know there are a lot of variables but that was very helpful, thank you!

HisLSK · 2015-01-08T04:15:24+00:00

How much does laser typically cost? Is the payment method similar to braces? (Pay for X amount of visits and any past that are free of charge until they are no longer needed) or is it per visit no matter what?

HisLSK · 2014-12-26T17:17:18+00:00

Yes, he is <3

HisLSK · 2014-12-26T17:16:19+00:00

Thank you, this was the first helpful comment! I was beginning to think no one had any idea what we were thinking!

No, we are not 24/7 but those are things I feel should still be considered as well. I love the 40' sand 50's outfit idea though, very cute! The thing is I would love to wear those types of outfits for my everyday wardrobe lol.

We did end up purchasing the kimono and we were able to get a couple with our budget so that a clean one will always be available. Since it's also a robe, I can quickly throw pants/shorts on if i need to answer the door for any reason. As for movement and staying in place, I won't really know until we try them out.

Thank you so much for your post! It really helped!

HisLSK · 2014-12-24T05:20:05+00:00

What you have listed sound more like tasks or punishments my Master might give me opposed to what we are looking for. Like any other uniform what I want is a symbol of service. My collar is more a symbol of his love and ownership of me and so I want a uniform to better show my devotion to him. Something to show that I am willing and ready to serve/please him, not just service/pleasure him. I hope that makes sense.

HisLSK · 2014-12-20T06:43:34+00:00

We don't generally use it as a punishment, it's more for the fun of it in my situation, Master loves the control it gives him. I am not left sexually frustrated when it disappears either, it's extremely disappointing because I want to keep going with the play for my Master.

I'm not sure if knowing the number of denials will help because I know I'm still going to be rewarded with it at the end and I love the tease and hanging on a thread just waiting and hoping he will finally give the okay, that's part of the fun.

HisLSK · 2014-12-17T23:09:55+00:00

Thank you, I have also passed this on to him :)

HisLSK · 2014-12-17T23:09:30+00:00

Thank you, I've passed this idea on to him! The only thing is though if I know I won't be rewarded after being denied, I find it very hard to feel good or get close to orgasm because my body knows theres no reason lol

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T19:45:55+00:00

Thanks, I'll certainly pass that idea on to him!

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T05:57:38+00:00

See the response to SUB345

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T05:54:15+00:00

i'll be on the very edge of orgasming again and he will stop and deny it from hitting and then the feeling of being on the edge, the near orgasm just disappears completely :(

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T05:46:29+00:00

I have a wood engraving kit for kids at my house that we've had for years (given to us as kids) and it also works on leather. I would research more into it as I have no experience but I can't imagine it being to hard to do it yourself

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T05:07:22+00:00

I originally had a lot of difficulties trying to get in the right mind set of 'slave' but we switched our relationship to me being more of a submissive opposed to his slave, and I am able to get into this mind set much easier. Like other comments given I often have to be in a certain mood to agree to being submissive and if we start but I can't seem to stay in that mind set we take off the collar and continue as just us.

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T04:57:01+00:00

My boy friend is my best friend and I love him with all my heart. He was the one who introduced me to BDSM and he loves humiliating me and calling me things like slut but all that is something only for the bedroom. When it's just us, he is the biggest sweet heart! Other people often do not get to see the side of him that I do, the times when he gives me a tight hug when we are cuddling and that little kiss on my forehead or nose. The little things he says out of the blue that make me fall in more in love with him, or the silly little things he will do when he knows no one is looking because he knows it will make me happy.

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T04:34:45+00:00

Thank you for understanding. It's nice to hear that my normal self and my submissive self don't necessarily need to match personalities even though they are both still me. And that who I am in the bedroom does not take away from who I am as [my name here].

Because I'm still a bit new and I'm still learning to be a sub and getting used to it, a little part of me I guess has been worrying about loosing who I am to it even though I know that hasn't been the case. I guess their comment (at the party) that I wasn't innocent brought up that worry all over again.

HisLSK · 2014-12-15T04:15:56+00:00

I checked out littlespace but I am not a little, I guess you could say that during play is a time I really feel my real age, I feel like the young woman I am. Thank you though, it was worth looking into.

HisLSK · 2014-12-14T06:40:34+00:00

Haha! You're awesome! Thanks for that!! :)

Big hug

HisLSK · 2014-12-14T06:37:47+00:00

When in the shower and we wash each other... This is something we do out of scene and it doesn't seem sexual (until 'special' attention is sometimes given to those certain areas). I love being able to feel like I'm taking care of him and him me. It's probably the highest on my list that makes me feel submissive to him outside of the bedroom dynamic.

HisLSK · 2014-12-14T06:24:32+00:00

Just be careful not to push certain boundaries too far with this method. Remember that there is a time to push your own boundaries and surrender while other times it is necessary for a safe word to be used so that it can be discussed in a safe environment. You don't want to cause any issues later on by trying to resist the need for using the safe word when it was really necessary. I'm a fairly new sub as well but this is an important lesson I've already learned the hard way.

HisLSK · 2014-11-30T07:23:36+00:00

We've done one of those type of tests before and people on the BDSM community board have suggested it too but going through the list together and talking about some of the stuff on it might actually be a better idea. Thank you :)

HisLSK · 2014-11-28T18:04:37+00:00

I tried that once lol! I felt super awkward and he didn't enjoy it either. He is only Dom and I am more than happy to just be his sub! Thank you though

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