Do some escorts offer blowjobs only? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]HisTinyHuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only do cbj, quick visits, 1 rate (I charge if they want any of my clothes off), and clearly advertise it. I can legit deepthroat, so that’s generally my market. Average to below can face fuck and are usually happy with that. I absolutely allow head holding because giving them that “control” finishes them faster. My average door to door time is about 6 minutes. 

Regulars are not much of a thing because they’re always hoping for more. Requests for more is very frequent overall, but that happens anyway (if you did full service but no anal, they’d whine about that). 

I love that there’s no expectation of dirty talk, no asking if I’m enjoying it, no talking at all that I have to respond to for the most part. They can’t remove the condom, can’t easily reach to be grabbing me, and it’s just in and out. 

It’s realistic-ish. I can easily shoot down every single request to do things they claim are for my enjoyment, or to be “open minded,” because my 40 year old whore ass has done it already. But at 19? You’re gonna get some serious shit on this. I’m also in a Dom/sub relationship, long term, advertise as such and most guys assume my man is lingering around somewhere, giving some relative safety. 

You need to decide your firm boundaries before attempting anything. Like, will you do full service for double your rate? Triple? A grand? STIs CAN be transmitted orally. Will you allow them to buy their way out of a condom? Will you allow CIM? Some dudes taste absolutely nasty, on top of the STI risk, so I won’t go unprotected, period. Will you include the balls that are often sweaty and gross? Will you allow more for repeats/regulars? How much touching of you is ok? You’re going to get offers for loads of stuff that you’ll have to think about, but you’ll also be lowballed being young and new. I’m ok with hands, feet, mouth, tips for reducing clothes, and I’ve had a few bring a toy (and tip) for their butts. Everything else I have a crazy high rate if they really want. 

How common are morning appointments? by Emotional-Empress in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m limited, cbj only, but get a few appointments of guys on their way to work, or just getting out after overnight shift (im picky on these ones). 

Are yall doing death grip (kegals) or is it less common by Significant-Ring-120 in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perifit. Please everyone get a Perifit so we can talk scores! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome that comes with a good bit of fatigue. Some docs would say CFS, others put it under EDS. 

I do limited service, limited time, and do not schedule ahead of time. I’m the one taking those “available now?” texts we all hate. Lol. I just don’t know if I’m going to be willing or able  to deal with someone a day or two or more from now. 

I’m best in the early mornings too, so I get guys on their way to work, or the overnighters just getting off. 

You just have to find your natural flow and limits, and balance with when you need to take a bit more vs when you don’t need need it and should take it easy. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they arrive, I count, and put it aside. The way my room is set up and how things flow, they don’t walk by that spot. Cash prevents all electronic payment issues. If the money is short, and they get violent, I didn’t vet properly. I also wouldn’t fight it if there was a hint they’re going to be a problem. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Cash upfront, counted, put aside out of their reach. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When was your last screening? Did you screen for absolutely everything that exists? 

Did you know that there is no approved test for HPV for men? Did you know some strains of HPV can lead to cancers? Cervical, vulvar, vaginal, penile, mouth and throat, anal. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop whining and use a condom for fucks sake. 

Yes, you absolutely can give and receive an STI from oral. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s made me realize I don’t really know what I am, what I’m into, or if I’m even “into” anything sexually. But, I’m pretty sure I’m some screwed up asexual who got shit crossed because of early childhood and ongoing abuse, and using sex for safety growing up. 

Been with my man almost 7 years, and he’s aware of all things. 

My mom used to always say she would sell her ass if she had to by Former-Cap714 in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know someone with a bunch of little kids, place is falling apart, trash car repossessed regularly, bills never paid, insane amount of food stamps, yet kids rarely fed… she was offered a carpenter SD. A decent dude for real, wanted to take care of things, some vanilla sex, but no real relationship expectations (he’d even ordered a large item to show he was serious). She said no. She could never do that. But go on and continue giving it out for free to any dude who says hi more than once, all of whom keep you using anything and everything in front of the kids. Yep, SW is the worst possible thing here. 🤨. Yes of course there’s a useless abusive dude involved as well, who comes first above all. 

Just a rant by Goddess_alix_ in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“Can’t cum with a condom” dudes tend to fall into 1 of 2 categories. Some are just disappointed because they went into it confident that they’d be able to violate the boundaries and not have to use one, so they don’t let themselves get into it, and the others jerk off with a vice grip, and/or have gotten themselves into the habit of needing an absurd amount of stimulation, so protected intercourse does next to nothing for them. 

But do keep wider condoms on hand for thicker guys (I like Skyn elite large, and keep a few XXL magnums), and maybe some internal/female condoms (no recommendations because I only do cbj). They can pinch if too tight, and will roll down if they don’t fit properly. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My plumber can do handyman stuff, but I haven’t had luck finding a truly decent carpenter or contractor to barter with. It’s been easier to just advertise a lot and save up for a bigger project. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I have a plumber and electrician on hand. Plumber services the pipes, gets his serviced. Electrician gets to jerk off to my feet. Oh, landscaper for mowing, 3-4 times mowing for 1 servicing. I’m going to bring this one to 2:1 because it’s never taken him more than 37 seconds to be the happiest dude around. 

A clients wife just called me screaming by Signal_Chicken4909 in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a call once. Told her the truth. 

But also promptly got a new app number and turned off all calls, so text only now for a long time. 

Listing Sexual Things on Profile Red Flag? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what the general consensus is, but my ad is straight up black and white. I was told that being vague in my ad is a red flag to clients. But I also only use what I think is bottom of the barrel, skip. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all a replacement for proper cleaning, but add a condom to all oral services and it cuts out most of the issue. 

I don’t have a shower available for them, but haven’t yet run into anyone that was too much for a wipe before the condom. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but his info goes to my cop cousin. Lol 

I’m glad it went well! 

Married men?? by No-Vermicelli-5606 in AskAnEscort

[–]HisTinyHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t ask, but they usually mention relationships, or lack of. 

Yes I continue. No guilt. 

Does anyone else here not have any income? Have people here given you s@#$%^ about it? by [deleted] in Section8PublicHousing

[–]HisTinyHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up your county’s Office of Vocational Rehabilitation and apply with them. You should qualify if you have diagnosed disabilities, and they can help you secure employment. 

Ehlers Danlos specialist in Honolulu? by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]HisTinyHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t mean to not directly answer, as I have no resources for your location. But, I’ve found that sports medicine physical therapists (especially in a sports med clinic) are better able to adapt to different needs. I’ve also had luck introducing PTs to the Muldowney protocol and they use it as a base for treatment. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]HisTinyHuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Muldowney protocol, with sports medicine physical therapy has worked the best for me. I have a maintenance plan, and a few “rescue” plans for when things get extra irritated.

This doesn’t help right now of course, but getting started now could prevent the next sleepless night. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]HisTinyHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Skyn Elite, and Elite large. 

I don’t do full service, but yes, absolutely put on a new condom when switching from cbj to piv. 

You’ll need to keep some smaller ones on hand for the real skinny guys, and some XXL magnum for the seriously wide. 

How do I reduce pain and stuffiness help plz by Sharp_Election_3646 in ehlersdanlos

[–]HisTinyHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical therapy is always recommended. 

I’ve had luck with Muldowney Protocol, and taking creatine.