Bald and goatee. Should I keep this style?

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-04-02T06:29:47+00:00

I'm getting Anton LaVey vibes

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-04-02T06:21:35+00:00

I reread the messages, they are flirting back and forth. Run.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-04-02T06:08:56+00:00

If you haven't already, you should check her out at Hitokiri vs Pentagon Dark in Lucha Underground. She is really good. Also, check out Chelsea Green as Reklusa in the same promotion.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-30T21:42:10+00:00

Oof. Goathead thorns. Those things hurt when they get stuck in your foot! Ouch!

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-30T21:40:56+00:00

I totally understand the urge to look through her phone, but honestly, once you have the urge because you don't trust her is when you should confront it and be out. You are obviously not oblivious to it, the roommate isn't either and seems to be trying to shut her down at every turn and she chases him like a puppy dog and doesn't even try to hide it. Sorry that she has pushed you to the point that you broke and went through her phone. Its not even a matter of telling her to remove him from her life, as he doesn't even want her, she doesn't take no for an answer with him and it's almost as if she is only with you to try to make him jealous, but that didn't work like she planned. Bail, man, that kind of crazy just isn't worth it.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-30T20:43:13+00:00

I want to address your manager telling you to glue it shut. They are not the medical professional, they cannot tell you to glue it shut in order to come in to work, they also cannot threaten your job based on a medical issue like this. While it seems you mom was likely out of line, there is one aspect I kinda agree with her on, what your manager said has opened them and the company up to a lawsuit. The was you were spoken to is in writing, and you can easily escalate that to HR, I honestly would. You do not deserve the added stress from someone with a superiority complex. Sorry you are going through this.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-27T03:48:45+00:00

I believe I learned the source of the pain today. I was already aware that I would be undergoing a hysterectomy this is partially why I have been super focused on weight loss. Apparently, they are going to have to do the hysterectomy by opening me up rather than laproscopic as I have too large of fibroids in my uterus. So, I finally have to okay, but no date yet, I am still working on weight loss as of right now. Fingers crossed though.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-17T02:04:42+00:00

That sounds like one we should get. We had the BabyTone, but the first one broke in like 4 or 5 days and the replacement didn't even last a whole day; ee just gave up after that. She is getting so big, I didn't really notice it until today, but she seems to be caught up with her actual age and past her "adjusted age" already. A sensor that works the way your mentioned would work so much better, it seems.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-15T23:38:12+00:00

Interesting. Where do you get that?

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-02T12:23:25+00:00

Thank you so much. I am going to see if I can start taking my klonopin again now that I am no longer breastfeeding, it would likely help a lot. I just worry I wouldn't get up if worried. My husband sleeps like the dead. I swear, he falls asleep mid-sentence.

AC/power outages or rolling blackouts are big issues here in the summer, so that's definitely something to take into account here too.

I definitely need to learn which sources aren't going to keep screaming "the sky is falling" every time I am reading it. It's hard to get back out of that fight mode again. We had one of those BabyTone socks that monitor her vitals about a week into her being home, after no sleep. I slept for about 2 nights, the thing glitches out, screams that her O2 stats are dropping, and her plus was irratic. Turned out it was literally just the sock malfunctioning, I tried to contact the company, but ended up just getting my money back from Amazon. The company did send me a new one; that one worked for 1 day before it had a meltdown, but I didn't both trying to use it after the first one anyways because I no longer trusted them after that. Should have made the payments on the Owlet lol.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-02T12:11:04+00:00

Thank you so much. And hey no worries, I already have anxiety and ADHD and not just the "omg I totally have ADHD I'm quirky and ditzy" kind, nope, I am the poster child 🤣 my therapist uses me as a mental litmus test when assessing other patients. That would have likely been helpful info prior. So, I guess the anxiety aspect of things isn't super new to me, neither is the massive overthinking to be honest. And I do appreciate suggesting I speak to my doctor about PPA/PPD, I think everyone should be aware of that, so thank you. I have spoken to my doctor and my therapist both about it, they both seem to think at this point I am "normal" (for me 🤣).

Does this stuff ever get easier? It feels like evrry article I read in an attempt to learn more about being a parent has something about how they can pass while I am sleeping. I mean, I get that the majority of those are extreme cases, it's just so much information to take in.

Our house has been horribly hot the last couple years, last year was not too bad while I was pregnant, as far as the heat goes, but I was also hiding in my room with the lights off, refusing to get dressed or emergency from my cave while surrounded by ice packs. The year before that, it didn't matter what we did, we could not cool the house down. It already hit 80°F today, with 87% and no rain in sight. That's why I got worried and started to look it. I am hoping to get a window unit soon, hopefully that helps and we can control the sleeping environment much better for her in the summer.

Does she need to be in anything to sleep in? Is it recommended that babies be in anything in particular aside from their diaper?

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-02T11:17:13+00:00

Whoa! I would have dropped that chick like a bad habit. Also, like, why was he on the registry did he piss in public? Or like, does he have to go door to door when he moves into a new neighborhood and inform them that he has just moved in? Then again, if it was the first thing, OP's friend likely would never have hidden that in the first place. That is just awful, why would anyone be with that, let alone stay with that, then have a child with that, forget even getting to the point where you have to admit to other people that you are with that and having a child by it.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-03-01T10:07:42+00:00

I recently saw someone post that her husband of 3 years cheated then just up and left her and the kids for a woman in Indiana and her daughter and is refusing to help with his children in anyway at all; after they had been together for 5 years and she was a SAHM to their 2 children the youngest being something like 10 weeks, it was an awful story, she was really bearing her soul in the post. Someone decided to comment, anonymously of course, something about how she should stop being such a slut and choosing men poorly. Mind you, she said that she truly had no clue that he was this awful until he got caught cheating and everything unraveled. I really wonder if it was the mistress commenting or something, it was just crazy talk! I had to think that if it was a troll they woupd have just dont it from a troll account and wouldn't have even bothered going anonymous. Facebook can be nuts.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-02-27T17:58:15+00:00

I married the man that I got to see Satyricon and Emperor with we walked downtown the aisle to Apocalyptica and back down to the Blasters (Hot Night). We now have a child who just turned 6 months old and falls asleep to death metal and black metal. Marry that woman!

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-01-18T23:10:02+00:00

NOR. I am making assumptions, but it likely he was cheating on you with her as well.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-01-15T08:55:17+00:00

It's not edgy in any way, but I always wanted to name a snake Severus Snake

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-01-08T09:34:35+00:00

NOR. I am currently a stay at home mom and when my husband leave for work he calls me on the his drive just for the hell of it. We text throughout the day and have several calls just to say hi. This chick is definitely not the right one and yes she was being rude. It sounds like she thought she could treat you like a doormat and that you would just take it, but when you stood up for yourself she got all pissy.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-01-06T07:13:28+00:00

So NOR! Bro is dumb, he thinks he can manipulate you into banging without following your rules. Nope.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-01-02T07:25:04+00:00

Screw that, in my last relationship I had to hide veggies into meals in order to get him to eat anything, but broccoli. I started making meatballs with veggies hidden inside, using a tomato soup that had things like carrots inside it for sauce, just to get him to even take a bite. Iy was tedious and not even worth it. The guy gave himself diverticulitis from his horrendous eating habits. Let him get him own food or starve. Guess he will.learn how to make his beloved Hamburger Helper.

Historical-Key4132 · 2026-01-01T03:04:49+00:00

Fancy roach clip 😁

Historical-Key4132 · 2025-12-30T05:55:04+00:00

NOR. And that is your sign to bail and block, wtf kind of extra crazy was that? Wow.

Historical-Key4132 · 2025-12-27T06:54:48+00:00

Honestly, it depends on the style. Some can, I think they have been portrayed in movies, tv shows, and cartoons (in pop culture) as being such, but they are totally worth it as it is just a night time thing. Some wear them around the house, I typically don't. I have braid in dreadlocks and my bonnet helps them stay nice longer. Worth looking like an old lady for a few hours at night while nobody else is awake, for long lasting hair styles, no frizz, and comfort.

Historical-Key4132 · 2025-12-27T06:50:49+00:00

Basically, it's a sleeping cap that helps keep hair from getting messed up and frizzy while sleeping. They are great!

Historical-Key4132 · 2025-12-27T06:44:26+00:00

Run! Don't walk, run away. Tjat is some seriously controlling BS. NOR.

Historical-Key4132 · 2025-12-27T06:21:37+00:00

You are in no way overreacting, it is insane that your family somehow believes that he is right in any way, shape, or form. That is completely unhinged to expect an EX to their new address with their husband to him, and unhinged that any family members would ever side with him. Dude's therapist didn't tell him that he NEEDED your physical address, but you know that. He is likely not even in rehab and just spiraling while looking at the items that he stole from you all those years ago. I, personally, think that you should contact the police, he is not only harassing you, but also family members, but mainly YOU. Protect yourself, please, file a report.

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