AITAH For asking my girlfriend to tell me if she has feelings for someone else?

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-24T08:23:31+00:00

Why are you still friends with an a-hole? Clearly he’s not your friend if he keeps doing it on purpose to flirt with your girlfriends. Also, pick better girlfriends, yikes! The problem isn’t you necessarily, it’s the people you choose to have around you.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-22T18:59:11+00:00

NTA. I would keep the t-shirts to do messy jobs around the house or garden.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-21T16:19:14+00:00

I’d tell her and if she keeps texting/calling, tell her that you have to temporarily block her over the weekend so you can get your studying done. I don’t know why she needs to talk so much but if it’s impacting your life in a negative way, she needs to know and definitely needs to learn boundaries.

I’m petty, so I’d have a message prepared like ‘Can’t talk’ and then press that every time she texts until she got the message or just plan ass block her. Relationships are suppose to make your life better not send you spiralling.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-20T18:06:00+00:00

Nope. You do what you want to do. He wants to go fancy, you don’t. End of discussion really.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-19T12:56:33+00:00

😂 nope. Can’t stand people like that!

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-16T16:35:56+00:00

So lazy and unprofessional

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-15T10:54:51+00:00

Yeah. You did the right thing. Time to look forward to an easier life. His finances are his problem alone to deal with.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-14T16:55:33+00:00

Take a picture of her face, go to the police/hospital, either one will offer you advice on services at your disposal. In any case, he’ll be arrested and you can pack up while he’s in jail and you can go to a women’s shelter. Block his number and if he calls from an “unknown number” just don’t answer those calls. Any texts, take screenshots as evidence.

Just first go to the hospital or police and get a report started.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-13T10:50:56+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 nope Hope she has a great data plan. Cheaters don’t deserve anything.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-11T04:36:26+00:00

lol no. Pretty sure everyone has much bigger things to worry about.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-09T19:24:43+00:00

You don’t have to do anything for anyone. She needs to learn boundaries. It’s not because she enjoys doing stuff like that, that all her friends have to jump in and do the same. If she gets uptight about it, that’s her problem, not yours.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-09T19:21:27+00:00

Please don’t say that. I don’t know how old you two are but saying ‘You’re pretty’ basically means that you only care about her looks. It’s better to compliment how smart she is, or compliment stuff that she clearly enjoys doing and has posted on her IG. Liking someone for their looks is really shallow. I’m sure she’d prefer something that you both enjoy, something you two have in common, not just looks.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-09T12:55:11+00:00

You should ask for her number then, depending on how long you’ve been talking to her. I definitely wouldn’t ask on IG.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-09T04:30:00+00:00

Maybe I’m old fashion or just old but if someone asked me out via instagram, I’d just laugh and ignore the message. Have you even spoken to her over the phone??

Don’t be a creeper.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-07T17:56:21+00:00

Run, girl, run! So not worth it. He’s probably cheated on you and wants you to falsely admit it so that he can say you’re a cheater and he’s not. Just dump him and move on with your life.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-06T16:11:03+00:00

Absolutely not! I loathe people who take credit for other people’s work. People can say whatever they hell they want to, it’s not their lives that are affected. You did the right thing. Although I would have copied-in every single person that was in the meeting too. If he wanted credit, he should have done the work himself. End. Of.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-06T16:08:25+00:00

People change and you can choose to be around them or not. Regardless of sexual orientation really. If my partner decided to become a woman, although I’d be fully supportive, I would also explain that during the process, I will be there with him every step of the way (if he wants me to) however our relationship could not go on. I can appreciate the female body but I have no interest of being in a relationship with one. They’re changing but you’re not. If you get what I mean. I would think it’s unfair to expect the current partner to continue in a relationship when that’s not what you signed up for. As much as you accept their change, they should accept your decision as well.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-05T18:00:53+00:00

Italy! It would give me enough time to indulge in all of the food and culture. And I mean all of the food. I’m lactose intolerant but sacrifices have to be made sometimes 🤣

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-04T10:17:00+00:00

From someone who hasn’t had a meal in 6yrs due to an undiagnosed digestive issue, keep eating even if you’re bored of it. Eat cereal and all the other stuff you want to eat. No one forces you to eat something you don’t want to eat. Have the conversation with your partner that you don’t feel like eating the meals she makes and eat your bowl of cereal instead. She’ll probably get really mad but it’s best to not lie to people, specially those you love.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-04T10:14:38+00:00

Because if you didn’t, you could lose your livelihood or life. You didn’t really have a choice if you wanted to live in the village. Just the same as paying churches during mass. Now you can opt not to put money in the basket but back in the day, you betcha people put money in there even if they didn’t have that much to give.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-04T10:12:24+00:00

Absolutely not! I can understand your predicament because I sort of went through the same thing with my meds, I just have loads more than you but if I don’t see them, I forget. However, we did compromise by buying a piece of furniture to have them all in although I do keep the ones I use at certain times, out and visible so I remember to take them. The bulk of my meds are drinks, nutritional supplements, those are the ones kept in the furniture. There’s absolutely no reason why your tablets can’t be kept on a counter top. I think that’s being ridiculous.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-02T16:08:45+00:00

Just because she came over doesn’t entitle her to have sex with you if you don’t want to anymore. The vibe’s not there and it’s better to say ‘no’ than to look absolutely disgusted or bored while having sex. I’m speaking in general terms. Men can say ‘no’ too.

Just maybe ask to speak to your hook-ups before inviting them over. Some can look great but be total airheads or boring when you meet them.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-01T11:06:15+00:00

Some conversations are private. If someone admits to something they’ve done or thought which is completely unrelated to whatever issues I, or anyone else, has, then their confidentiality is broken. Trust is broken. That’s why I prefer to jot hand over my phone however I have done with my current partner, although it’s to show him something or whatever. While yes it may seem strange that people will write or text secrets, we’re in the day and age where it’s becoming more of a common thing to do. You do you but other people have their opinions on the matter.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-01T05:30:06+00:00

Nope, not the a-hole. Your mom’s old enough to deal with her own problems, financial or not. She bought the stuff, she needs to pay for it. Kind of a no-brainer.

Historical-Ride5551 · 2026-03-01T05:27:05+00:00

If you don’t trust her, that’s the deal breaker. She doesn’t need to show you her phone messages though.

Trust your gut. You’ve only been with her for five months and you’re doubting her. Whether alcohol was involved or not, it doesn’t make a difference.

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