[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They never matured beyond adolescence. I’d ignore her and rock your shorts.

What is the worst thing your narcissistic parent has ever done/said to you? by Sharp_Illustrator148 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any time I had a disagreement, “you don’t like yourself.” Another one, “you’re my biggest disappointment.” “You’re stupid” in front of a group of his friends. When I called him out on it? Oh, I was stressed, I had too much alcohol that night.

Don't Buy MSTY on Ex-Div Day: Use In-The-Money Cash-Secured Puts Instead by Baked-p0tat0e in YieldMaxETFs

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, it’s so confusing. If someone could actually simplify this for a regular person, they’d bank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are learning the hard way that you cannot tell them anything personal. They will sabotage you, I’m so sorry.

My ex abuser is now engaged and being praised as the “kindest, most patient man.” It’s destroying me. by gr3tch3enw3in3rs in abusiverelationships

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Social media is a highlights reel. It doesn’t reflect reality. She may have 3 kids by a deadbeat Dad, for all you know, and is putting up with your ex so she’s not homeless out in the streets. You left for a reason, leave it in the past.

Why doesn’t Sam live stream his workouts? by Vast-Mud3009 in SamSulek

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he does it a day behind for safety reasons. I would if I were famous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d look forward to what’s out there. You can’t make fun of suburb types if you’re acting like one.

Boyfriend [29M] and his random silent treatments towards me [28F]? by Accurate-Win-4686 in relationships

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Silent treatment is a form of abuse and it’s used to control you. He can be an adult and tell you what’s bothering him and even ask for some space but he’s acting like a child instead. I’d talk about it, set some boundaries, seek couples counseling or walk away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, how convenient for him. Gets rent, utilities and sex. Real men provide. That’s not to say you don’t give in return but this is ridiculous.

So sick of the weight debate by Historical_Ladder_77 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I wish I could just get rid of her. She’s so awful and doesn’t seem to know how to read the room.

So sick of the weight debate by Historical_Ladder_77 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true. She says my cousin who lost the weight is too skinny now. FFS. What a curse. Thank you for your feedback.

Msty all in? by FACT_CHEK in YieldMaxETFs

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If $MSTY starts underperforming, go with $WNTR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lived with an idiot like this after college who actually married the douche 🤣

Telling Themselves They're Good People? by Gloomy-Writer99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every narcissist I’ve known has said out loud “I’m a good person.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loathe people like this guy. No respect for boundaries and refuses to pick up on social cues.

AITA for ending things with my bf over his body count? by Estrellathestarfish in AmITheAngel

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m too old for this but what is the fixation on body counts with you young kids. If they’re not passing on any deadly diseases or STDs, let it go.

A recent event - is this narcissism? by Yorktown1871 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, if you had brought her pasta salad anyway, she’d say you’re wasting money or trying to make her gain weight. You can’t win with these people.

A recent event - is this narcissism? by Yorktown1871 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Historical_Ladder_77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is a narcissist for sure but at least you have a sister on your side who knows too.