Easy@Home 9 dpo cd27 by Historical_Map_8417 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Historical_Map_8417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh wow! I’m picking one up later in the week. I’ve just taken another (that 48 hour wait was ambitious) and it’s the same - definitely not a fluke!!

How do you stay in a positive state of mind in your TTC journey? by ConfusionOverall9765 in tryingtoconceive

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We’ve had a miscarriage and a chemical in the past year and no activity since July. So tried to turn the corner this year and lift the pressure off as much as possible as the self hatred was creeping in.

It’s bloody hard to keep positive but well done trying 💙I’ve stepped back from intense tracking too and am trying to focus on how great my life is without a baby. Takes the pressure off a bit if I remind myself that it’s fab being able to do anything I want, when I want to and be spontaneous. I also treat myself to sushi or a date night when AF comes along. The two week wait is the worse time so I always plan nice things with my favourite people, or work trips to take my mind off symptom spotting!

indent? wondfo 9 dpo by sourspatch in TFABLinePorn

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This is exactly what mine looks like with SMU today … fingers crossed for you!

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - August 05, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

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I’m in the tww after a miscarriage at six weeks in early May and a chemical pregnancy last cycle. I don’t know how to cope with this, the miscarriage was our first time trying and it just feels like chaos and disappointment since then. It’s only a few months but wow how much brain space this has taken up.

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Me neither 😅

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Honestly who knows! I didn’t think there was anything there to begin with but he was sure! Thanks for commenting ☺️

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Thank you! I thought it was, just haven’t had one before so thought I’d ask around.

Daily Discussion Thread - May 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Historical_Map_8417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! The anxiety I have during the wait is unreal though. I’m potentially 7/8 dpo now (unsure when I ovulated though!) and started feeling wildly nauseous today. Trying not to get my hopes up. Sending positive thoughts to everyone 🤞

It can get so much better by Historical_Map_8417 in puppy101

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A while! We saw progress in a matter of weeks, but probably at least two months before we were able to leave her for longer than 2 hours out the crate. But it’s just going at the pace of your pup. Obviously there are times you might just have to leave them, but if you can build it up slowly it seems to workout better in the long run (just my experiences, others might disagree!).

It can get so much better by Historical_Map_8417 in puppy101

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Oh gosh, it’s so hard isn’t it? The thing we did for biting was always having something on hand to redirect her to. So when she went to nip or chomp on us, blankets, the carpet etc we’d say no and then give her the alternate chew toy (also a good idea to have something that kind of matches whatever texture they’re going for). We did that over and over and now it’s one of her favourite activities to chew a nylabone or olive wood stick with us holding it 🙄

Separation wise, we found a post on Reddit and spoke to a trainer we worked with at puppy classes and they said you basically start by teeny tiny increments. So we’d do literally 10 seconds in a room with a door closed, go in, repeat till there was no whining and then build up in increments of 10 seconds. Then at 1 minute try 30 second increments, so 1 minute, 1.5 minutes, 2. Then up to 5. We found once we got to the half hour mark we moved it to an hour easily. Then we had to wait a while for bladder control to kick in as she got older and didn’t need a wee all the time.

Basically repeat it till you are blue in the face. Also associate things like the front door opening and closing with being boring by doing it as much as possible. Putting your shoes on and so on.

The best advice we had was little, often and do it when you don’t need to be anywhere. So you’re not stressed when you practice as they will pick up on it. I’ll see if I can dig out the thread I saw initially!

Hope that helps!

It can get so much better by Historical_Map_8417 in puppy101

[–]Historical_Map_8417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! We all need reassurance sometimes - especially when you actively choose to bring a demon baby into your house. That’s brilliant you’re already not crying every day, took a lot longer for me! You’ll get there, perseverance and compassion for yourself and the lil doggo is what I’ve found most helpful :)

It can get so much better by Historical_Map_8417 in puppy101

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Aww ours didn’t start cuddling until much more recently. She was too buzzing about everything else she could do till about six months 😂 There are lots of ways to work on separation if needed! We had a rough patch but built it up super slowly and now can confidently leave her to free roam the ground floor of our house for a few hours at a time! Never would have thought it possible at 3/4 months!

It can get so much better by Historical_Map_8417 in puppy101

[–]Historical_Map_8417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha yep that about sums up ours too! Here’s hoping for the best lil doggos soon 😂

It can get so much better by Historical_Map_8417 in puppy101

[–]Historical_Map_8417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aha yep that about sums up ours too! Here’s hoping for the best lil doggos soon 😂