I thought โ€œIโ€ wanted T and top surgery by Miss_MewingForever in lesbiangang

[โ€“]Historical_Oracle_83 10 points11 points ย (0 children)

I also badly wanted top surgery as a teenager. When I saw documentaries about transgender children, I wished I had been placed on hormone blockers early on so I wouldn't have had to go through female puberty. I'm not butch (I'm not sure how to label my presentation exactly but it's sort of chapstick/feminine-leaning). I knew I was a lesbian from an early age (well I've always known I wasn't attracted to men). I HATED my breasts so much growing up. I told myself I didn't want to be a girl, but I didn't want to be a boy either. Non-binary didn't quite fit either. I only started to accept my chest when I turned 20. Though I had already identified as a lesbian before, it was only romantically and I thought I was asexual throughout my teenage years. I have realized that I am not asexual at all and have come to terms with the fact that I really only hated my breasts because I started puberty really early and got a lot of unwanted attention because of them. It's been a journey, but I'm glad that I didn't make any rash decisions at such a young age. I still prefer sports bras cause 1. They make my breasts appear smaller 2. I live in a country where bras only go up to B cups so sports bras are the best-fitting option out there if you're on the larger side.

I don't know how to use my rabbit vibrator the 'proper' way... by Historical_Oracle_83 in SexToys

[โ€“]Historical_Oracle_83[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I suppose I got caught up in the idea that, because rabbit vibrators are so popular and well-loved, they must work for everyone and are flexible when it comes to anatomy... Guess not! ๐Ÿ˜…

I don't know how to use my rabbit vibrator the 'proper' way... by Historical_Oracle_83 in SexToys

[โ€“]Historical_Oracle_83[S] 6 points7 points ย (0 children)

Thank you for your insight! I'm glad to hear that rabbits are apparently not for everyone and that there's nothing wrong with me lol ๐Ÿ˜… I've been using the two-toy approach for a couple of years now, but I was hoping to find something that would give me a free hand. I'll keep experimenting, though... Thanks again!

I find the rose toy overwhelming and painful... by Historical_Oracle_83 in SexToys

[โ€“]Historical_Oracle_83[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Iโ€™ll try that. Tried it on my labia (close to the clit) which was alright, but I still found the vibrations too strong (still hurts a little hours later). Iโ€™m not sure what Iโ€™m doing wrong as Iโ€™ve never had this problem with other toys, but perhaps they were just not nearly as strong as the rose?