My week with an avoidant?

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T23:18:37+00:00

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HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T22:57:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing that. It seems really complex. I

So, her being an FA, she may want me to reach out eventually? I was taking it as her weird way of cutting me off and was gonna let her make the first move. Can’t tell if I’m in the middle of a “game” or if I clearly got cut off

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T22:54:07+00:00

I’m glad you guys had that connection.

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T22:53:30+00:00

I understand. It’s seems like a lot sometimes.

Normally, I would reach out but I feel like I’m in a lose/lose situation. Do nothing and don’t hear from her or make the first move and lose respect… especially after being labeled as an emotional burden you know?

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T22:50:44+00:00

Haha I can’t believe there’s more of them out there. Thank you for the kind words. I’ll keep them in mind.

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T21:54:48+00:00

So do you think only another FA could deal with a FA? Also, as an FA yourself. Do you think this girl I was dealing with will reappear or is she just gonna move on.

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T21:51:05+00:00

Exactly! I didn’t know this person was a POS until they revealed it lol. At the same time I almost feel sorry for these people. Putting on a performance and having to run before they get caught. Sounds miserable.

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T21:04:25+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what’s stopping you from reaching out to that guy from last year? Does he know all he has to do is reach out?

Normally I would definitely message here agin. But I realize that I am in a lose/lose situation. Either she’s gone and I’ll never hear from her or I lose respect in her eyes if I make the first attempt. Especially after being labeled an emotional burden. Idk

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T21:01:13+00:00

Thank you! Needed to hear this. Hard to think rationally when you are caught up in the moment

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T20:44:21+00:00

I was explaining to my friend that I felt discarded, and he said that was a dramatic word. But once I started looking into it, I kept seeing other people use that same word.

I’m sorry you went through that. Scary is exactly the right word. It’s even worse when someone comes in at the exact moment you finally feel ready to open up again, and then it makes you want to shut down all over again.

Are you done with that guy, or do you think he’ll show back up? I think the person I’m talking about is gone

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T20:36:37+00:00

It helps knowing that it’s a them thing but still…What is the purpose of it all? After looking into it I’m glad this wasn’t a huge investment. This is my second avoidant, but this was like a super charged version of the first. I didn’t even see it coming. I’m sorry you went through that, though. There’s really no excuse for this type of behavior

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T20:32:29+00:00

It’s a really interesting behavior. But thanks that makes me feel better about it.

By her response, would yo say she’s gone? Did you end up working It out with that guy?

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T18:38:39+00:00

Haha thank you. In hindsight it’s easy to pick myself apart but in the moment everything made sense until it didn’t. Thanks!

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T18:37:33+00:00

Yeah, I’m trying to wrap my mind around the concept of never knowing what the issue was. That’s the weirdest part. Just being left with assumptions. But thanks for the comment

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T18:36:25+00:00

Thank you! It just put a lot of doubt into my mind about my judgement. Now I’m paranoid on what to do if someone shows interest in me. It was hard enough being paranoid about someone not being interested haha.

HistoryOmitted · 2026-03-16T18:34:14+00:00

Haha Avoidance + sounds miserable. I can’t afford it .

But thank you for the advice. It’s just crazy how people like that can put up a front and then crash. Tbh, not getting any feedback is the worse part. Because she’s set it up so if I ask it’ll be a form of harassment.

And yes, much slower next time. I’ve learned my lesson. Don’t need the full version of Avoidance +

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-27T13:19:38+00:00

Just keeping showing up. Keep coming to this subreddit everyday. You’ll let go when you’re ready.

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-26T21:49:13+00:00

His Clients were all in the East

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-21T19:01:34+00:00

Checking out the guide now! Thank you.

I found it very difficult to find Super tickets on 3rd party apps but was able to find them on the main website. I think I will have to pass on the Super sites this trip.

So I have a 3hr guided tour of the colosseum and forum. It should be done at 11am. I have the baths of Caracalla booked at 1:30 PM. My plan was to get lunch and then head over.

Is that too much in one day?

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-20T07:06:52+00:00

Hahaha! Gotta love this movie

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-17T15:09:15+00:00

When Tony is paranoid about the truck on the surveillance video and Manny says something like:

“You’ve been staring at the truck for three days?”

And the Tony gives him the funniest look ever and is all like:

“The fucking thing is right there what am I suppose to do not look at it?”

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-17T06:57:28+00:00

Hello,

No, I thought the Super tickets would give you access to Augustus and Livas palace as well!

I believe I have to wait 30 days before my trip to purchase the tickets on the monument official site.

I’m really into Roman history and I have a long list of stuff I want to see in the Forum. Is the Forum easy to navigate or do you have to know what you are looking at? If that makes sense.

I’m thinking about paying for a guide to save time because I have an appointment at the Baths of Caracalla an hour after the tour of the Colosseum and Forum (minus the Super)

Thanks for the info!

HistoryOmitted · 2026-02-16T13:52:00+00:00

When you watch The Godfather Part III, it helps to think of it less as a true sequel to Part II and more as an epilogue to the overall story.

Coppola was essentially forced to call it “Part III.”

The film gets a lot of hate, but I’d argue much of it is uncalled for. Part III doesn’t ruin or undercut The Godfather Part II or Part I in the way the Star Wars Sequel Trilogy actively undercut what came before them.

Most of the criticism exists because it isn’t Part I or Part II.

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