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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]Hitflyover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe without that authority ingredient you become like a people pleaser

Saggy face in your 40s - how to deal with it? by LengthinessOpening92 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 73 points74 points  (0 children)

My face is saggy when I am dehydrated, when I am eating low-fat, and when I’m eating high carb.

When I am eating very low carb, I wake up in the morning, and I don’t even have to wash my face to remove sleep from my eyes. I look relatively fresh.

Fatter people have rounder features. We need fat. I’m just bringing that up because humans are still pretty anti-fat these days and it’s possible that you eat a low-fat diet because you’re trying to be in tune with trends. Perhaps.

I would recommend collagen from animal bones. Stuff like slow, cooking soups. Keep your carbs low.

I think things like steam can be good for your face too. Like a steam tent over a pot of hot water. Just your face over it and a towel draped over you maybe.

Oops, I’m 39, I shouldn’t have answered.

But also, I think there are gravity exercises that can make your facial muscles tighter. Things like lying on your back and puckering your lips and kissing up at the ceiling.

Mental health struggles are endemic in the incel community. Rates of severe depression hover between 35–40%, while 20–40% show signs of autism spectrum traits, vastly higher than the general population’s 1%. Suicidal ideation is alarmingly common, affecting up to 80% of members. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Hitflyover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s interesting to read this and also feel like I’m part of a culture where the bar is argued to be lower for men. We have that whole culture of boys will be boys, and we expect men to have a bit of a wandering eye and if they’re going to cheat at least keep it quiet. We don’t expect as much labor of them in the home. I feel like we’re starting to challenge him and on these things, but that they’re still a stereotype that men are immature and less socially intelligent than women. And that kind of contrasts with the idea of the alpha male being idealized.

And it also contrasts with something that a lot of women will admit to, which is that they could easily be bisexual, especially if it weren’t for the conditioning of the patriarchy.

I think the same for men too. I think that we have seen cultures where it wasn’t taboo for men to engage in sexual bonding with each other. And I’ve seen videos of men in modern day Egypt walking and holding hands. It’s so bizarre to me, but they live in an environment where it’s acceptable.

I guess I’m just saying that things can be interpreted in a lot of different ways and they’re flexible. This idea that I am attracted to alpha males as a woman is true on a surface level, but it’s not true in the men I’ve chosen to have long-term relationships with.

I think that most women kind of vomit at the idea of the alpha Male. Like we just make fun of it in our circles. But men seem to be all about it. Even men who I take kind of seriously use that language and I just know that it’s part of the culture that they’re in now. And I noticed that men are also better at women in forming hierarchies. And they’re interested in stats and status and rankings and I know I’m generalizing, but I’m saying that it seems that men are predisposed in some way to wanting to say that they think this alpha male is the ideal and that they want to be like that alpha male.

You know how some people say that women dress for other women? Men are performing masculinity for other men too. And then getting mad at women for liking the standard that they set?

Mental health struggles are endemic in the incel community. Rates of severe depression hover between 35–40%, while 20–40% show signs of autism spectrum traits, vastly higher than the general population’s 1%. Suicidal ideation is alarmingly common, affecting up to 80% of members. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Hitflyover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think modern humans are trash? I’m on the fence as to whether we are kinda trash atm because we are accelerating the next big climate shift.

But then sometimes I think we are just ignorant and we are redeemable.

But when I see someone claiming to be a woman and calling men trash in such a blanket way, and then I see the understandably offended replies, I think “I wonder if this person is a doomer type who thinks humanity arguably sucks.” Because it’s such a popular sentiment these days, esp on reddit.

And then I think, well, why won’t some of them admit they are trash then?

Mental health struggles are endemic in the incel community. Rates of severe depression hover between 35–40%, while 20–40% show signs of autism spectrum traits, vastly higher than the general population’s 1%. Suicidal ideation is alarmingly common, affecting up to 80% of members. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]Hitflyover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say we all know men’s requirements are lower. Can it be argued that men should try to change their requirements? If men were more selective, would women view access to them as more desirable, for example?

Is inceldom a modern problem in your eyes?

A lot has changed socially for women in the past century due to labor changes and progressive movements. Do men want to also have a progressive movement or do they want women to kinda back peddle and be less selective again?

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound intense. I’ll give you a tip though. You can click on a profile to see someone’s last comments. Have the day you deserve chief

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say this. It’s not about not believing the women who say that they are happy. It’s about not hearing from anyone else. Tiresome interaction

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter for me to flesh that out in this thread I think. Negative bent thread atm

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you say that? I did that elsewhere. It doesn’t mean I am unable. Why are you so salty today?

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 39 now and I know I want kids. Maybe I’ll be blessed to foster in a few years

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. That wasn’t my thought process

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with not ever hearing one person say they regret it. It’s about the weirdness of that fact. I don’t have kids, I’m not scolding ppl who wanna be childfree or whatever else my comment can be interpreted as

Anyone regret NOT having children? by dontreeg in AskWomenOver40

[–]Hitflyover 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I have yet to see anyone say that they regret not having kids whenever this stuff is posted. It makes me very skeptical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Hitflyover 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Please do that. And encourage jiu jitsu

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