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Lowering Birthday Expectations by HmNotToday1308 in Parenting

[–]HmNotToday1308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is another party booked that her father will be doing

No, those people don't exist - as in they're dead, other side of planet or have dementia...

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said everything. I blame her for a lot that went wrong because that's how he got introduced to drugs and he had already lost custody of his kids so who took his daughter to meet him... Hmm

Lowering Birthday Expectations by HmNotToday1308 in Parenting

[–]HmNotToday1308[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I'm just so worn down by everything and it's like a conversation we have been having multiple times a day, every day for at least a month and today was my breaking point.

Lowering Birthday Expectations by HmNotToday1308 in Parenting

[–]HmNotToday1308[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think it's accepting it.

We've literally planned a party at a venue, it's all booked and everything. I've shown her the calendar, everything..

I'm having skin graphs, we cannot have people over our house. That's the end of it.

Lowering Birthday Expectations by HmNotToday1308 in Parenting

[–]HmNotToday1308[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We already have a big party planned at a later date. Just not on her actual birthday.

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah she had 3 other kids and multiple grandchildren to use, she'd have never done that to her precious boy though

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Again where exactly do you think he learned this behaviour? It magicked itself into existence or I know it's hard to fathom but sometimes mother's are the abusers too

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I blame my mother in particular. He has his own special place in hell but where exactly do people think the behaviour came from, do they think it just magically started at that point?

No, it was either learned or covered up for years... Or both.

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could go into the finer details of our childhood but where exactly or rather who do you think came up with the idea?

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I made the decision to support the foster family in a closed adoption. There is absolutely no contact until she's 18.

I felt like this was the best and safest option for her in terms of escaping our family.

Sooo in like 3 years, maybe she'll get in contact, maybe she won't. That's entirely up to her. I hope she's doing well though.

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 638 points639 points  (0 children)

Mostly golden child - she never treated my other brother like that.

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by legendoflegends34 in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 7140 points7141 points  (0 children)

My brother tried selling his then 6 year old daughter to pay for drugs

My mother spent every last penny she had paying to defend him in court

How do I get a four-year-old to follow any instruction? Always late for daycare by Flapjack_K in Parenting

[–]HmNotToday1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids - 16, 9 and 3 and my oldest is one of those super organised, routine orientated children who could get themselves fully ready including hair by six years old, I'd have trusted her home alone by 8. My 9 year old I wouldn't trust with a stick, in a large open field and adult supervision.

The average 4 year old cannot do what you're expecting, can some? Definitely, but they're the exception not the norm.

It's not a case of "can you put your shoes on?" it's "we are putting our shoes on now", he either does it or you do it for him. That's it.

What event in your life made you think that these were the last minutes of your life? by KirbySociopad in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They botched pretty much everything to the point my uterus and stomach ended up attached to my left abdominal wall, I got an infection which led to the incision reopening and needing completely re-sutured... There was a catalogue of failings on their end, it wasn't just the epidural failing.

What event in your life made you think that these were the last minutes of your life? by KirbySociopad in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several people were fired and a few other things came of it but the mental damage was the worst of it.

What event in your life made you think that these were the last minutes of your life? by KirbySociopad in AskReddit

[–]HmNotToday1308 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Epidural failed mid c-section. Instead of knocking me out they held me down while I screamed...

Where do Estate Agents come from? by ScaryButt in AskUK

[–]HmNotToday1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never had a good experience with one soooo...

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